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Old 02-16-2009, 04:21 PM  
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Confronting a cheater
Haven't been here in awhile, so check this out. Guess this could be related to the cheaters thread, but oh well. I had been seeing this woman for about 3 years. Everything was great, we got along, amazing sex, etc. But during this whole time, I live in Wichita, she in Newton, a 30 minute drive. She always had to visit me at my house because she lived with her ex. They had never been married, just dated for 9 years. Long story short, I saw the end coming, she was pulling away, as she had done before a few years ago, so I found where she lived and told her supposed ex the whole story of me and his woman. Oh yeah, they were very much together, he said. But he was a big puss and didn't get mad or anything. But needless to say, she got hysterical, said she hated me, i ruined her life, etc. I knew all this was going to happen anyway, but I just couldn't let her get away with her doing the whole player thing. So basically, what is your opinion on confronting the cheaters significant other?
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Old 02-17-2009, 07:47 PM   #331
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I hear you, but when you love someone, or think you do, you will put up with a lot of shit, even if its very unhealthy. When I think about her still, I have to think, F**k it, she is his problem now.
Maybe I'm not mature enough to appreciate the same woman for the rest of my life. I still wanna party too much to be stuck with the same girl, even if she was fun to be around and hot.
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Old 02-17-2009, 07:48 PM   #332
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Maybe I'm not mature enough to appreciate the same woman for the rest of my life. I still wanna party too much to be stuck with the same girl, even if she was fun to be around and hot.
Just be mature enough to let the girls know.
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Old 02-17-2009, 07:53 PM   #333
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Old 02-17-2009, 07:54 PM   #334
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Just be mature enough to let the girls know.
I don't need to. I'm not the type of guy girls really talk to. I think I should start working out or something. :-)
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Old 02-17-2009, 07:54 PM   #335
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I don't know, dude... I'll believe it when I see a great relationship. So far, I've never seen any guy who was married that didn't occasionally wish he could go out and get other women, or talk about how he wished he could.
I'm one. No desire to try the dating shit ever again. God forbid that I ever have to deal with that crap. My wife is the shit.


There, now you've met someone.
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Old 02-17-2009, 07:55 PM   #336
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I'm one. No desire to try the dating shit ever again. God forbid that I ever have to deal with that crap. My wife is the shit.


There, now you've met someone.
I find it hard to believe, but I believe you nonetheless.

Gee, you don't think I've been in some crappy relationships in the past, do ya!?!
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I don't need to. I'm not the type of guy girls really talk to. I think I should start working out or something. :-)
We don't like guys prettier than us.
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Old 02-17-2009, 08:06 PM   #339
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We don't like guys prettier than us.
I've had women tell me that my hair is to pretty.
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Old 02-17-2009, 08:09 PM   #340
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I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not, but I'm serious. All you ever see and hear is how being married sucks, yet almost everyone is...
I was agreeing with you. I was married, and it did, in fact, suck. I don't know why I even did it in the first place, and I don't ever plan to do it again.

That doesn't mean relationships suck, however. I'm gonna be alone, sure, but I'm somebody who can handle it and I understand that it's the result of things I've done and decisions I've made. I'm not the most romantic guy in the world, but I think sometimes people get lucky, and find a pairing that works, instead of settling for whatever they can find. There's too much of that, I think. Settling. But that's a whole 'nother story.
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We don't like guys prettier than us.
I don't know what the hell I am. I could be hot, I could not be. Who knows!?!

I think I act like Evan from Superbad, or J.D. from Scrubs (minus the doctor thing).
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Gee, you don't think I've been in some crappy relationships in the past, do ya!?!
I hear you on that. In all honesty, until my wife, I was a guy who could never keep his dick in his pants. I was faithless on just about every girl I dated, and I absolutely loved nothing more than getting some strange. After a month or so, the new would wear off, and I'd be in pursuit of the next piece of tail. Then, my wife came along. It was a great confluence of factors: she's awesome and challenging and completely won my respect, and I was sick of playing the field in meaningless relationships.

I'm not going to kid myself. If I'd met my wife when I was 20 or even 24, we probably wouldn't have ever gotten married, because I wasn't ready for a true commitment, regardless of how awesome the woman was. At some point, it may just click for you. Hopefully when it does, you're with the right woman.
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I was agreeing with you. I was married, and it did, in fact, suck. I don't know why I even did it in the first place, and I don't ever plan to do it again.

That doesn't mean relationships suck, however. I'm gonna be alone, sure, but I'm somebody who can handle it and I understand that it's the result of things I've done and decisions I've made. I'm not the most romantic guy in the world, but I think sometimes people get lucky, and find a pairing that works, instead of settling for whatever they can find. There's too much of that, I think. Settling. But that's a whole 'nother story.
YEAH! I got a lot of plans going on, and unless the chick is gonna be helping me out (or at least not getting in my way), then I'm cool with it. Likewise, I'll help her out in pursuing her dreams.

But if I'm gonna go to law school, and she's all like, "Lets have a baby!" then HELL no. Babies are only cool when you can give them back to their mom or dad when they start getting fussy.
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Whats the fun in that?
If you don't know the fun of putting it in a girls butt I can't help you.
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If you don't know the fun of putting it in a girls butt I can't help you.
Ahh, the metamorphosis from "you want to put that where" to "ow, that hurts" to "omg, I love this".
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