Life When did you lose interest? - Page 4

MaxFects · 01-27-2009, 03:31 PM

I've been living with my girlfriend for awhile and we've been together for a little more than two years now. While I haven't lost interest in her, i'm not all that into the sex anymore. She's definitely the initiator now and I find myself becoming more flirtatious with other women.

I've cheated on girls in the past, but don't wanna go that route this time. I plan on trying to put down the xbox this week and stepping up the flowers and romance thing. It should also help that football season is wrapping up

How long did it take for you guys if ever? What did you do to help?

MaxFects · 01-27-2009, 04:52 PM

BJs? not a porn star or anything but good. She's hot also, but no pics! not after snitching that's been going on around here.

Oh and I know about asking advice on a forum, but I'm just more curious about how common this is. Like if it can be an up and down thing, or it happens once and then you've fixed the problem, or if it was never the same again.

Pioli Zombie · 01-27-2009, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Stewie

This is why women invented marriage and lawyers. They become boring, fat, bitchy, demanding, and downright nasty. Then your dumb ass figures out you married Beelezebub with an attitude and your sitting with a 6-pack wondering where 1/2 your shit went.

more than half!!!!!!!

i settled so she'd stop yelling at me!!!!!!!

see below

Katipan · 01-27-2009, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by StcChief

you sound like My X.

She is of course a beautiful, charming, sophisticated woman of high values and higher morals.

stevieray · 01-27-2009, 05:32 PM

I haven't after 17 years....I'm very blessed.

..you'll get what you give...

JOhn · 01-27-2009, 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Pioli Zombie

im starting a divorce care group here on Chiefs Planet.

whose with me???????????

* let this in no way influence the originator of this thread one way or another about marriage or long term relationships

Well another 2x divorce here

At least this time I got the kids

Extra Point · 01-27-2009, 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by stevieray

..you'll get what you give...

THIS

Frosty · 01-27-2009, 06:01 PM

I've been married for 20 years and still can't keep my hands off of my wife. No loss of interest here at all.

rad · 01-27-2009, 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Gonzo

Eh...It happens on occasion when you've been with the same person for a long time. Iv'e been with my wife for almost 15 yrs now. She's still smoking hot so that helps and the fact that she's a freak in the sack.....

One thing I might suggest is trying to hit a line drive up the 2 hole. That's exciting when she's not expecting it.

Try introducing things like toys, lingerie, posting nude pics on C.P. etc. That'll always help.

That's called a "Southern Trespass".

**RNR** · 01-27-2009, 06:23 PM

She aint the one or this would not be a question you would be asking.

StcChief · 01-27-2009, 06:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Katipan

She WAS of course a beautiful, charming, sophisticated woman of high values and higher morals.

FYP. Morals, sophistication, charm, values all slipped.... eventually the beauty will too. aging

is bitch.

PastorMikH · 01-27-2009, 06:27 PM

In may I will have been married to one woman for 20 years. We dated for a year before marriage. So, for amost 21 years, I have commited myself to this one relationship and this one relationship only. Through this almost 20 years of marriage, I have yet to lose interest in her as a person, nor have I lost interest in her intimately.

I'll let you know if I ever do, but I have a feeling that as long as I keep investing in our relationship like I should I'll lose the ability to be intimate with her before I lose the desire to.

**RNR** · 01-27-2009, 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by PastorMikH

In may I will have been married to one woman for 20 years. We dated for a year before marriage. So, for amost 21 years, I have commited myself to this one relationship and this one relationship only. Through this almost 20 years of marriage, I have yet to lose interest in her as a person, nor have I lost interest in her intimately.

I'll let you know if I ever do, but I have a feeling that as long as I keep investing in our relationship like I should I'll lose the ability to be intimate with her before I lose the desire to.

Unlike my last reply she is the one. Congrats!

StcChief · 01-27-2009, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by rad

That's called a "Southern Trespass".

I'm gonna ask my 'bama buddy about this term.

Hammock Parties · 01-27-2009, 06:48 PM

How old are you? Guys lose libido as they age.

rad · 01-27-2009, 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by StcChief

I'm gonna ask my 'bama buddy about this term.

It's also in the UD but we've called it that for years up here:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...thern+trespass

01-27-2009, 03:31 PM
MaxFects Starter Join Date: Oct 2007 Casino cash: $10004900	When did you lose interest? I've been living with my girlfriend for awhile and we've been together for a little more than two years now. While I haven't lost interest in her, i'm not all that into the sex anymore. She's definitely the initiator now and I find myself becoming more flirtatious with other women. I've cheated on girls in the past, but don't wanna go that route this time. I plan on trying to put down the xbox this week and stepping up the flowers and romance thing. It should also help that football season is wrapping up How long did it take for you guys if ever? What did you do to help?
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01-27-2009, 04:52 PM	#46
MaxFects Starter Join Date: Oct 2007 Casino cash: $10004900	BJs? not a porn star or anything but good. She's hot also, but no pics! not after snitching that's been going on around here. Oh and I know about asking advice on a forum, but I'm just more curious about how common this is. Like if it can be an up and down thing, or it happens once and then you've fixed the problem, or if it was never the same again. __________________
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01-27-2009, 05:32 PM	#49
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01-27-2009, 06:01 PM	#52
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