Am I being a prude or have the rules of dating changed DRASTICALLY?

[Saul Good]

Originally Posted by memyselfI

To be fair, I've said what I think she is in this situation and that she is not using wise judgment. I wonder what type of guy makes a move like this since I am not a guy and don't know what the thinking is behind a move like this.

She's using terrible judgment. It's probably a bad decision on his part too, but it doesn't make him a bad person because he has no obligation to the kid. She's the bad person because she's placing her own desire for money, sex, validation, companionship, etc. ahead of the most important thing; the need of her daughter.