GF of 3 years left me yesterday....

[Pushead2]

Once again too, i know a few people read I'm going for my degree but I'm not 21 & 22. I know LUV asked how young I was to had a few relationships. I'm 26.

It sucks, 26 & restarting. She'll be 28 & restarting. I feel a bit better about the whole situation. if she comes back great & if not great too.....

I won't do it because I'm not ready but I know for a fact there are two or three girls that would like to go out with me. So I know the grass is greener on the other side.

I appreciate all the love & support. I really mean that & the fresh ideas everyone has expressed have been helpful. It's time to shake it off & make 2011 go from a bad start to better start & even better finish.

[beach tribe]

I'm really sorry to hear this bro. These things can be HARD. Whatever you do don't bitch up. Don't beg and whine. Be strong my friend.

Nice, but firm. Be accepting of the things she has said, but don't say you're gonna change.
Be self sufficient. Do not blow up her phone.

The more you try to pull her back to you, the further you will push her away. It's 50/50 right now IMO.

If it doesn't work out in the end. I'm really sorry, but we've all been there.
I know I wanted to die as I laid face first in the carpet for about a month, and carried the pain for what seemed like forever.
That taught me a lot, but I'm not going to lie. It still stings 9 years later. The wounds heal but the scars never go away.
I don't sweat it though......






cause my new GF is WAY HOTTER, and is into more of the same shit that I am.
Old GF used to give me shit about my Chiefs addiction. This GF buys me an Eric Berry jersey, and herself a little tight pink #7. Oh man I grab her by her ass, and throw he on the bed then I....*ahem*..... sorry.



Seriously though, its not the end of the world, even though it feels like it.

OK here comes the REALLY hard part. I'm not doing this to hurt you, but I know women.

99% chance she's met someone. And if you guys are under 25 like I think you are. This is probably the best thing that ever happened to you. If you were ready to break out the ring, her doing this now IS the best thing you could've hoped for. Live your life dude. By your own rules. Do what YOU want to do. Bang some strange.

And just as a word of advice, make sure you've survived something seriously straining, and came out of it stronger before you break out the finger cuff.

[Pushead2]

Originally Posted by beach tribe

I'm really sorry to hear this bro. These things can be HARD. Whatever you do don't bitch up. Don't beg and whine. Be strong my friend.

Nice, but firm. Be accepting of the things she has said, but don't say you're gonna change.
Be self sufficient. Do not blow up her phone.

The more you try to pull her back to you, the further you will push her away. It's 50/50 right now IMO.

If it doesn't work out in the end. I'm really sorry, but we've all been there.
I know I wanted to die as I laid face first in the carpet for about a month, and carried the pain for what seemed like forever.
That taught me a lot, but I'm not going to lie. It still stings 9 years later. The wounds heal but the scars never go away.
I don't sweat it though......






cause my new GF is WAY HOTTER, and is into more of the same shit that I am.
Old GF used to give me shit about my Chiefs addiction. This GF buys me an Eric Berry jersey, and herself a little tight pink #7. Oh man I grab her by her ass, and throw he on the bed then I....*ahem*..... sorry.



Seriously though, its not the end of the world, even though it feels like it.

OK here comes the REALLY hard part. I'm not doing this to hurt you, but I know women.

99% chance she's met someone. And if you guys are under 25 like I think you are. This is probably the best thing that ever happened to you. If you were ready to break out the ring, her doing this now IS the best thing you could've hoped for. Live your life dude. By your own rules. Do what YOU want to do. Bang some strange.

And just as a word of advice, make sure you've survived something seriously straining, and came out of it stronger before you break out the finger cuff.

She hasn't met anyone else.....we've always had honesty. I've left someone before because I was interested in someone else & I wasn't torn up one bit. With her she's hysterical crying, if there was another guy she would be hurt but not hysterical.

and today I feel good.....I feel a little bit better. I have a ton of friends & I have hockey buddies so I'll be keeping busy with that & finishing my degree.

So life will go on....

[beach tribe]

Originally Posted by Pushead2

She hasn't met anyone else.....we've always had honesty. I've left someone before because I was interested in someone else & I wasn't torn up one bit. With her she's hysterical crying, if there was another guy she would be hurt but not hysterical.

and today I feel good.....I feel a little bit better. I have a ton of friends & I have hockey buddies so I'll be keeping busy with that & finishing my degree.

So life will go on....

I've left a lot of girls with zero prospects on my radar. But a girl's brain doesn't work like ours does.................My God. What is wrong with me. I'm sorry dude.
You're right bro. Your'e right......

Everyday will be better.

[Ming the Merciless]

Originally Posted by Pushead2

She hasn't met anyone else.....we've always had honesty.

SOrry bro...

You may be wrong here....

DOn't just assume this if she is acting like you say she is. I was with someone for longer than 4 years and she acted almost exactly how you describe..

And I found out much later she was a liar and cheated on me.

Just ****ing be warned, they are not like us.

[Pushead2]

Originally Posted by Pawnmower

SOrry bro...

You may be wrong here....

DOn't just assume this if she is acting like you say she is. I was with someone for longer than 4 years and she acted almost exactly how you describe..

And I found out much later she was a liar and cheated on me.

Just ****ing be warned, they are not like us.

I'm just not going to sit & think about that because it will do me no good you know?


She said there wasn't & that's that for me.

[beach tribe]

Originally Posted by Pushead2

I'm just not going to sit & think about that because it will do me no good you know?


She said there wasn't & that's that for me.

And you know her better than any of us. Don't let what we've said creep into your head if you feel otherwise. Like you said, what good will that kind of thinking do? NONE.

[Dunit35]

Keep your head up.

Three years ago I had to leave a relationship and I thought it was the end of the world. I am now happier than ever with my fiance of 16 months. She is so much better than any women I've ever dated. She's into sports, guns, cooking, cleaning, playing video games with me...what more could a man ask for?

[beach tribe]

Originally Posted by Dunit35

Keep your head up.

Three years ago I had to leave a relationship and I thought it was the end of the world. I am now happier than ever with my fiance of 16 months. She is so much better than any women I've ever dated. She's into sports, guns, cooking, cleaning, playing video games with me...what more could a man ask for?

**** yeah dude. And I will bet anything that if this guy just lets this chick walk, he'll find someone that he can be himself around, and not have to worry about someone trying to change him.

[Pushead2]

Originally Posted by beach tribe

**** yeah dude. And I will bet anything that if this guy just lets this chick walk, he'll find someone that he can be himself around, and not have to worry about someone trying to change him.

for sure, I've ceased contact on all ground. It's time to go forward with or without her.

[beach tribe]

Originally Posted by Pushead2

for sure, I've ceased contact on all ground. It's time to go forward with or without her.

You're gonna be fine dude. I turned into a biotch the first time this happened to me. The outta nowhere thing. I had actually already bought the ring. I am sooooooooo glad I never gave it to her. She'd probably be driving around in my Jeep right now.

[Pushead2]

Originally Posted by beach tribe

You're gonna be fine dude. I turned into a biotch the first time this happened to me. The outta nowhere thing. I had actually already bought the ring. I am sooooooooo glad I never gave it to her. She'd probably be driving around in my Jeep right now.

yeah me too, a lot of people gave me shit for waiting to propose but there were factors that were in place that HAD to be finished first.

I'm glad & I know she's glad it didn't get that far too.

[Dunit35]

I ceased all contact with her probably a month after we left each other and it felt like a weight was lifted off my back. With the help of a fellow cp member, I was getting much better daily. You'll be on your feet and ready to rock out before you know it.

[Pushead2]

Originally Posted by Dunit35

I ceased all contact with her probably a month after we left each other and it felt like a weight was lifted off my back. With the help of a fellow cp member, I was getting much better daily. You'll be on your feet and ready to rock out before you know it.

thanks dude, within a few weeks I'll be fine. I got get friends that surround me. It doesn't hurt that I'm an alternate captain on my hockey team so a lot of the players have been supportive of me & making sure I'm ok. It's like a small family we have.