GF of 3 years left me yesterday....

[Frosty]

Sounds like a modern version of constantly driving by the ex-gf's house to see if there are any strange cars in the driveway.

[Pushead2]

Originally Posted by Frosty

Sounds like a modern version of constantly driving by the ex-gf's house to see if there are any strange cars in the driveway.

I haven't done since that first night when I was hysterical, now it's a dull urge. I just don't want to cave in that's all.

I've made great strides in the last few days, just need some advice to keep going forward.

[Frosty]

Originally Posted by Pushead2

I haven't done since that first night when I was hysterical, now it's a dull urge. I just don't want to cave in that's all.

I've made great strides in the last few days, just need some advice to keep going forward.

Sorry. I haven't read the whole thread, so wasn't saying that you were doing the driving thing. I just remember how painful the checking up on the ex was, especially when you found/saw something that you didn't like. It's probably best to let it go, especially since she would probably be very pissed if she found out you were checking her mail.

[Pushead2]

Originally Posted by Frosty

Sorry. I haven't read the whole thread, so wasn't saying that you were doing the driving thing. I just remember how painful the checking up on the ex was, especially when you found/saw something that you didn't like. It's probably best to let it go, especially since she would probably be very pissed if she found out you were checking her mail.

agree & I understand. Just a bit tough, just looking for tips for when I get the urge.