I think i need some advice - Page 13

**QuikSsurfer** · 01-03-2006, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by patteeu

QickSsurfer, are you gay?

What the fuck!!! DOES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH ANYTHING??!!!!!!
No i'm not. I hope you have a good reason to ask that.

**Rain Man** · 01-03-2006, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by QuikSsurfer

What the fuck!!! DOES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH ANYTHING??!!!!!!
No i'm not. I hope you have a good reason to ask that.

He was hoping to take advantage of you while you're vulnerable.

Sybil · 01-03-2006, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Rain Man

He was hoping to take advantage of you while you're vulnerable.

Funny, but probably not what Surfer needs right now.

First, you have an addiction which you must deal with. Secondly, you need a place to stay and some stability: take your grandparents up on their offer. Thirdly, find a job of some sort. Finally seek some counseling on the other stuff--sounds like you have some, ahem, issues.

Best wishes.

milkman · 01-03-2006, 09:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Sybil

Funny, but probably not what Surfer needs right now.

No, it isn't.

What he needs is a to get his ass kicked for being such a ****in reerun.

He doesn't want any help.

He just wants people to empower to be a **** up.

Katipan · 01-03-2006, 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by ENDelt260

Yeah. My basic definition is this.... Are you Brian Johnson? No? You might be a loser.

I'm Brian Johnson

Logical · 01-03-2006, 09:33 PM

Wow your life is so out of control I can offer no advice, I cannot fathom living such a horrible life. Good luck and try not to commit suicide.

dtebbe · 01-03-2006, 09:37 PM

I'm not joking here...

Clean the crap out of your system and go join the military. With your education the Army or Marines would probably bring you in as an E-4, and once you get thru basic you could put in for OCS.

Would get you out of the hell hole you describle, give your some direction in life (albiet forced) and get you on the path to success.

When I was a senior in high school I knew college would be a waste of my time, so I signed up for the Army. Best decision I ever made, and I'd do it again tomorrow if I were 18 and graduating HS.

DT

joesomebody · 01-03-2006, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

Thinking this Military thing through I have to say, the military IMO is something that has to be a part of you to go into it and make something of yourself, Just because someone who is a drug addict and needs a life and a kick in the ass wants to get straight isn't any reason for him to join the Military who has someones son, daughter, husband etc depending on him to get his back when he need it. I wouldn't want someone using the Military for rehab to be the one watching my loved ones back when bullets are flying. It has to be IN the person to change and stop looking for things to change it for him. First it was his parents, then grandparents, now the military? Its not the militarys duty to give him a life, if he isn't strong enough to change for himself, why the hell would he change for anything or anybody else? You need to take a real good look at where your life is headed and set your mind to change it. You will end up losing everything because of drugs and you want to blame all your hard times on someone else, blame the drug, its the drugs fault, but drug addicts will never ever blame anything on the drug.

This is exactly right.

Upon joining, you are not going to be able to change your mind... If you do decide to smoke weed again, your ass will be booted out with a dishonorable, which will make your resume even less shiny than the glowing one you are working on now.

It's not fun... sure there are good times, and as hard as you work, you get to make great friends and party hard (no drugs damn you); but for an addict, I think the high stress and work hard, party hard, atmosphere would be very bad for you.

If you don't have any pride in your country and/or willingness to put your life on the line for it, then this is not a good option for you. That pride in what you do is often all that you have to keep you from going crazy.

However, you are at a young enough age that the military could be exactly what you need to get you back on track, not to mention I'm sure your parents and family would be proud of you, no matter how pissed they are now.

But I would not do this just to get off drugs and try to get on your feet. You obviously have no will or desire to serve your country, (which don't give me rep, because I don't consider that a good thing) so I would go with living with your grandparents, and trying to find god to help you get through your problems.

Halfcan · 01-03-2006, 09:38 PM

Get married and have a boatload of kids you can't support, run off and join the circus. Smoke more pot.

Or

You can quit whining and asking advice from strangers to questions you allready know the answers too. Clean yourself up man, your a P I G, pig mister, have some self respect. Your a disgrace to all human beings, wasting your brain cels, your life, and everyone elses time reading your sad story.

Put one problem on the table and deal with it, until it is not a problem. Quit running away and be a man, stand on your own. Don't go running to Gpa and Gma and burden them-they raised their kids. Go out and get a job tommorow for whatever you can get, while designing a resume that will hide the fact your a pot head with no skillz.

You can do it! The world is waiting-your destiny is what you make it-live the dream!!

Logical · 01-03-2006, 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by dtebbe

I'm not joking here...

Clean the crap out of your system and go join the military. With your education the Army or Marines would probably bring you in as an E-4, and once you get thru basic you could put in for OCS.

Would get you out of the hell hole you describle, give your some direction in life (albiet forced) and get you on the path to success.

When I was a senior in high school I knew college would be a waste of my time, so I signed up for the Army. Best decision I ever made, and I'd do it again tomorrow if I were 18 and graduating HS.

DT

Normally I would say this is great advice, but after reading his story all I see that doing is adding a Dishonorable Discharge to his record.

Logical · 01-03-2006, 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by ENDelt260

Can I skip the married w/ kids part and just join the circus and smoke pot?

Hey no witty remarks, you paying attention.

joesomebody · 01-03-2006, 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Vlad Logicslav

Normally I would say this is great advice, but after reading his story all I see that doing is adding a Dishonorable Discharge to his record.

If he is willing to do what he has to do though, its a great option.

This is one option you don't get to give up on or quit though... If you do it, stick with it for your enlistment, or else it is not a good idea for you.

Mr. Kotter · 01-03-2006, 09:45 PM

Dude,

I've been absorbed in the Football stuff today, but here is my two cents:

1. You need to beat the addiction.
2. Find a place to live, with some sort of support network--good friends or family.
3. Get a job, and set some goals for yourself. The military would be a good option, but only if you can stay away from the weed.
4. Realize this isn't gonna get fixed over-night.
5. Seek some therapy--it's available...for free even, if you know where to look.

Good luck.

Katipan · 01-03-2006, 09:47 PM

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Originally Posted by ENDelt260

Can I skip the married w/ kids part and just join the circus and smoke pot?

Chinese acrobats are over rated

joesomebody · 01-03-2006, 09:48 PM

Is pot really "addictive" I always thought it wasn't... sure it was fun, but addictive?

I mean, I can see where one would get used to the feeling and what not, and enjoy the sensation of being high, but I love drinking, yet its just something you look forward to on the weekends.

Maybe if you go get a real job, you'll learn to deal with life and hold off until you get some time off...

I don't see any need to be high (or drunk) all the time.

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dtebbe 3M TA3 Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: SoFlo Casino cash: $9993039	I'm not joking here... Clean the crap out of your system and go join the military. With your education the Army or Marines would probably bring you in as an E-4, and once you get thru basic you could put in for OCS. Would get you out of the hell hole you describle, give your some direction in life (albiet forced) and get you on the path to success. When I was a senior in high school I knew college would be a waste of my time, so I signed up for the Army. Best decision I ever made, and I'd do it again tomorrow if I were 18 and graduating HS. DT
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01-03-2006, 09:38 PM	#189
Halfcan In Search of a Life Join Date: Aug 2005 Casino cash: $7327995	Get married and have a boatload of kids you can't support, run off and join the circus. Smoke more pot. Or You can quit whining and asking advice from strangers to questions you allready know the answers too. Clean yourself up man, your a P I G, pig mister, have some self respect. Your a disgrace to all human beings, wasting your brain cels, your life, and everyone elses time reading your sad story. Put one problem on the table and deal with it, until it is not a problem. Quit running away and be a man, stand on your own. Don't go running to Gpa and Gma and burden them-they raised their kids. Go out and get a job tommorow for whatever you can get, while designing a resume that will hide the fact your a pot head with no skillz. You can do it! The world is waiting-your destiny is what you make it-live the dream!!
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01-03-2006, 09:45 PM	#193
Mr. Kotter Self Ban Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: In some's minds... Casino cash: $3194285	Dude, I've been absorbed in the Football stuff today, but here is my two cents: 1. You need to beat the addiction. 2. Find a place to live, with some sort of support network--good friends or family. 3. Get a job, and set some goals for yourself. The military would be a good option, but only if you can stay away from the weed. 4. Realize this isn't gonna get fixed over-night. 5. Seek some therapy--it's available...for free even, if you know where to look. Good luck. __________________ Movin' On...
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joesomebody Waiting to be voted off Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Baltimore, MD Casino cash: $9994900	Is pot really "addictive" I always thought it wasn't... sure it was fun, but addictive? I mean, I can see where one would get used to the feeling and what not, and enjoy the sensation of being high, but I love drinking, yet its just something you look forward to on the weekends. Maybe if you go get a real job, you'll learn to deal with life and hold off until you get some time off... I don't see any need to be high (or drunk) all the time.
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