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Brando · 04-05-2005, 02:18 AM

bitch called the 5-0 on me tonight because we were having an argument. since she knows I would never hurt her she told them that I was trying to hurt myself. I got lucky. Cops talked to both of us and called BS and told her that she needed to go somewhere else. when they first showed up they said that they would have to take me to the looney bin for a 96 hour evaluation. luckily the officer was pretty understanding.

teedubya · 04-05-2005, 05:53 AM

Yo Brando... get a storage unit for one month, and rent a hotel room or something for the rest of this month.

Get away from psychokunt.

trndobrd · 04-05-2005, 06:25 AM

When in doubt, always listen to Paul Simon. He knows.

The problem is all inside your head
She said to me
The answer is easy if you
Take it logically
I'd like to help you in your struggle
To be free
There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover

She said it's really not my habit
To intrude
Furthermore, I hope my meaning
Won't be lost or misconstrued
But I'll repeat myself
At the risk of being crude
There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover

CHORUS:
You Just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don't need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don't need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free

She said it grieves me so
To see you in such pain
I wish there was something I could do
To make you smile again
I said I appreciate that
And would you please explain
About the fifty ways

She said why don't we both
Just sleep on it tonight
And I believe in the morning
You'll begin to see the light
And then she kissed me
And I realized she probably was right
There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover

CHORUS

KCWolfman · 04-05-2005, 06:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by trndobrd

When in doubt, always listen to Paul Simon. He knows.

Hmm, I always thought the song was There Must Be 50 Ways to Love Your Lever.

**morphius** · 04-05-2005, 07:10 AM

One should never really underestimate the sound of one hundred friends yelling, "RUN!!!" at the same time. When that happens, don't look back, just book it the F out of there. Not only does this hold true for relationships, but also works well for fireworks displays and many other deadly moments.

MOhillbilly · 04-05-2005, 07:16 AM

wish the hardest thing i had to deal w/ was some skank playing w/ my head.

seems like along time ago id let a bitch get me down.

dont worry someday something will come along and break you and everything you thought was a big deal before wont matter anymore.

**morphius** · 04-05-2005, 07:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MOhillbilly

wish the hardest thing i had to deal w/ was some skank playing w/ my head.

seems like along time ago id let a bitch get me down.

dont worry someday something will come along and break you and everything you thought was a big deal before wont matter anymore.

Now there are some words of encouragement...

Morphius
Pardon me, I think I have a suicide to attend to...

Mark M · 04-05-2005, 07:28 AM

Two words:

Restraining order.

MM
~~

Duck Dog · 04-05-2005, 07:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mark M

Two words:

Restraining order.

MM
~~

Yep. Be proactive and get a restraining order. It will force her to stop fugging with you.

Fat Elvis · 04-05-2005, 08:00 AM

Run, Forrest, Run!

**Rain Man** · 04-05-2005, 08:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ali Chi3fs

Yo Brando... get a storage unit for one month, and rent a hotel room or something for the rest of this month.

Get away from psychokunt.

Yep, yep, yep. Clear everything out of the house when she's not there (including the TV, dammit), and just get away from her. She's nothing but trouble. Just clear out.

04-05-2005, 08:17 AM

Dude - you can get one of those hotel suites by the week for $150-200. Do that or go to the buddy's home. The next cop isn't gonna be as understanding as this one was. During my period with the ex-wife where we were deciding to get divorced, the cops were called more than half a dozen times - all by her except once. I got hauled off twice and she spent the night in jail the one time I called them. Nobody was in danger any of those times, it was part of the posturing and gamesmanship of the split. You're gonna spend the night in jail the next time and probably $1500 on an attorney like I did.

04-05-2005, 08:20 AM

FWIW, I saw this one coming a mile away. I've been there. The dude's pride dictates he has everything under control. My friends were all telling me the same things you see on this thread. It wasn't until afterwards when I saw how screwed up I was.

We can't force you to do anything, Brandon. We can offer sound advice with no emotional attachment. Every decision you make at this point is based on emotion. You won't likely make good decisions under those circumstances.

**ChiTown** · 04-05-2005, 08:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Phobia

Dude - you can get one of those hotel suites by the week for $150-200. Do that or go to the buddy's home. The next cop isn't gonna be as understanding as this one was. During my period with the ex-wife where we were deciding to get divorced, the cops were called more than half a dozen times - all by her except once. I got hauled off twice and she spent the night in jail the one time I called them. Nobody was in danger any of those times, it was part of the posturing and gamesmanship of the split. You're gonna spend the night in jail the next time and probably $1500 on an attorney like I did.

Yep.

Same thing happened to my brother with his ex-wife.. Get out immediately, put your chit in storage and separate yourself from that bidge for good. After 11 years, my brother is still trying to recover from all the damage (financial and otherwise) that his ex did to him.

Good luck.

**Bwana** · 04-05-2005, 08:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mark M

Two words:

Restraining order.

MM
~~

Darn right, pack your bags, put your things in storage and get a restraining order before the gunt really snaps and decides to stick you with a steak knife. It sounds like things have regressed to the level where it's not safe around there.

R&GHomer · 04-05-2005, 11:08 AM

Just be thankful she pulled this shit before you got married and had kids. I'm currently getting divorced and my wife is being a total bitch.

We got into an argument about a month ago and I broke a picture... My picture, an award I got while in the service before I even met her. The cops show up and they took me to jail because of the picture. I explained to the officer that I broke it on my desk and that she wasn't even in the room, but did that matter? Hell NO! What a bunch of ****ing crap. Oh, and they would not let me bond out without seeing a judge, and then they wouldn't let me go home for three ****ing days.

I didn't even have a record! nada zip. Not even a ****ing speeding ticket in the last 13 years. YES I'M Bitter! **** the system if they are going to treat people like that.

04-05-2005, 02:18 AM
Brando Swiss Family GRobinson Join Date: Sep 2004 Casino cash: $7814036	anyone out there? I need to talk bitch called the 5-0 on me tonight because we were having an argument. since she knows I would never hurt her she told them that I was trying to hurt myself. I got lucky. Cops talked to both of us and called BS and told her that she needed to go somewhere else. when they first showed up they said that they would have to take me to the looney bin for a 96 hour evaluation. luckily the officer was pretty understanding.
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04-05-2005, 05:53 AM	#16
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04-05-2005, 06:25 AM	#17
trndobrd 'Stachecicle Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: The Tolerance Box Casino cash: $3705087	When in doubt, always listen to Paul Simon. He knows. The problem is all inside your head She said to me The answer is easy if you Take it logically I'd like to help you in your struggle To be free There must be fifty ways To leave your lover She said it's really not my habit To intrude Furthermore, I hope my meaning Won't be lost or misconstrued But I'll repeat myself At the risk of being crude There must be fifty ways To leave your lover Fifty ways to leave your lover CHORUS: You Just slip out the back, Jack Make a new plan, Stan You don't need to be coy, Roy Just get yourself free Hop on the bus, Gus You don't need to discuss much Just drop off the key, Lee And get yourself free She said it grieves me so To see you in such pain I wish there was something I could do To make you smile again I said I appreciate that And would you please explain About the fifty ways She said why don't we both Just sleep on it tonight And I believe in the morning You'll begin to see the light And then she kissed me And I realized she probably was right There must be fifty ways To leave your lover Fifty ways to leave your lover CHORUS __________________ "I don't really think there is a need to raise or debate this point." -jAZ
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04-05-2005, 07:10 AM	#19
morphius World's finest morphius Join Date: Aug 2000 Casino cash: $6505027	One should never really underestimate the sound of one hundred friends yelling, "RUN!!!" at the same time. When that happens, don't look back, just book it the F out of there. Not only does this hold true for relationships, but also works well for fireworks displays and many other deadly moments.
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04-05-2005, 07:16 AM	#20
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04-05-2005, 07:28 AM	#22
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04-05-2005, 08:17 AM	#26
Phobia Guest Casino cash: $	Dude - you can get one of those hotel suites by the week for $150-200. Do that or go to the buddy's home. The next cop isn't gonna be as understanding as this one was. During my period with the ex-wife where we were deciding to get divorced, the cops were called more than half a dozen times - all by her except once. I got hauled off twice and she spent the night in jail the one time I called them. Nobody was in danger any of those times, it was part of the posturing and gamesmanship of the split. You're gonna spend the night in jail the next time and probably $1500 on an attorney like I did.
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04-05-2005, 08:20 AM	#27
Phobia Guest Casino cash: $	FWIW, I saw this one coming a mile away. I've been there. The dude's pride dictates he has everything under control. My friends were all telling me the same things you see on this thread. It wasn't until afterwards when I saw how screwed up I was. We can't force you to do anything, Brandon. We can offer sound advice with no emotional attachment. Every decision you make at this point is based on emotion. You won't likely make good decisions under those circumstances.
Posts: n/a

04-05-2005, 11:08 AM	#30
R&GHomer Veteran Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Olathe Casino cash: $10004900	Just be thankful she pulled this shit before you got married and had kids. I'm currently getting divorced and my wife is being a total bitch. We got into an argument about a month ago and I broke a picture... My picture, an award I got while in the service before I even met her. The cops show up and they took me to jail because of the picture. I explained to the officer that I broke it on my desk and that she wasn't even in the room, but did that matter? Hell NO! What a bunch of **ing crap. Oh, and they would not let me bond out without seeing a judge, and then they wouldn't let me go home for three ing days. I didn't even have a record! nada zip. Not even a ing speeding ticket in the last 13 years. YES I'M Bitter! ** the system if they are going to treat people like that. __________________ Tod Haley: "I just want to coach well, have our team play well and make this city proud of us again."
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