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Well Friendo, Is he just that way with her or other students (female)? He could be just trying to bond with them to earn trust that he is going to lead them in the right direction?
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Most of the Choir directors I had in HS were gay. Maybe he's a "hair guy"
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Shave your daughter's head and make her wear an "Amy Winehouse" wig until she is 35. Problem solved.
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08-20-2008, 11:05 AM | #8 |
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I wouldn't worry unless you see him breaking some of the main codes: being alone with students, unnecessarily hugging...I'd also pay attention to her facebook or myspace and make sure he isn't on one of those and if he is, pay close attention to his interchanges with people. It's easier on myspace because you don't have to ask to be "friends" to see their profile...but there is a lot of inappropriateness, imo, between students and teachers on those sites and by inappropriate, I don't even mean sex stuff, I just mean that some teachers shouldn't be "friends" or "buddies" with students, but should have some boundaries.
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08-20-2008, 11:05 AM | #9 |
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I haven't been around the program long enough to really know. One of her best friends is in this group also, and we are good friends with the Mom who btw is a counselor in the district. I do plan to bounce my concerns off her.
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That's a tough one. You don't want to jump to conclusions but at the same time I don't think you should ignore your instincts either. Maybe you or mom should have a talk with your daughter. Not necessarily about that teacher, just about being a little cautious around adult males. Not distrustful, just cautious.
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that's what I was thinking too-it's easy for her to be "star-struck" and I'm not at all sure I didn't recognize a little of that-thanks! Last edited by Friendo; 08-20-2008 at 11:09 AM.. Reason: coz |
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08-20-2008, 11:08 AM | #13 |
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I'm 23...
When I was in high school, everyone had some serious suspicions our varsity basketball coach was fooling around with several students... It was always more of a joke because we knew there was no way he could actually be sleeping with these high school girls considering he was mid 30's, had a wife and a newborn...he was an attractive, cocky guy but no way... Wrong. He got busted in the country with an 18 year old chick who he had been sleeping with for over a year... Turned out he had sex with 6, 7 high school girls and 3 or 4 teachers... Needless to say he doesn't have his teaching certificate anymore and he skipped town...but you'd be amazed. If you see the signs, watch out...because the girl that the coach got caught with never lived it down and eventually left town, too. |
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Friendo, I don't have kids, but I would tell you that you are not pulling this out of left field. It is a pretty valid concern. I'd watch it closely if I were you. A lot of people I work with have expressed similar concerns.
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