I think i need some advice - Page 7

**luv** · 01-03-2006, 01:33 PM

I'm not an elder, but it sounds to me like your life is a result of the choices you've made. You remind me of my older brother in the aspect that you think all these things are just happening to you. I don't do drugs, and I lead a pretty happy life. I agree with TJ in the aspect that you are a smoker because you choose to be. Once my brother learned to take responsibility (somewhat) for his actions, and realized that his choices can affect others as well as himself, his life got better for him. He still makes some wrong choices, IMO, but he deals with them. Change your outlook and make some different choices.

**ChiTown** · 01-03-2006, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by QuikSsurfer

I smoke about 4 times a day and have been for about 2 1/2 years now. I used to think that I operated on mj. It has been my jesus; my cross.
I know I can't go on like this without getting a grip. You hit the nail on the head

My man, I've known a few people that needed re-hab to get on with their life. When your demons own you, it's time for re-hab.

**luv** · 01-03-2006, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by QuikSsurfer

I smoke about 4 times a day and have been for about 2 1/2 years now. I used to think that I operated on mj. It has been my jesus; my cross.
I know I can't go on like this without getting a grip. You hit the nail on the head

If you know it is a problem, then it is time to do something about it besides contemplate it.

badgirl · 01-03-2006, 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by ChiefsFan4Life

Ah, so you are a religious man...

You come on here asking for advice when all you do is ignore the good advice or give excuses why you can't follow it and when someone comes along and gives you support for what you are currently doing (being a dumbass) then you +rep them

Slowly but surely, drugs will fry the brain,maybe thats it

sedated · 01-03-2006, 01:36 PM

Sounds like the first step is over, admitting you have a problem and looking for ways to solve it.

**Saul Good** · 01-03-2006, 01:56 PM

The guy doesn't want or need advice. Clearly he's intelligent enough to know that he should stop doing drugs, go back to school, graciously accept help from his grandparents, and make something of his life. This isn't brain surgery we're talking about here. It's simply having the self-discipline to do the most basic things in life.
Some people are just weak. This guy is one of them. We all have weaknesses. All the advice in the world won't overcome this weakness, though. It can only be overcome by looking at one's self in the mirror and being disgusted enough in what you see to make a change even though it will cause temporary discomfort.
You clearly have a problem with drugs. You abuse them. You are not the kind of person who can use them in moderation, so you shouldn't use at all. Clearly you have a problem with religion. Most people who have a problem with religion actually have a fear of rightness versus wrongness. Even if you don't believe in God and/or Jesus, you could do worse than living a gracious and moral life. Clearly you have a problem with your parents. I don't know what they've done, nor do I care. They aren't stopping you from making something of your life any more than they are stopping me from making something of mine.
You've got enough pride to defend yourself when someone calls you a loser. That's a good sign. Have enough pride to stop being a puss and go make something of your life.

CoMoChief · 01-03-2006, 01:59 PM

Do some more drugs then things wont seem so bad because you wont care. No im kidding. You could work in the forces with computers and such. Once you have a foundation or something go look for a job, maybe by then you will have some connections.

phisherman · 01-03-2006, 02:03 PM

quit smoking pot you f**king hippie!

lol

bp

milkman · 01-03-2006, 02:11 PM

I haven't read through any of these posts, and I know that you think I'm an asshole, and I have earned that label.

But I'm going to give you some advice.

Take it for what it's worth.

Grow the **** up.

I don't give a rat's ass how bad you think things are in your family.
I don't care that you have a low opinion of your mother, or your father.

I can gaurantee you, your childhood wasn't as bad as mine.

Hell, you were in college, your mother was paying for your car?

Compared to me and mine, your the ****in' Cleaver family.

I never used my traumatic childhood as a crutch, or an excuse to do drugs.

I took responsibility for my life.

Grow up and take some responsibility for yours.

Taco John · 01-03-2006, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Hog Farmer

Conclusion: 1) Taco sucks at counseling.
2) Taco = pothead

Actually, I'm just being non-judgemental, because I know that all of the "you're a loser" stuff is going nowhere. I'm not afraid to admit that I don't have a problem with people smoking pot. I don't see it as a big deal. I used to do it. I know what it's about. I choose to operate differently because I felt it was interfering with some of my relationships. I'm no more a pot head than I am an alcoholic. Which is to say, I'll probably drink another beer in my life, and I'll probably smoke another bowl sometime too. I don't have a problem with either of them. They don't rule my life.

Which is a pretty good life, if I say so myself. Best of all, I don't have to clean up pig shit.

Katipan · 01-03-2006, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by ENDelt260

I'm not hungover when I smoke.

We must get Taco stoned.

Taco John · 01-03-2006, 02:27 PM

Hahahaha! Fuq you Endelt!

sedated · 01-03-2006, 02:33 PM

Step 1 - Give any leftover drugs to me.

Step 2 - Leave me alone (with my bong and straw)

Otter · 01-03-2006, 02:35 PM

Step #1:

Lay of the drugs.

I got nothing against smoking a joint or tying one on, many can attest to that, but using them to escape your problems is a bad idea. Save the buzz for the good times, not the bad.

Otter · 01-03-2006, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Mer

We must get Taco stoned.

Hell, even I'd promise to be nice and not take pictures if Taco did a bong hit.

01-03-2006, 03:24 AM
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01-03-2006, 01:33 PM	#91
luv You think you can get by this? Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Springfield, MO Casino cash: $-1270000	I'm not an elder, but it sounds to me like your life is a result of the choices you've made. You remind me of my older brother in the aspect that you think all these things are just happening to you. I don't do drugs, and I lead a pretty happy life. I agree with TJ in the aspect that you are a smoker because you choose to be. Once my brother learned to take responsibility (somewhat) for his actions, and realized that his choices can affect others as well as himself, his life got better for him. He still makes some wrong choices, IMO, but he deals with them. Change your outlook and make some different choices.
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01-03-2006, 01:56 PM	#96
Saul Good Quit your bullshit Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Bored of winning Casino cash: $10052799	The guy doesn't want or need advice. Clearly he's intelligent enough to know that he should stop doing drugs, go back to school, graciously accept help from his grandparents, and make something of his life. This isn't brain surgery we're talking about here. It's simply having the self-discipline to do the most basic things in life. Some people are just weak. This guy is one of them. We all have weaknesses. All the advice in the world won't overcome this weakness, though. It can only be overcome by looking at one's self in the mirror and being disgusted enough in what you see to make a change even though it will cause temporary discomfort. You clearly have a problem with drugs. You abuse them. You are not the kind of person who can use them in moderation, so you shouldn't use at all. Clearly you have a problem with religion. Most people who have a problem with religion actually have a fear of rightness versus wrongness. Even if you don't believe in God and/or Jesus, you could do worse than living a gracious and moral life. Clearly you have a problem with your parents. I don't know what they've done, nor do I care. They aren't stopping you from making something of your life any more than they are stopping me from making something of mine. You've got enough pride to defend yourself when someone calls you a loser. That's a good sign. Have enough pride to stop being a puss and go make something of your life. __________________ Today is not a good day to be a pussy.
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01-03-2006, 02:03 PM	#98
phisherman King Sandbagger Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: The Summit, MO Casino cash: $-1230000	quit smoking pot you f**king hippie! lol bp
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01-03-2006, 02:11 PM	#99
milkman Dumbass! Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Leading the Marty bashing Casino cash: $10029395	I haven't read through any of these posts, and I know that you think I'm an asshole, and I have earned that label. But I'm going to give you some advice. Take it for what it's worth. Grow the ** up. I don't give a rat's ass how bad you think things are in your family. I don't care that you have a low opinion of your mother, or your father. I can gaurantee you, your childhood wasn't as bad as mine. Hell, you were in college, your mother was paying for your car? Compared to me and mine, your the **in' Cleaver family. I never used my traumatic childhood as a crutch, or an excuse to do drugs. I took responsibility for my life. Grow up and take some responsibility for yours. __________________
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01-03-2006, 02:27 PM	#102
Taco John Sapere Aude Join Date: Jun 2001 Casino cash: $417937	Hahahaha! Fuq you Endelt!
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