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Old 04-28-2009, 07:15 PM  
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I normally don't post on here,but damn I need to vent. I have (had) been married to the same woman for over 35 years. Never a major problem in our relationship. Five weeks ago she informs me she wants a divorce as she has met someone and wants something different in her life.

I worked 25 years for Williams Energy, we put two daughters through college and helped them, as we could, get established in life.

So,today was a meeting between the lawyers and I find out I will have to give her the house (paid for ) a car (new) and 1/2 of my pension,savings, and investments. Now all of that was ours 50/50 any way and she did her part in the marriage. Not only does it hurt like hell but now it looks like at 58 I have to start all over again.

Sorry for spelling or grammer but right now I don't care my heart is broken and soon to be homeless (STARTING OVER AT 58 )
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Old 04-29-2009, 09:49 AM   #196
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oh. This is why I would never get married. Nowadays, I think it's stupid just based on the numbers. You risk all that on a coin flip, better off going to a casino and putting all your funds and savings on red or black. Not him though, 35 years ago I'm sure the divorce rate wasn't nearly 50%
What sucks is that I'm guessing he lost everything because she was a stay at homer that "couldn't support herself" after the marriage was dissolved.

So she gets rewarded for shitting on the reward she got her whole married life.
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Old 04-29-2009, 09:51 AM   #197
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What sucks is that I'm guessing he lost everything because she was a stay at homer that "couldn't support herself" after the marriage was dissolved.

So she gets rewarded for shitting on the reward she got her whole married life.
I don't think there's anything wrong with getting half of what they accumulated as a married couple. Stay at home moms can work very hard, not saying they all do. But if she wants out, she should have to buy him out.
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Old 04-29-2009, 09:53 AM   #198
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I don't think there's anything wrong with getting half of what they accumulated as a married couple. Stay at home moms can work very hard, not saying they all do. But if she wants out, she should have to buy him out.
I would agree.

I gave my ex everything except my personal posessions and the kids. Only things that mattered. Big screens, and kegerators will keep him happy in hell.
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Old 04-29-2009, 10:12 AM   #199
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What sucks is that I'm guessing he lost everything because she was a stay at homer that "couldn't support herself" after the marriage was dissolved.

So she gets rewarded for shitting on the reward she got her whole married life.
Sounds like she'd make a fine whore. Under the right circumstances, that can pay well.
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Old 04-29-2009, 10:30 AM   #200
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I don't think there's anything wrong with getting half of what they accumulated as a married couple. Stay at home moms can work very hard, not saying they all do. But if she wants out, she should have to buy him out.
He still paid for everything. Being a stay at home mom is not a right! A lot of moms work hard full time to bring home money along with the husband these days. It is a luxury he provided her!! He should get everything, cheating bitch nothing.
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Old 04-29-2009, 10:33 AM   #201
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If a woman stays home to raise your kids and tend to your home so you can have a career and provide, they're entitled to something, because they've definitely contributed.

I don't know that I agree with the idea that a woman should be kept at the same level of living their accustomed to though. Being with that husband can have financial rewards, but I don't know that he should have to keep her in furs and diamonds and a shopping allowance...
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Old 04-29-2009, 10:33 AM   #202
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So she fools around on you and she gets all that? How does that work?
Near as I can tell the dude she left him for is HIS LAWYER.

Seriously though, it always pisses me off to hear stuff like this. Best of luck bro.
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Old 04-29-2009, 03:16 PM   #203
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ok, spoke to a lawyer friend who handles divorce cases....

His advice is essential the same as mine BUT he made one other important point...

GET A SWORN INVENTORY OF ALL POSSESIONS AND GET EVERYTHING APPRAISED. HAVE HER DO A SWORN INVENTORY AND YOU DO A SWORN INVENTORY AND TURN THEM OVER AT THE EXACT SAME TIME. (very important)

He recommends getting your own appraiser to appraise the house, if she doesn't get a seperate appraisal then whatever your guy says will stand.

get a valuation on EVERYTHING, down to the penny.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't let them convince you to take the "easy" way out... this is something you will live with for the rest of your life.
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Old 04-29-2009, 03:20 PM   #204
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He still paid for everything. Being a stay at home mom is not a right! A lot of moms work hard full time to bring home money along with the husband these days. It is a luxury he provided her!! He should get everything, cheating bitch nothing.
He paid for everything, and she made him, presumably, a nice home for he and his children to come home to. It isn't valueless, as you seem to think, and no court in the country is going to see it the way you do.
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Sorry to hear about this, Monk. This has been one of the best threads on here lately. I hope I never have to face this situation, but some of the advice(esp Austin's) has been worthy of filing away, just in case.
And Iowanian is cracking me up like he used to when I first visited the Planet.
Hope everything gets settled fairly for you, Monk.
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I don't know that I agree with the idea that a woman should be kept at the same level of living their accustomed to though. Being with that husband can have financial rewards, but I don't know that he should have to keep her in furs and diamonds and a shopping allowance...
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ALMOST FORGOT!

He also mentioned that you need to seperate out anything you owned or earned (pension, etc) BEFORE being married... that is yours and not subject to being split. PERIOD.
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He paid for everything, and she made him, presumably, a nice home for he and his children to come home tothat he paid for. It isn't valueless, as you seem to think, and no court in the country is going to see it the way you do.
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