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Old 04-28-2009, 07:15 PM  
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This sucks at 58

I normally don't post on here,but damn I need to vent. I have (had) been married to the same woman for over 35 years. Never a major problem in our relationship. Five weeks ago she informs me she wants a divorce as she has met someone and wants something different in her life.

I worked 25 years for Williams Energy, we put two daughters through college and helped them, as we could, get established in life.

So,today was a meeting between the lawyers and I find out I will have to give her the house (paid for ) a car (new) and 1/2 of my pension,savings, and investments. Now all of that was ours 50/50 any way and she did her part in the marriage. Not only does it hurt like hell but now it looks like at 58 I have to start all over again.

Sorry for spelling or grammer but right now I don't care my heart is broken and soon to be homeless (STARTING OVER AT 58 )
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:17 PM   #2
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Sucks, man. Sorry to hear it.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:17 PM   #3
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Dude, sorry to hear about that man.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:18 PM   #4
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Yep, gotta agree, that sucks. Feel free to vent all you want, you deserve it.

Her getting the house makes things not so 50/50.

How do the daughters feel about this?

Best of luck to you, Monk.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:18 PM   #5
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**** man. That is terrible! Something needs to be done about these divorce laws. I take it your wife is not employed?
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:19 PM   #6
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I would have pushed for the house to be sold and the money split down the middle.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:19 PM   #7
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dam sorry about that man, it sounds like you got a raw deal
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:20 PM   #8
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**** man. That is terrible! Something needs to be done about these divorce laws. I take it your wife is not employed?
Always stayed home and raised the girls
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:20 PM   #9
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Your wife is a ****in **** by the way. If she is going to split from you and has already met someone else, she should have just walked away and let you keep most everything.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:20 PM   #10
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That's why then.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:21 PM   #11
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:22 PM   #12
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Get a different lawyer should be a 50/50 split or so I"m told going through same shit,26years.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:23 PM   #13
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Wow. Sorry to hear about your troubles sir. Just remember all the good times, use that to fight the pain. That's cheesy, sure, but there is truth there as well. I will pray for you to not become discouraged during all of this. Feel free to post anytime you need, I at least read everything on here, though I don't always post.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:23 PM   #14
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Sorry to hear that. Sucks! I don't know where you are but if you are in a 50/50 state you need a better lawyer. Sell the house, 50-50 split, sell the car 50-50 split, etc.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:23 PM   #15
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They give housewives everything.
As a matter of fact my lawyer said basically the same thing.
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