Memorial Day remembrance and appreciation of our fallen soldiers

[BigRedChief]

Tell us about your family, friends that paid the ultimate price for our freedom.

[BigRedChief]

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[PHOG]

[Easy 6]

Never forget their sacrifice

All gave some, some gave all

[Arch Stanton]

I first saw him hobbling down the aisle of a small gun show. He was obviously of advanced age: white-haired, frail and walking with a pronounced limp, his bony left hand grasping one of those spiral thornwood canes that look like a kudu’s horn. It was that cane that caught my attention – without it, the man would have been invisible.

His pained but determined pace picked up when he neared a table only two away from mine. The table’s owner displayed military battle rifles. The old gent stopped there, but I became distracted by customers of my own and did not notice him again.

The promoter held two shows a year in that small town, and I became a regular vendor. After that first time, I started noticing the old gentleman at every show. He always carried that magnificently polished, deep brown cane. He always went steadfastly to that same dealer’s table. He always came on Sunday morning when the crowds were thin.

Clearly not well off financially, the old man’s clothes never varied. His shoes were of brown leather, the toes curled up from age, deep cracks at the toe bend and the heels worn to a smooth curve; but they were always carefully brushed to a soft luster. His slacks were khaki cotton, a semblance of a crease still showing down the front of each leg, with an irregular outline on one thigh that bespoke of a liquid stain long ago acquired. His sports jacket was dark brown wool, its herringbone pattern all but obliterated by age. Its pockets sagged as if he’d once limped home –in a driving rain- with oranges in them. The dulled and faded miniature of a military ribbon adorned the jacket’s left lapel. Under the jacket he always wore a white shirt so thin his sleeveless undershirt showed through. On his Western-style bolo tie, a walnut-sized, blood-red stone mirrored the man’s jutting Adam’s apple. Raising the stooped figure to perhaps five-feet six, a grey fedora hat rode. Now battered, sweat-stained and misshapen, the hat characterized him as much as the liver spots on his pallid, papery skin.

I was able to catalog such small details because of his laborious gait. He’d plant the tightly clutched cane, then half-shuffle, half-slide his crippled left leg forward, and finally his still-spry right: tap, drag, step; tap, drag, step. Just watching him brought a dull empathetic ache to my hips and knees.

Neither his appearance nor his habits ever varied: he’d hobble past my table, spend a few minutes in front of the rifle collector’s display, then leave, unnoticed.

And then, one time, he failed to appear.

Just before the show ended that Sunday afternoon, I ambled over to the rifle table. On one end were a few P-17 Enfields and Springfields, a couple SMLE’s, one or two ’98 Mausers and an Arisaka. At the other end were several .30 M-1 carbines, a Garand and even a rare Johnson rifle. It was interesting stuff, but I really wanted to ask about the old man.

“I heard he passed away last month,” the dealer said. “I’ll miss him.” He shook his head ruefully and looked down.

“You know anything about him? Your table was the only one he ever visited, as far as I saw.”

“Not much. But it wasn’t my table that he visited. It was this,” he said, pointing to the Garand.

“What do you mean?”

“Well, it’s like this…the first few times he came by, I tried to wait on him. But he never spoke a word – like I wasn’t even there. He’d walk up, stand there a bit, and then he’d lightly touch the Garand. With just his fingertips, as though it was his lover or something, you know? Then one time I said, ‘You seem like you know that rifle. Carry one in the Army?’ He shook his head a little and kept right on caressing that rifle’s stock, but he said ‘Marines.’

“So then I looked at him a little closer. You know that little blue pin in his lapel? That’s the Navy Cross, and it’s the highest they give except for the Medal of Honor. And so I had to ask him where he got it, and he finally looked up at me. His eyes were brimming, as if some nightmare just came back to him, and he choked out one word: ‘Tarawa.’

“After that, I’d sell any rifle on the table, except that Garand. It would have killed him if I had. I never will sell it, now.” He stood silently for a second, then concluded, “Those two spoken words and that ribbon are all I know about that old man, but they’re all I need to know.”

As if my hand was drawn to it, I stroked the stock of the Garand and whispered, “Thank you.” I’m not sure if I said it to the dealer, or that rifle, or the hovering spirit of that departed hero. Maybe all three. But I meant it.


Printed in “The Big Show Journal” May/June 2005
Copyright 2005 Rocky Raab
Permission to reprint with full attribution granted.

[RedinTexas]

https://www.herocards.us/hero151

My roommate from Navigator training in the Air Force. He was from Lee's Summit and a big Chiefs fan.

[Chiefs4TheWin]

Our trips to DC to see the wall so he could see the names of his friends will stay with me forever. RIP dad. 2021 and will never forget.

[George Liquor]

Ive had two veteran friends commit suicide, I hope wherever they are, they're doing okay and that they know we miss em down here.

[BigRedChief]

Bump for actual Memorial Day

[Cheater5]

I’m out camping, or I’d spend a little more time on this. But I appreciate this scene more and more as I’m privileged to grow old, when it’s mostly (not always) the 18-24 year old kids that pay the bill.

Live your lives, guys. But take a minute or two to look up one who had his cut short doing the deed.

[BigRedChief]

Originally Posted by George Liquor

Ive had two veteran friends commit suicide, I hope wherever they are, they're doing okay and that they know we miss em down here.

When I was working at Central Command I had 3 vets leave work, nothing seemed out ordinary but they went home and killed themselves.

All had survivor guilt and trauma from seeing their friends killed in from of them, their friends blood all over them. Which is why they were working with us techs in Tampa. They were getting treatment. A cushy job while they recover.

Not all soldiers die on a battlefield. Some die later from war. 22 veterans kill themselves every single day, Thats 22 Vets too many.

[RedinTexas]

This thread should be pinned for today.

[stevieray]

[BigRedChief]

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[Smed1065]

Damn dusty in here. My family has severed over 100 years. Lucky tho no one died but we have 6 bullets holes in total. Life is crazier than me but the the 1+true percent.