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11-19-2012, 01:41 PM | #1 | |
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I don't know if his mom has a history of bad decisions or not - is this just abnormal and a bad deal because she's trying to live her life for the first time in forever without his father (died 4 years ago) and she's just in a hell of a bad relationship? If so, then he needs to support his mother and not bail out on her - regardless of how f'ed up this could be... Family is family, he doesn't show up and the drunk boyfriend wins and further dictates how life rolls.
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11-19-2012, 01:49 PM | #3 | |
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The drunk boyfriend is there 24x7 and has complete control of the situation. Him showing up on Thanksgiving only means the BF has to wait until he leaves to start being an asshole again. Not showing up tells his mother loud and clear that he doesn't approve. This isn't about the BF, this is about his mother. |
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Again - lots of back story here that is not known.
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11-19-2012, 02:08 PM | #5 | |
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Him showing up proves nothing since things go back to "normal" the minute he closes the door. |
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Well, I suppose he should just say adios to Mom and he'll catch her on the flipside when she kicks Mr Wonderful to the curb.
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You're all warm and fuzzy, aren't ya big guy. Again, there's a lot here that we don't know. I'm reading this as a deal where his mom had been married to his father for most of their lives - he died 4 years ago and this may be the first relationship she's been in since then. If so, it's unfortunate that she chose poorly.
I'm also taking a guess here that if that is true - she doesn't have a wealth of dating experience and much like that generation, is used to the guy calling the shots - thereby resulting in her having no freaking clue as to how she might escape this abusive relationship. If all of that is bullsh and she has a history here... then, sure let her figure it out. But, that's where I'm coming from with my commentary.
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Ah, I see. There's definitely a time and place for tough love... depending on the back story, my commentary may change. If there were a history of this with the boyfriends, there's no chance that I'd be there or put my kid's through it.
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