I think i need some advice - Page 3

badgirl · 01-03-2006, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian

It sounds like ALL of your problems are self inflicted.
No sympathy here.

Lets work this out. You're an unmotivated drug addict, and you wonder why it might be possibly difficult to find gainful employment? You've been to college, for 5 YEARS!!! and now "college isn't for you".

Stop making excuses. Get your ass into rehab, finish the degree to go with that debt that someone has assumed for your 5 years of college and stop blaming your problems on your family.

Joining the military isn't even an option for a smackhead.

Unless you get off your ass and do somethign to improve your situation, enjoy your life as a construction laborer or welfare recipient.

I agree with you.

God I can't believe I just said that

**Dartgod** · 01-03-2006, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by RedDread

F what ya heard, just pick a Military Occupational Specialty (MOS) that will keep you away from front line combat and you will be set for the next 3-20 years.

Plus, you get all that pie.

RedDread · 01-03-2006, 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Dartggod

Plus, you get all that pie.

I didn't get any pie

StcChief · 01-03-2006, 08:59 AM

You must get off the drugs. Most jobs no days require a drug test.....

The A+ cert will get you started in a decent paying area of IT, though the bottom of the IT heirarchy rung. at 23 its a start.

If you like computer work, you can move up and the jobs are always around. Go live with your Grandparents and get your life turned around.

Get out of Oxford and the bad elements that your hanging out with doing drugs.

Don't come to KC with jobs skills and something on a resume. Or it's low end work.

Good luck

**Iowanian** · 01-03-2006, 09:01 AM

..but...but...but I'm having fuuuuuuuuun in Oxford....sniffing glue, smoking dope and paying video games with mah loser friends all day.

All my asshole family ever does is bitch at me, take my car, offer me a place to live, but they go to church and expect me to do something to pull mah own weight. I mean, after I get done meeting Big Earl to get a hook up, I'm not even going to have any mooooonaaaay.

Call the whambulance.

I'm sure there are plenty of siding or roofing crews who will take on a meth head.

"but I'm not a meth head".

Yet.

**Bwana** · 01-03-2006, 09:02 AM

When faced with a challenge, look for a way, not a way out. Life is full of choices, it sounds like you have been making the wrong ones. There is only one person that can who can change that. If you keep making the same choices, you will continue to get the same results. If you want to accomplish anything in life, you can't just sit back and hope it will happen. You've got to make it happen.

badgirl · 01-03-2006, 09:05 AM

I feel its ok if you get rid of your drug problem to let your family "help you" use it only as a stepping stone to getting your life together, don't use it as a crutch.

sedated · 01-03-2006, 09:10 AM

You are the combination of the 5 people you are closest to.

Get some new peers, moving back in with the family doesn't sound like a bad option, unless they are truly abusive "bad parents". Then do the grandparent thing.

If your friends and situation are ruining your life, you need to regroup, start over

RedDread · 01-03-2006, 09:11 AM

This is a very bad topic to start and leave unattended......

Herzig · 01-03-2006, 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian

It sounds like ALL of your problems are self inflicted.
No sympathy here.

Lets work this out. You're an unmotivated drug addict, and you wonder why it might be possibly difficult to find gainful employment? You've been to college, for 5 YEARS!!! and now "college isn't for you". your mother is a "bad mother" but was paying for your car. Your grandparents aren't good enough to help you because they're people of faith.

Stop making excuses. Get your ass into rehab, finish the degree to go with that debt that someone has assumed for your 5 years of college and stop blaming your problems on your family.

Joining the military isn't even an option for a smackhead. All drug addicts have are excuses.

Unless you get off your ass and do somethign to improve your situation, enjoy your life as a construction laborer or welfare recipient. You're a loser by choice right now. Its one YOU can correct.

One the best replies on this thread. Haven't you done enough damage to your mind, body, and future already? You have people that will help you/have helped you. That's more than 50% of the population out there. You are lucky that your Grandparents are willing to take you in. You are the result of your decisions and choices. Change and alter your path before it's too late. Good luck.

Herzig · 01-03-2006, 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by r8er_h8er

One poster commented about being shipped off to a place that he could wind up in a body bag. That is true, choose the service you want to be wisely, some have a lower percentage of personnel in the war zones and the exposure alot less than that of the Army or Marines. However, the Marines would be the best bet for a complete controlled atmosphere, there would be brothers that would help you at every turn.

I read an article on yahoo the other day about more Air Force and Navy guys being deployed on the ground in Iraq to help our exausted Army and Marine guys.

**Skip Towne** · 01-03-2006, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Herzig

One the best replies on this thread. Haven't you done enough damage to your mind, body, and future already? You have people that will help you/have helped you. That's more than 50% of the population out there. You are lucky that your Grandparents are willing to take you in. You are the result of your decisions and choices. Change and alter your path before it's too late. Good luck.

What are you doing posting in the middle of the day like this? Haven't you found a job yet?

Herzig · 01-03-2006, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Skip Towne

What are you doing posting in the middle of the day like this? Haven't you found a job yet?

I have one more day of vacation until I go back to war on ignorance.

badgirl · 01-03-2006, 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Herzig

I have one more day of vacation until I go back to war on ignorance.

You definately have job security

**Skip Towne** · 01-03-2006, 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Herzig

I have one more day of vacation until I go back to war on ignorance.

Last time I checked, ignorance was winning.

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