Engaged?

[luv]

Originally Posted by SLAG

if you serious about marriage go see a marriage counselor BEFORE you get married..

not saying shit is wrong but it wont hurt... it will give you a solid look at your relationship...

idk if your religious but if some 3rd party counselor isnt in your budget or likes you could check with your local pastor / priest / rabbi.

i do know that the Catholic church does require marriage classes and counseling before they do any marriage.

I went to an independent baptist church. Our pastor wouldn't marry people if he couldn't counsel them first. I've never been to one, but I could definitely see where they would be good. Give you some things to think about that you might not have thought about before (or chose not to think about because you're so in love).

[chiefwidow]

My opinion.... for the two cents it's worth, you ought to live on your own for awhile.... not in a dorm or in your parents house. Dorms are close, but you don't have to worry about cooking or paying bills. Living with her for at least 6 mo will let the politeness of the "honeymoon" stage of the relationship die and you will start being totally yourself. Not getting up and leaving the room to fart.... and picking up when you don't do it at home.
Can you describe her without including the size of her breast? Picture her having a terrible accident and disfiguring Or her as fat as a Gieswien..... attitude or like your dad's girlfriend.... would you still want to marry her???


Besides.... since you've met her in October..... my bet has been that you'll be asking her on 2-14-2007

[Dunit35]

Originally Posted by chiefwidow

My opinion.... for the two cents it's worth, you ought to live on your own for awhile.... not in a dorm or in your parents house. Dorms are close, but you don't have to worry about cooking or paying bills. Living with her for at least 6 mo will let the politeness of the "honeymoon" stage of the relationship die and you will start being totally yourself. Not getting up and leaving the room to fart.... and picking up when you don't do it at home.
Can you describe her without including the size of her breast? Picture her having a terrible accident and disfiguring Or her as fat as a Gieswien..... attitude or like your dad's girlfriend.... would you still want to marry her???


Besides.... since you've met her in October..... my bet has been that you'll be asking her on 2-14-2007

You know...not 100% sure...but aren't you my step mom? I pick up around her place all the time. She cooks and I do the dishes for her...so yeah I'm not as lazy as I use to be. I don't plan on asking her on Valentines Day...won't be with her then...the weekend before or after.