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Simply Red · 02:39 PM

So my neighbor (Sabrina) has a friend from Yale (Christie.) They never knew each other @ Yale. Funny, they met each other here. (Atlanta)

Anyway, so Sabrina and I are relatively close and we've done numerous things together, however she has a man in which she's holding-down a long-distance relationship w/. Welp, the other day we were running and she had casually mentioned that Christie (temp. roomy) and her had discussed small talk, like talking about guys and stuff (the prior night.) Sabrina (my neighbor) mentioned they'd eventually discussed 'guys.' She went on and on and illustrated that Christie is much different than that of herself (Sabrina.) In fact she'd mentioned Christie didn't think that it was a big deal at all hooking up w/ guys (as in sex.)

So, I was over there last night (briefly.) To try to meet Christie. She was very friendly to me. Well, Sabrina (my neighbor) is going out of town this weekend. I said: "Oh dear, I'd better get you my cell phone number in case you need anything while Sabrina's away." She replied, "That's a good idea" and then continued to tell me that she'd just called me and that the missed-call was her.

SO,

Pointers are really needed here, this girl is like 5'2" and petite w/ big blue eyes. 24 BTW she's a solid '8' if you don't mind the smaller petite ones.

Consistent1 · 08-05-2009, 01:30 PM

It doesn't matter homey....don't be worried about getting laid right now. The people at meetings will tell you the same thing about new "relationships" at this point if you are serious.

sedated · 08-05-2009, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Simply Red

Yes, I am the 'Alpha-Male'

the real alpha male has already started a conversation.

the real alpha male is the one who is going to be banging her when you finally text this weekend (I can already see the “sorry SR, I got plans already” text).

and the real alpha male never refers to himself as the alpha male

Consistent1 · 08-05-2009, 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by sedated

the real alpha male has already started a conversation.

the real alpha male is the one who is going to be banging her when you finally text this weekend (I can already see the “sorry SR, I got plans already” text).

and the real alpha male never refers to himself as the alpha male

Yeah, I mean Mecca never comes right out and says it, but we all know.

Brock · 08-05-2009, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Consistent1

It doesn't matter homey....don't be worried about getting laid right now. The people at meetings will tell you the same thing about new "relationships" at this point if you are serious.

I agree with this. But it appears his mind's made up, so he may as well be successful at it.

**Skip Towne** · 08-05-2009, 02:23 PM

Ask her to become your "temporary roommate" instead. There, all settled.

GoHuge · 08-05-2009, 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by sedated

I'm not sure if I buy the “wait 3 days to not seem needy/desperate thing". That's for sorority girls, experienced women have played these games with countless douche bags in the past.

If I want to make plans for the weekend, I generally don’t wait until the weekend to bring it up to the other person.

100 % agree. Dude time is not your friend in this deal. I'm 29 and I live this stuff all the time. You need to look at the situation and decide what it is your wanting out of it. In this case it's pretty much cut and dry. You want to bang her and that's it.

As previously stated she has made up her mind already as far as what you are in her mind. Girls have been hearing our finest since they where fourteen. They're pretty numb to just about any game you might have in the short term. Over time you could break down a first impression, but in this case time is not your friend. The best peice of advice I can give you is to remember who you where when you first met her. Where you the "alpha dog" as stupid as that sounds or where you a nice engaging passive guy. It is said when we meet somebody for the first time they are meeting your representative and not the real you. If you feel like you made a good impression than be sure to be that guy. If your a 180 from that it dries up a pussy in a hurry. I also wouldn't put alot of stock into her gving you her number. That isn't a big deal like it use to be. We all have caller ID now and it's very easy to just hit ignore. It's not like the pre-caller ID times when there where some consequences to giving your number out. If she enthusiastic sounding when you talk to or text her then you know your good.

Also you need to look at what this will do to you and your friends relationship. It sounds like she sees you as a nonthreatening asexual friend. That will change if you f**k her friend. They will talk about every little detail that happens. Personally I don't care about my friends that are girls getting mad at me for getting with another girl. If they aren't giving it up just tell them you have to get it somewhere. I've got no time for that drama. You may find out that she's a party girl and is down with sport f**king. Her opinion of you is going to change though. Be fully aware of that. Your either going to be another asshole guy or or a fascination that she refers to as "ol thunder dick next door." This is a performance based business. What happens between you and her friend will determine what you are in her mind. She'll either want you or continue to toy with the notion you might be gay. No middle ground in her mind.

She probably likes you from the way you have described the situation. It's your job not to f**k it up. Your gonna know real quick by her tone when you text her. Also as others have mentioned with your limited time window procrastination=FAIL. This aint rocket science dude. Be confident and stay away from the games. If she wants to f**k she will be sure and let you know. Your not going to sway her one way or another unless she liked the guy she met and the real you is a total douche bag.

XXXshogunXXX · 08-05-2009, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Simply Red

Yes, I am the 'Alpha-Male'

sarcasm? I really cant tell

wild1 · 08-05-2009, 03:09 PM

Get your reservation in.

Simply Red · 08-05-2009, 03:15 PM

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Originally Posted by GoHuge39

100 % agree. Dude time is not your friend in this deal. I'm 29 and I live this stuff all the time. You need to look at the situation and decide what it is your wanting out of it. In this case it's pretty much cut and dry. You want to bang her and that's it.

As previously stated she has made up her mind already as far as what you are in her mind. Girls have been hearing our finest since they where fourteen. They're pretty numb to just about any game you might have in the short term. Over time you could break down a first impression, but in this case time is not your friend. The best peice of advice I can give you is to remember who you where when you first met her. Where you the "alpha dog" as stupid as that sounds or where you a nice engaging passive guy. It is said when we meet somebody for the first time they are meeting your representative and not the real you. If you feel like you made a good impression than be sure to be that guy. If your a 180 from that it dries up a pussy in a hurry. I also wouldn't put alot of stock into her gving you her number. That isn't a big deal like it use to be. We all have caller ID now and it's very easy to just hit ignore. It's not like the pre-caller ID times when there where some consequences to giving your number out. If she enthusiastic sounding when you talk to or text her then you know your good.

Also you need to look at what this will do to you and your friends relationship. It sounds like she sees you as a nonthreatening asexual friend. That will change if you f**k her friend. They will talk about every little detail that happens. Personally I don't care about my friends that are girls getting mad at me for getting with another girl. If they aren't giving it up just tell them you have to get it somewhere. I've got no time for that drama. You may find out that she's a party girl and is down with sport f**king. Her opinion of you is going to change though. Be fully aware of that. Your either going to be another asshole guy or or a fascination that she refers to as "ol thunder dick next door." This is a performance based business. What happens between you and her friend will determine what you are in her mind. She'll either want you or continue to toy with the notion you might be gay. No middle ground in her mind.

She probably likes you from the way you have described the situation. It's your job not to f**k it up. Your gonna know real quick by her tone when you text her. Also as others have mentioned with your limited time window procrastination=FAIL. This aint rocket science dude. Be confident and stay away from the games. If she wants to f**k she will be sure and let you know. Your not going to sway her one way or another unless she liked the guy she met and the real you is a total douche bag.

I realize that bit about the phone number. But thanks for the rest of it.

wild1 · 08-05-2009, 03:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sedated

the real alpha male has already started a conversation.

the real alpha male is the one who is going to be banging her when you finally text this weekend (I can already see the “sorry SR, I got plans already” text).

and the real alpha male never refers to himself as the alpha male

yep

Simply Red · 08-05-2009, 03:33 PM

text has been sent.

Simply Red · 08-05-2009, 03:34 PM

so shut your collective ****ing face

Simply Red · 08-05-2009, 03:40 PM

gang, no reply yet. I may just delete it tonight. She's too young anyway. **** it, porn works fine and is less bitchy. I'm not the Alpha, you're right Sedated.

ziggysocki · 08-05-2009, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Simply Red

gang, no reply yet. I may just delete it tonight. She's too young anyway. **** it, porn works fine and is less bitchy. I'm not the Alpha, you're right Sedated.

No way... stick with it. What have you got to lose? You try and fail, well at least you had a chance to succeed. IF you don't try, you just fail.

Simply Red · 08-05-2009, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by ziggysocki

No way... stick with it. What have you got to lose? You try and fail, well at least you had a chance to succeed. IF you don't try, you just fail.

**** it, I'm not begging for someone to be with me. **** THAT SHIT!
I'm decent looking clean and make decent money. Mother **** any bitch that can't appreciate that. SERIOUSLY.

08-04-2009, 08:27 AM
Simply Red You Sweetie! Join Date: Sep 2005 Casino cash: $2021206219 VARSITY	-- Please instruct me as to how to land my neighbor's temporary roommate. So my neighbor (Sabrina) has a friend from Yale (Christie.) They never knew each other @ Yale. Funny, they met each other here. (Atlanta) Anyway, so Sabrina and I are relatively close and we've done numerous things together, however she has a man in which she's holding-down a long-distance relationship w/. Welp, the other day we were running and she had casually mentioned that Christie (temp. roomy) and her had discussed small talk, like talking about guys and stuff (the prior night.) Sabrina (my neighbor) mentioned they'd eventually discussed 'guys.' She went on and on and illustrated that Christie is much different than that of herself (Sabrina.) In fact she'd mentioned Christie didn't think that it was a big deal at all hooking up w/ guys (as in sex.) So, I was over there last night (briefly.) To try to meet Christie. She was very friendly to me. Well, Sabrina (my neighbor) is going out of town this weekend. I said: "Oh dear, I'd better get you my cell phone number in case you need anything while Sabrina's away." She replied, "That's a good idea" and then continued to tell me that she'd just called me and that the missed-call was her. SO, Pointers are really needed here, this girl is like 5'2" and petite w/ big blue eyes. 24 BTW she's a solid '8' if you don't mind the smaller petite ones. Last edited by Simply Red; 08-04-2009 at 02:39 PM..
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08-05-2009, 02:23 PM	#200
Skip Towne Supporter Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: T-Town Casino cash: $10004900	Ask her to become your "temporary roommate" instead. There, all settled.
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08-05-2009, 03:33 PM	#206
Simply Red You Sweetie! Join Date: Sep 2005 Casino cash: $2021206219 VARSITY	text has been sent.
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Simply Red You Sweetie! Join Date: Sep 2005 Casino cash: $2021206219 VARSITY	so shut your collective ****ing face
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08-05-2009, 03:40 PM	#208
Simply Red You Sweetie! Join Date: Sep 2005 Casino cash: $2021206219 VARSITY	gang, no reply yet. I may just delete it tonight. She's too young anyway. **** it, porn works fine and is less bitchy. I'm not the Alpha, you're right Sedated.
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