Divorce....

[loochy]

Originally Posted by ThaVirus

the kids are old enough to watch themselves or they've got someone watching them.

and there's a big part of the problem with society today
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[ThaVirus]

Originally Posted by loochy

and there's a big part of the problem with society today
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I find it hilarious that people are quick to claim the pussification of America then turn around and act like kids can't spend a night at granny's/a friend's house or watch themselves at a certain age.

[loochy]

Originally Posted by ThaVirus

I find it hilarious that people are quick to claim the pussification of America then turn around and act like kids can't spend a night at granny's/a friend's house or watch themselves at a certain age.

From what was said, this doesn't sound like "a night."

Take responsibility for your kids. Parenthood is not a fun little game to play only when convenient.

[ThaVirus]

Originally Posted by loochy

From what was said, this doesn't sound like "a night."

Take responsibility for your kids. It's not a fun little game to play when convenient.

We really don't have enough information and I doubt we'd get it all from hearing one side of the story anyway.. but, unless I missed a post or two, Rico hasn't mentioned a damn thing about her being a bad mother or skipping out on her parental duties. He's solely upset that she's out partying while he's not able to, at the same time admitting that he also loves to be out late partying.

I'm only speaking to those who said he needs to reign that shit in and that a married woman has no reason to be out past midnight. That's pretty ridiculous.

[stevieray]

Originally Posted by ThaVirus

I'm only speaking to those who said he needs to reign that shit in .

without her husband? uh huh. riiiight.

that's not a relationship, that's a roommate you're boinking.

[Dallas Chief]

Originally Posted by ThaVirus

We really don't have enough information and I doubt we'd get it all from hearing one side of the story anyway.. but, unless I missed a post or two, Rico hasn't mentioned a damn thing about her being a bad mother or skipping out on her parental duties. He's solely upset that she's out partying while he's not able to, at the same time admitting that he also loves to be out late partying.

I'm only speaking to those who said he needs to reign that shit in and that a married woman has no reason to be out past midnight. That's pretty ridiculous.

It’s not ridiculous. It’s called being responsible. To your earlier question, no life doesn’t have to stop. However, to raise kids in a healthy, stable, and safe environment it definitely needs to slow down, way before 6am.

[ThaVirus]

Originally Posted by Dallas Chief

It’s not ridiculous. It’s called being responsible. To your earlier question, no life doesn’t have to stop. However, to raise kids in a healthy, stable, and safe environment it definitely needs to slow down, way before 6am.

Staying out late having a good time doesn't necessarily make you irresponsible.

If the kids weren't in a healthy, stable, safe environment the dude would perhaps have mentioned that instead?

[Dallas Chief]

Originally Posted by ThaVirus

Staying out late having a good time doesn't necessarily make you irresponsible.

If the kids weren't in a healthy, stable, safe environment the dude would perhaps have mentioned that instead?

Sorry bro, more often than not, yes it does. He didn’t mention it because he probably doesn’t realize it yet.

[rico]

Originally Posted by ThaVirus

We really don't have enough information and I doubt we'd get it all from hearing one side of the story anyway.. but, unless I missed a post or two, Rico hasn't mentioned a damn thing about her being a bad mother or skipping out on her parental duties. He's solely upset that she's out partying while he's not able to, at the same time admitting that he also loves to be out late partying.

I'm only speaking to those who said he needs to reign that shit in and that a married woman has no reason to be out past midnight. That's pretty ridiculous.

I don’t party like I did in college. I work every night. Yeah, I like to party, but it’s become a special occasion/once in a while type thing. It’s not prioritized. And again, I am not upset at all because I am “not able to.” Seriously? It’s because I am working all night wondering what the **** is going on.

[BWillie]

Originally Posted by loochy

From what was said, this doesn't sound like "a night."

Take responsibility for your kids. Parenthood is not a fun little game to play only when convenient.

I don't know why parents do this to themselves. They convince themselves their life is ONLY their kids. For most people, they are going to need some break time. That doesn't make you a bad parent if you have semi-frequent nights out or still focus some time on your hobbies and other life passions. If you don't take some date nights and nights on your own, at least once every two weeks you are going to get burnt out. I've seen it with my girlfriends family, her siblings have tons of kids, they all seem SOOO angry all the time and they never have a night to themselves. I honestly don't know how they do it.

[lewdog]

Originally Posted by BWillie

I don't know why parents do this to themselves. They convince themselves their life is ONLY their kids. For most people, they are going to need some break time. That doesn't make you a bad parent if you have semi-frequent nights out or still focus some time on your hobbies and other life passions. If you don't take some date nights and nights on your own, at least once every two weeks you are going to get burnt out. I've seen it with my girlfriends family, her siblings have tons of kids, they all seem SOOO angry all the time and they never have a night to themselves. I honestly don't know how they do it.

Rich coming from a guy who will never marry and doesn’t have kids.

[-King-]

Originally Posted by BWillie

I don't know why parents do this to themselves. They convince themselves their life is ONLY their kids. For most people, they are going to need some break time. That doesn't make you a bad parent if you have semi-frequent nights out or still focus some time on your hobbies and other life passions. If you don't take some date nights and nights on your own, at least once every two weeks you are going to get burnt out. I've seen it with my girlfriends family, her siblings have tons of kids, they all seem SOOO angry all the time and they never have a night to themselves. I honestly don't know how they do it.

No one has said you shouldn't have fun or take some nights out. But making it a regular thing is very irresponsible.
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[TimBone]

Originally Posted by BWillie

I don't know why parents do this to themselves. They convince themselves their life is ONLY their kids. For most people, they are going to need some break time. That doesn't make you a bad parent if you have semi-frequent nights out or still focus some time on your hobbies and other life passions. If you don't take some date nights and nights on your own, at least once every two weeks you are going to get burnt out. I've seen it with my girlfriends family, her siblings have tons of kids, they all seem SOOO angry all the time and they never have a night to themselves. I honestly don't know how they do it.

THIS GUY OBVIOUSLY HAS ZERO KIDS.

[stevieray]

Originally Posted by BWillie

I don't know why parents do this to themselves. They convince themselves their life is ONLY their kids. For most people, they are going to need some break time. That doesn't make you a bad parent if you have semi-frequent nights out or still focus some time on your hobbies and other life passions. If you don't take some date nights and nights on your own, at least once every two weeks you are going to get burnt out. I've seen it with my girlfriends family, her siblings have tons of kids, they all seem SOOO angry all the time and they never have a night to themselves. I honestly don't know how they do it.

It's called putting others before yourself...you should try it sometime.

[lewdog]

Originally Posted by stevieray

It's called putting others before yourself...you should try it sometime.

Empty your PMs bro. I tried to send you something.