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Old 08-05-2009, 02:41 PM   #1
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I'm not sure if I buy the “wait 3 days to not seem needy/desperate thing". That's for sorority girls, experienced women have played these games with countless douche bags in the past.

If I want to make plans for the weekend, I generally don’t wait until the weekend to bring it up to the other person.
100 % agree. Dude time is not your friend in this deal. I'm 29 and I live this stuff all the time. You need to look at the situation and decide what it is your wanting out of it. In this case it's pretty much cut and dry. You want to bang her and that's it.

As previously stated she has made up her mind already as far as what you are in her mind. Girls have been hearing our finest since they where fourteen. They're pretty numb to just about any game you might have in the short term. Over time you could break down a first impression, but in this case time is not your friend. The best peice of advice I can give you is to remember who you where when you first met her. Where you the "alpha dog" as stupid as that sounds or where you a nice engaging passive guy. It is said when we meet somebody for the first time they are meeting your representative and not the real you. If you feel like you made a good impression than be sure to be that guy. If your a 180 from that it dries up a pussy in a hurry. I also wouldn't put alot of stock into her gving you her number. That isn't a big deal like it use to be. We all have caller ID now and it's very easy to just hit ignore. It's not like the pre-caller ID times when there where some consequences to giving your number out. If she enthusiastic sounding when you talk to or text her then you know your good.

Also you need to look at what this will do to you and your friends relationship. It sounds like she sees you as a nonthreatening asexual friend. That will change if you f**k her friend. They will talk about every little detail that happens. Personally I don't care about my friends that are girls getting mad at me for getting with another girl. If they aren't giving it up just tell them you have to get it somewhere. I've got no time for that drama. You may find out that she's a party girl and is down with sport f**king. Her opinion of you is going to change though. Be fully aware of that. Your either going to be another asshole guy or or a fascination that she refers to as "ol thunder dick next door." This is a performance based business. What happens between you and her friend will determine what you are in her mind. She'll either want you or continue to toy with the notion you might be gay. No middle ground in her mind.

She probably likes you from the way you have described the situation. It's your job not to f**k it up. Your gonna know real quick by her tone when you text her. Also as others have mentioned with your limited time window procrastination=FAIL. This aint rocket science dude. Be confident and stay away from the games. If she wants to f**k she will be sure and let you know. Your not going to sway her one way or another unless she liked the guy she met and the real you is a total douche bag.
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Old 08-05-2009, 03:15 PM   #2
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100 % agree. Dude time is not your friend in this deal. I'm 29 and I live this stuff all the time. You need to look at the situation and decide what it is your wanting out of it. In this case it's pretty much cut and dry. You want to bang her and that's it.

As previously stated she has made up her mind already as far as what you are in her mind. Girls have been hearing our finest since they where fourteen. They're pretty numb to just about any game you might have in the short term. Over time you could break down a first impression, but in this case time is not your friend. The best peice of advice I can give you is to remember who you where when you first met her. Where you the "alpha dog" as stupid as that sounds or where you a nice engaging passive guy. It is said when we meet somebody for the first time they are meeting your representative and not the real you. If you feel like you made a good impression than be sure to be that guy. If your a 180 from that it dries up a pussy in a hurry. I also wouldn't put alot of stock into her gving you her number. That isn't a big deal like it use to be. We all have caller ID now and it's very easy to just hit ignore. It's not like the pre-caller ID times when there where some consequences to giving your number out. If she enthusiastic sounding when you talk to or text her then you know your good.

Also you need to look at what this will do to you and your friends relationship. It sounds like she sees you as a nonthreatening asexual friend. That will change if you f**k her friend. They will talk about every little detail that happens. Personally I don't care about my friends that are girls getting mad at me for getting with another girl. If they aren't giving it up just tell them you have to get it somewhere. I've got no time for that drama. You may find out that she's a party girl and is down with sport f**king. Her opinion of you is going to change though. Be fully aware of that. Your either going to be another asshole guy or or a fascination that she refers to as "ol thunder dick next door." This is a performance based business. What happens between you and her friend will determine what you are in her mind. She'll either want you or continue to toy with the notion you might be gay. No middle ground in her mind.

She probably likes you from the way you have described the situation. It's your job not to f**k it up. Your gonna know real quick by her tone when you text her. Also as others have mentioned with your limited time window procrastination=FAIL. This aint rocket science dude. Be confident and stay away from the games. If she wants to f**k she will be sure and let you know. Your not going to sway her one way or another unless she liked the guy she met and the real you is a total douche bag.


I realize that bit about the phone number. But thanks for the rest of it.
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Old 08-05-2009, 03:33 PM   #3
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Old 08-05-2009, 04:43 PM   #4
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Awesome! Yeah I will probably want some pooltime this weekend, so let me know when you are going definitely.
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Old 08-05-2009, 04:47 PM   #5
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Okay

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Awesome! Yeah I will probably want some pooltime this weekend, so let me know when you are going definitely.
Swimming pool? what was the text you sent ?
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Old 08-05-2009, 04:48 PM   #6
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Swimming pool? what was the text you sent ?
YES, I had mentioned that I should be around and will probably hit the pool this weekend. Something like that is what i had typed, originally.
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Old 08-05-2009, 04:51 PM   #7
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YES, I had mentioned that I should be around and will probably hit the pool this weekend. Something like that is what i had typed, originally.
my advice: the sooner the better... situations like this can end up running out of time far too quickly.
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Old 08-05-2009, 04:52 PM   #8
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my advice: the sooner the better... situations like this can end up running out of time far too quickly.
Sat. should be okay, right?
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Old 08-05-2009, 04:57 PM   #9
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Sat. should be okay, right?
That's fine. The bait has been taken. But if you see her beforehand, mention where you're going or what you're doing and invite her along. She's already said "yes" once. The hard part is done.
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Old 08-05-2009, 05:24 PM   #10
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Sat. should be okay, right?
Well it might be but a phone call lets say tomorrow evening saying something like you and some friends got some tickets "to (think of something cool a girl might enjoy along with yourself) don't know if you had anything going on. You'd be very welcome to come along if you'd like." Don't forget to mention the friends part!!! Pressure is off at that point. Your not asking her on a date....your just offering a night out with some good people for a girl that is from out of town. You'll really get to know each other. She's obviously very well educated so make sure it's something that will intrigue her. Maybe a wine tasting or something like that? Your a CP regular but at least act like your cultured for a night

You could wait until this weekend to get things started or you could have a serious protein defency come Monday if you listen to someone who fancies themselves pretty good at this shit. You don't get anything by not trying. Be subtley aggressive. That's some of my best stuff man....That's all I got. Do your worst Mr. SR!

Oh and (very important) make sure you've got toilet paper on the deal with a sparkling clean toilet and bathroom (trash can empty). She doesn't want to feel like she's at a frat house.

I just posted mine and see AustinChief took my thoughts and posted them before me........two guys giving the exact same advice=Sound advice.
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Old 08-05-2009, 04:48 PM   #11
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Okay

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Awesome! Yeah I will probably want some pooltime this weekend, so let me know when you are going definitely.
WHAMMO!!

Now was that so damn hard? Congrats!
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Old 08-05-2009, 04:51 PM   #12
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WHAMMO!!

Now was that so damn hard? Congrats!
no, honestly, i get flustered fairly easy, these Buckhead girls are downright snobby and they get venomous @ times. So, maybe you can understand my frustration. LOL
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Old 08-06-2009, 08:25 AM   #13
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Awesome! Yeah I will probably want some pooltime this weekend, so let me know when you are going definitely.
haven't replied, i'm waiting 'til tomorrow and then indicating Sat. afternoon would be best.
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Old 08-06-2009, 08:30 AM   #15
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Good grief.
lol, what? I think it's best if I give it a day, no?
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