Confronting a cheater

[Jilly]

Originally Posted by Katipan

I think it's because I like looking at women.
Really.

I think I'm not nuts in that way because when I see a pretty girl, I think "Oh wow, pretty girl." Like her asthetic beauty is art. Not competition. Her "value" has nothing to do with mine.

I find myself competing far more with men than I do with women.

Plus, honestly. How we look is the one thing we can't control. Maybe some adjustments, but ultimately you don't get to control what you look like. I'd much rather walk into a room and have the boys come running because I'm loads of fun to be around.

I don't know why you're not nuts that way, but I like it!

Awww....excuse us, while we have a moment.

But I think that's true. I love women. Think they are beautiful, gorgeous creatures, even at their ugliest (for the most part). But, the self esteem part comes in, for you - in that you are gifted, talented, funny...so you've never needed your looks, they've just been a bonus. Hell, i think you're gorgeous and haven't a clue what you look like. But I think there are so many women who have no clue that they have gifts other than their beauty.