Personal advice sought, v. II.

[Coogs]

If you have to confront him about it, do it suttely. Have a guys day out. Golfing or something. Something where there are good looking gals and beer around. A setting that will allow some good old "man talk" like "check that gal out. Damn... she's fine. I'd like to jump her... how about you?" Let it lead into some other gals from you two guys past. And when you get to the particular gal in question, say "Oh man... how about ______? I would love to jump her."

You will probably know from his response weather to pursue the matter, or move on to another gal. And have another gal in mind in case you need to advance the conversation quickly.

And who knows, maybe even a week or two later, he may confide in you about the situation. But be patient... and let him bring the situation to the forefront after you have led him there. Play stupid if he goes there... whenever that may be.

And if he never goes there... follow the other peoples advise and do not confront him/or her with the news.