Life Confronting a cheater - Page 22

The Dude Abides · 05:30 PM

Haven't been here in awhile, so check this out. Guess this could be related to the cheaters thread, but oh well. I had been seeing this woman for about 3 years. Everything was great, we got along, amazing sex, etc. But during this whole time, I live in Wichita, she in Newton, a 30 minute drive. She always had to visit me at my house because she lived with her ex. They had never been married, just dated for 9 years. Long story short, I saw the end coming, she was pulling away, as she had done before a few years ago, so I found where she lived and told her supposed ex the whole story of me and his woman. Oh yeah, they were very much together, he said. But he was a big puss and didn't get mad or anything. But needless to say, she got hysterical, said she hated me, i ruined her life, etc. I knew all this was going to happen anyway, but I just couldn't let her get away with her doing the whole player thing. So basically, what is your opinion on confronting the cheaters significant other?

keg in kc · 02-17-2009, 07:16 PM

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Originally Posted by The Buddha

People who get married are crazy!

Uh huh.

The Buddha · 02-17-2009, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by keg in kc

Uh huh.

I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not, but I'm serious. All you ever see and hear is how being married sucks, yet almost everyone is...

Relationships, for that matter suck. Why would you want to be with someone (like the OP) who you let have that much emotional influence over you?

I know this is a football forum, and probably way to serious and OP to really get into, but its something I'll never get.

Mecca · 02-17-2009, 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by The Buddha

I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not, but I'm serious. All you ever see and hear is how being married sucks, yet almost everyone is...

Relationships, for that matter suck. Why would you want to be with someone (like the OP) who you let have that much emotional influence over you?

I know this is a football forum, and probably way to serious and OP to really get into, but its something I'll never get.

Being married is like having Tyler Thigpen as your QB for eternity......ok I just depressed myself.

The Buddha · 02-17-2009, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

Being married is like having Tyler Thigpen as your QB for eternity......ok I just depressed myself.

And you have to pay him Franchise Tag salary... :-)

**DeezNutz** · 02-17-2009, 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

Being married is like having Tyler Thigpen as your QB for eternity......ok I just depressed myself.

Have you been giving people shit for ridiculous comments?

You need to get into some better relationships if that's really your perspective.

Marriage can be a great thing.

The Buddha · 02-17-2009, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by DeezNutz

Have you been giving people shit for ridiculous comments?

You need to get into some better relationships if that's really your perspective.

Marriage can be a great thing.

I don't know, dude... I'll believe it when I see a great relationship. So far, I've never seen any guy who was married that didn't occasionally wish he could go out and get other women, or talk about how he wished he could.

Mecca · 02-17-2009, 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by DeezNutz

Have you been giving people shit for ridiculous comments?

You need to get into some better relationships if that's really your perspective.

Marriage can be a great thing.

Nah I wasn't being serious I was trying to play into the posts before mine.

**DeezNutz** · 02-17-2009, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

Nah I wasn't being serious I was trying to play into the posts before mine.

My bad.

**DeezNutz** · 02-17-2009, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by The Buddha

I don't know, dude... I'll believe it when I see a great relationship. So far, I've never seen any guy who was married that didn't occasionally wish he could go out and get other women, or talk about how he wished he could.

If you started a thread about this, you'd be surprised by the results, I think.

The Buddha · 02-17-2009, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by DeezNutz

If you started a thread about this, you'd be surprised by the results, I think.

Possibly.

I can't start new threads though, cause Ultra Peanut gave me -900 rep with my first post.

The Dude Abides · 02-17-2009, 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by The Buddha

I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not, but I'm serious. All you ever see and hear is how being married sucks, yet almost everyone is...

Relationships, for that matter suck. Why would you want to be with someone (like the OP) who you let have that much emotional influence over you?

I know this is a football forum, and probably way to serious and OP to really get into, but its something I'll never get.

I hear you, but when you love someone, or think you do, you will put up with a lot of shit, even if its very unhealthy. When I think about her still, I have to think, F**k it, she is his problem now.

Mecca · 02-17-2009, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by The Dude Abides

I hear you, but when you love someone, or think you do, you will put up with a lot of shit, even if its very unhealthy. When I think about her still, I have to think, F**k it, she is his problem now.

Well you know if you had used my approach and banged her in the ass you wouldn't have to worry if it's your kid or not.

The Dude Abides · 02-17-2009, 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

Well you know if you had used my approach and banged her in the ass you wouldn't have to worry if it's your kid or not.

Whats the fun in that?

StcChief · 02-17-2009, 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

Well you know if you had used my approach and banged her in the ass you wouldn't have to worry if it's your kid or not.

snip..snip works better.

'Hamas' Jenkins · 02-17-2009, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

Ahahaha...

Don't try to exploit the gag reflex I got puked on once...it wasn't pleasant.

This. Taco Bell and Michelob Ultra are not a good combination to wash off in the shower.

02-16-2009, 04:21 PM
The Dude Abides Starter Join Date: Jan 2006 Casino cash: $6744940	Confronting a cheater Haven't been here in awhile, so check this out. Guess this could be related to the cheaters thread, but oh well. I had been seeing this woman for about 3 years. Everything was great, we got along, amazing sex, etc. But during this whole time, I live in Wichita, she in Newton, a 30 minute drive. She always had to visit me at my house because she lived with her ex. They had never been married, just dated for 9 years. Long story short, I saw the end coming, she was pulling away, as she had done before a few years ago, so I found where she lived and told her supposed ex the whole story of me and his woman. Oh yeah, they were very much together, he said. But he was a big puss and didn't get mad or anything. But needless to say, she got hysterical, said she hated me, i ruined her life, etc. I knew all this was going to happen anyway, but I just couldn't let her get away with her doing the whole player thing. So basically, what is your opinion on confronting the cheaters significant other? Last edited by The Dude Abides; 02-16-2009 at 05:30 PM..
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