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12-24-2012, 04:31 PM | #1 |
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12-24-2012, 04:37 PM | #2 |
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12-24-2012, 05:29 PM | #3 |
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12-24-2012, 05:04 PM | #4 | |
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He's planning on marrying this chick. I'd say it's a good idea. I'd have zero problems with a woman of mine reading my text messages. Also, I'd be smart enough to delete anything I wouldn't want her to read. My biggest problem with this is why she felt she needed to lie about her feelings about his family. |
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12-24-2012, 01:06 AM | #5 |
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I don't think you can just pretend you never read that and act like all's well.
Doing that will put everything else she says/does in question. Do approach it cautiously, even with an apology for looking at her texts but just letting her know how hurt you feel. If you come off accusatory in any way, she'll get defensive and focus on you reading her texts. If you share how hurt you are in an "I feel" kind of way, you'll probably fare much better. Just don't make any references to Jovan Belcher during the conversation. |
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12-24-2012, 01:06 AM | #6 |
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Repeat some of the comments made in the text during the family get together. That could be fun.
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12-24-2012, 01:07 AM | #7 |
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oooooo,, this!!!
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12-24-2012, 01:10 AM | #8 |
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Heh. "Remember that one Christmas when Jim Jones had that one girl he was engaged to, and started rambling off all those nasty texts he saw verbatim? What was her name again?"
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12-24-2012, 01:09 AM | #9 |
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I am very poor in relationships. what I would do is not say anything and sit on it. and then I would probably bring up in the next fight at a very inappropriate time.
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12-24-2012, 01:09 AM | #10 |
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You seem blindsided by this, so she's obviously very good at putting up a false front. Which means she's a skilled liar. If she's lying about this, what else is she lying about?
One word of advice, though. Confront her AFTER Christmas. Don't **** up the holiday for your family. Take the high road for another couple of days. |
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12-24-2012, 01:11 AM | #11 | |
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12-24-2012, 01:12 AM | #12 | |
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Your fiancee' has trust issues if she can't talk to you about stuff like this. Might be a blessing that you found all of this out before you married her, maybe. |
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12-24-2012, 01:13 AM | #13 |
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12-24-2012, 01:17 AM | #15 |
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