Ebay pros I need your help - Page 2

**Mr. Flopnuts** · 07-09-2007, 04:06 PM

I just had an auction end on ebay. Person paid immediately with paypal but is unverified and has an unconfirmed address. I'm scared to ship the item. I'm not trying to get ripped off here. What are my options? Rep to anyone who knows what I can do to protect myself here. I'm new to this thing, and I already don't like it.

mikey23545 · 07-09-2007, 05:23 PM

I have been a powerseller on Ebay in the past, and work for an online wholesaler/retailer that takes Paypal for some transactions.

1) If the person is not confirmed, it simply means they have not gone through the confirmation process. Paypal makes a very small deposit to the bank account you list with them, you email them back to verify the amount. They then know you are really who you say you are, and that is really your bank account. At least that is the way it used to work, pretty sure it still does. It does not matter how many times you have used Paypal, if you have not gone through this process, you aren't verified.
2) If they are not verified, they can cancel their payment to you up to 6 months after the transaction, and you don't have much recourse except to bluster and rant and try to scare them.
3) Look at their Ebay feedback, and when they registered with Ebay. Have they been around a long time? If so, you probably don't have much to worry about. Still, if this is a really expensive item, you are right to be concerned.
4) Will you take a money order or certified check? If so, contact them and tell them that because of their Paypal status you will only accept one of those. Then wait.
5) Paypal does not "suck". Unless you are a complete moron, and terrified of the internet, you soon realize it is one of the safest forms of online transaction available, as long as YOU FOLLOW THE RULES. It's one helluva lot safer than handing that 20 year old your credit card number at the end of your meal.

With all this being said, I have hundreds (probably thousands) of Paypal transactions under my belt, and I have occasionally "bent" the rules and sold to unverified customers and never once been burned. You just need to take all the facts into consideration and make a judgement call.

**DaneMcCloud** · 07-09-2007, 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by BigRock

As far as I know, if you've already been paid through Paypal then it should be fine. It's not like a bad check or something where it could turn out that they can't cover what they sent. They either had to have the money taken from their bank account or from their credit card in order to send you the payment.

And I'd just double-check with the person about their address if you're concerned about that. But once you've officially gotten the payment from Paypal, you should be good.

This is completely incorrectly. If the account is Unverified and the address is Unverified, this *could* be a hijacked account and you are NOT covered by Ebay or Paypal if you ship this item. Contact the buyer and ask them to confirm both their account and their address before shipping.

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Originally Posted by BigRock

I don't think you have to worry about either. I'm not aware of there being fraudulent transactions through Paypal like what you're describing... maybe the other way around, where someone sends money for something that never comes. But never where someone receives money and there ends up being a problem.

But even if there was, I can't imagine Paypal would just stick you with the loss. That entire process is their business. I'm sure they'd make it right if there was something wrong, because it would be mostly their fault.

And as for the shipping, if you're really worried just pay the extra for the tracking info when you mail the package so you can prove both that you sent it and where you sent it to. I don't think there's anything more a seller could do from their end.

This is more bad advice. You DO have to "worry about either" if it's neither are verified and since Paypal already stated that this item is not covered under the Seller's Protection Plan, if you ship this item and it's later found to be a fraudulent transaction, YOUR Paypal account will be given a negative balance and you'll be responsible for funding your account back to zero.

NEVER send USPS as the tracking sucks. Use Fed Ex, UPS or DHL.

**TinyEvel** · 07-09-2007, 05:49 PM

unconfirmed means the ship to address he entered is not the same as his paypal cc billing address or checking acct. address.
I usually ship to my work, so that's "unconfirmed" too.
just reply to him, thanking for his payment and include "this is the address I will ship to"
and ask him to repy to confirm.
Really,it should be no biggie. happens on my sales a lot.

**DaneMcCloud** · 07-09-2007, 06:00 PM

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Originally Posted by TinyEvel

unconfirmed means the ship to address he entered is not the same as his paypal cc billing address or checking acct. address.
I usually ship to my work, so that's "unconfirmed" too.
just reply to him, thanking for his payment and include "this is the address I will ship to"
and ask him to repy to confirm.
Really,it should be no biggie. happens on my sales a lot.

The problem is that if the billing address and the shipping address don't match and it's fraud, the Seller is out the cash. Paypal (and any credit card for that matter) won't cover the seller unless the "Ship To" and billing address are identical (unless of course you have an alternate address on file with the CC company, but that doesn't apply with Paypal).

I rarely participate in Ebay & Paypal transactions for less than $1,000.00 (studio gear), so I'd never sell to someone who's doesn't have a confirmed address and account. It's just way too risky.

Of course, YMMV. And having been burned once before with fraudulent Cashier's Checks, I don't trust anyone.

**HemiEd** · 07-09-2007, 06:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Bob Dole

You've got over 9300 posts here and you're not confirmed, either.

It's a conspiracy.

The funny thing about their non-confirmed, at least three of those transactions were over $5000.

Al Bundy · 07-09-2007, 06:07 PM

I would ship it out via UPS with a signature only. I believe then only the person who you are sending it to can sign for it and not have it just "Left on their doorstep".

**Smed1065** · 07-09-2007, 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud

The problem is that if the billing address and the shipping address don't match and it's fraud, the Seller is out the cash. Paypal (and any credit card for that matter) won't cover the seller unless the "Ship To" and billing address are identical (unless of course you have an alternate address on file with the CC company, but that doesn't apply with Paypal).

They can easily add a shipping address with their CC company (I ship to work usually) and it will show confirmed in 2 days from my experience.

laser1972 · 07-09-2007, 09:26 PM

ok, i am a powerseller (1700+ rating)... If the item isnt too expensive, i really dont care about the unconfirmed address, if its over a certain amount $250.00 and above like when i ship computers, etc... MUST have a confirmed address, if they dont and you ship the item, paypal isnt liable for anything, so seller beware!!

Check his feedback like other people have said, if he/she is a newbie with a 10 or less rating and they are trying to buy something expensive, i would pass, you arent obligated (i would however put it in the rules)...

Its so easy to get confirmed, why wouldnt you??..

So far in the 8+ years i have did ebay, i have been burned twice, caught both of them, usually can detect a scam if they want the laptop overnighted etc... Just seem pretty eager to get the item if a credit card has been stolen, etc

Good luck!

Mr. Arrowhead · 07-09-2007, 09:31 PM

i have question also while we are on this topic. I bought a cell phone off ebay, and i paid and everything, but its been 2 weeks now, i havent gotten my cell phone nor have i heard from the seller, and also the seller hasnt even claimed the money i send him. I just want to get my money back. So i just start a dispute on pay pal, it just says that my money hasnt been claimed. How do i go about getting my money back, because it has been taken from my banking account?

**DaneMcCloud** · 07-09-2007, 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Smed1065

They can easily add a shipping address with their CC company (I ship to work usually) and it will show confirmed in 2 days from my experience.

With Paypal? Cool! I knew that it was possible to add additional addresses with a CC company but I didn't realize it would show up in Paypal.

Thanks for the info!

Frazod · 07-09-2007, 09:36 PM

I joined up last weekend and received my first item (an "authentic" Pujols jersey that VonneMarie would absolutely love) today. I now have a rating of 1.

I'm a n00b.

**Smed1065** · 07-09-2007, 09:40 PM

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Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud

With Paypal? Cool! I knew that it was possible to add additional addresses with a CC company but I didn't realize it would show up in Paypal.

Thanks for the info!

I have done this with several CC companies because UPS would always come between 7-5 while I am at work or the person would not shipto alt addy. I got tired of requesting different shipping or going to their warehouse to pick pickup so I added it to most CC accounts. (a nightmare in Atlanta)

**Mr. Flopnuts** · 07-10-2007, 02:08 AM

I appreciate your replies and have decided to give my customer an option. A. Have no problem with Signature tracked package via UPS at my cost. Or B. refund the money and they can send me a USPS money order. If that's horrible, hit me up before noon your time.

Seems like a logical solution without anyone getting butthurt.

KCChiefsMan · 07-10-2007, 02:16 AM

just make sure they are not from nigeria

**Mr. Flopnuts** · 07-10-2007, 02:30 AM

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Originally Posted by KCChiefsMan

just make sure they are not from nigeria

Yeah, I screen for the Nigerian princes, the european dignitaries that are trying to get 27 million released into your bank account, and the chinese company just getting started in the export/USA business and are looking for my support. Good ole' international rope a dope.

07-09-2007, 04:06 PM
Mr. Flopnuts FINALLY! The wait is over. Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: The Future Is Now!!! Casino cash: $19947565	Ebay pros I need your help I just had an auction end on ebay. Person paid immediately with paypal but is unverified and has an unconfirmed address. I'm scared to ship the item. I'm not trying to get ripped off here. What are my options? Rep to anyone who knows what I can do to protect myself here. I'm new to this thing, and I already don't like it.
Posts: 56,649

07-09-2007, 05:23 PM	#16
mikey23545 MVP Join Date: Aug 2000 Casino cash: $10015321	I have been a powerseller on Ebay in the past, and work for an online wholesaler/retailer that takes Paypal for some transactions. 1) If the person is not confirmed, it simply means they have not gone through the confirmation process. Paypal makes a very small deposit to the bank account you list with them, you email them back to verify the amount. They then know you are really who you say you are, and that is really your bank account. At least that is the way it used to work, pretty sure it still does. It does not matter how many times you have used Paypal, if you have not gone through this process, you aren't verified. 2) If they are not verified, they can cancel their payment to you up to 6 months after the transaction, and you don't have much recourse except to bluster and rant and try to scare them. 3) Look at their Ebay feedback, and when they registered with Ebay. Have they been around a long time? If so, you probably don't have much to worry about. Still, if this is a really expensive item, you are right to be concerned. 4) Will you take a money order or certified check? If so, contact them and tell them that because of their Paypal status you will only accept one of those. Then wait. 5) Paypal does not "suck". Unless you are a complete moron, and terrified of the internet, you soon realize it is one of the safest forms of online transaction available, as long as YOU FOLLOW THE RULES. It's one helluva lot safer than handing that 20 year old your credit card number at the end of your meal. With all this being said, I have hundreds (probably thousands) of Paypal transactions under my belt, and I have occasionally "bent" the rules and sold to unverified customers and never once been burned. You just need to take all the facts into consideration and make a judgement call.
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07-09-2007, 05:49 PM	#18
TinyEvel Just a li'l Evel Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Bald. Goatee. Jorts. Casino cash: $2249601	unconfirmed means the ship to address he entered is not the same as his paypal cc billing address or checking acct. address. I usually ship to my work, so that's "unconfirmed" too. just reply to him, thanking for his payment and include "this is the address I will ship to" and ask him to repy to confirm. Really,it should be no biggie. happens on my sales a lot.
Posts: 12,319

07-09-2007, 06:07 PM	#21
Al Bundy Damnit Peg Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Overland Park Casino cash: $3401831	I would ship it out via UPS with a signature only. I believe then only the person who you are sending it to can sign for it and not have it just "Left on their doorstep".
Posts: 23,645

07-09-2007, 09:26 PM	#23
laser1972 POst once a week! Join Date: Oct 2001 Casino cash: $9944905	ok, i am a powerseller (1700+ rating)... If the item isnt too expensive, i really dont care about the unconfirmed address, if its over a certain amount $250.00 and above like when i ship computers, etc... MUST have a confirmed address, if they dont and you ship the item, paypal isnt liable for anything, so seller beware!! Check his feedback like other people have said, if he/she is a newbie with a 10 or less rating and they are trying to buy something expensive, i would pass, you arent obligated (i would however put it in the rules)... Its so easy to get confirmed, why wouldnt you??.. So far in the 8+ years i have did ebay, i have been burned twice, caught both of them, usually can detect a scam if they want the laptop overnighted etc... Just seem pretty eager to get the item if a credit card has been stolen, etc Good luck!
Posts: 120

07-09-2007, 09:31 PM	#24
Mr. Arrowhead MVP Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Wichita Casino cash: $10015708	i have question also while we are on this topic. I bought a cell phone off ebay, and i paid and everything, but its been 2 weeks now, i havent gotten my cell phone nor have i heard from the seller, and also the seller hasnt even claimed the money i send him. I just want to get my money back. So i just start a dispute on pay pal, it just says that my money hasnt been claimed. How do i go about getting my money back, because it has been taken from my banking account?
Posts: 7,763

07-09-2007, 09:36 PM	#26
Frazod Did you hear what I said? Join Date: Aug 2000 Casino cash: $-746615	I joined up last weekend and received my first item (an "authentic" Pujols jersey that VonneMarie would absolutely love) today. I now have a rating of 1. I'm a n00b.
Posts: 121,763

07-10-2007, 02:16 AM	#29
KCChiefsMan AIC Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: West Roxbury, MA Casino cash: $10004900	just make sure they are not from nigeria
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