Football Steve mcnair is dead - Page 11

SLAG · 07-04-2009, 02:15 PM

Onecell right now but they say murder/suicide

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memyselfI · 07-05-2009, 04:43 PM

TMZ.com has a bunch of pictures of them together on a boat and parasailing. Sigh, I guess it was too much to wait a full day for the kids to digest what has happened before they start publishing shit.

**The Bad Guy** · 07-05-2009, 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by memyselfI

TMZ.com has a bunch of pictures of them together on a boat and parasailing. Sigh, I guess it was too much to wait a full day for the kids to digest what has happened before they start publishing shit.

This is a huge story that has a lot of unanswered questions. I'm sure his kids are hitting refresh on TMZ.com every hour to see the latest too.

Frazod · 07-05-2009, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by KCUnited

Its like my old man used to say, never put your dick in someone crazier than you.

Well, here's a concept guaranteed to kill off the human race.

memyselfI · 07-05-2009, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by DTLB58

I guess it's just considered boring these days to keep your dick in your pants and spend time with your wife and kids

Great life lesson he has left his 4 sons, if in fact, this was a murder suicide because he was cheating on his wife.

It gets boring for the wife too whether many admit it or not. But you make choices in life and when you are an adult you make sacrifices for those you love because you fear losing them more than you value the thrill of something new or different.

memyselfI · 07-05-2009, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by The Bad Guy

This is a huge story that has a lot of unanswered questions. I'm sure his kids are hitting refresh on TMZ.com every hour to see the latest too.

They might not be but you can bet their friends are...

**The Bad Guy** · 07-05-2009, 04:48 PM

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They might not be but you can bet their friends are...

Big deal. It's a huge news story that should be covered. If we are going to see how much of a saint McNair is from ESPN/Yahoo, then they should post pictures of his affair on TMZ.

**Bearcat** · 07-05-2009, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by easymobee

She has to be the Princess of Wales or the CEO of Fingerhut to be considered a good lay?

The whole idea is to keep it down low, not easy to do if you are banging the 1st alternate of the Ms. Tennessee pageant.

Besides, a lot of desirable ass works in the service industry.

Of course not, but "how a lot of us "normal" people might handle being one of the biggest idols" ... "A lot of pretty top notch women would be continuously testing our resolve." ... "It happens" doesn't really conjure up thoughts of picking up a waitress at Dave and Busters.

Dealing with fame would be dealing with the peer pressure to go to strip clubs and night clubs and so forth, being treated like a king in VIP rooms while constantly being surrounded by the beautiful people.

That said, I think a lot of happily married athletes/celebrities would be insulted at the idea that fame and/or money and/or tons of attention are excuses to cheat on your spouse, and in his case, potentially ruin a family with kids.

If it's true they met at Dave and Busters, I don't see Steve McNair thinking "OMG, I can't take the pressure any longer".... it makes me think he gave into the pressure a long time ago, and is just now getting caught. That happens.

Mecca · 07-05-2009, 04:55 PM

Cheating makes him no different than what over half of the married people in our country something like that?

Personally I don't care like I always say, he wasn't my friend or my pal, I didn't know him or his wife or anyone he knows. All I know him as is as a football player.

There's obviously a middle ground here, he isn't this truly great guy nor is he a giant pile of shit that deserved to die.

**Rain Man** · 07-05-2009, 04:56 PM

Maybe he did really, really well at one of the video games and she was the 100,000 ticket prize.

Mecca · 07-05-2009, 04:57 PM

Ha, everyone has been out and seen a waitress they wanted to bang, don't deny it.

memyselfI · 07-05-2009, 04:57 PM

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100% agree.

I don't think anyone deserves to die for something like McNair did, but basically putting him on a HUGE ****ing pedestal and stating how difficult life must be is a joke.

You know when life is difficult? When you can't pay bills, struggle to put clothes on your kids, and food on the table. I don't know what it's like to be rich, but I'm pretty certain that life isn't too difficult when you can live off the interest from all the money in your bank account.

McNair was a retired football player, and had a wife and kids at home. He should have been with them. He's not out just chasing tail, he was basically supporting a whole other life outide of his marriage and that is 100% wrong.

I hope his family recovers from this.

It sounds like I'm going to cut him some slack here and I really don't mean to sound like that because I don't believe what he did was right and I think his death because of it is wrong.

I think it would be very difficult for a newly retired pro athlete to settle into a home life ESPECIALLY if they were a 'player' on the road. Not having someone waiting for them in every city (if they so choose) is just one of the perks they give up when the 'retire.' I understand this and I get where this could cause problems in a marriage. Women married to these guys have to with the understanding that their husbands will stay committed to them are slim. So no wife of a pro athlete would be shocked to hear their husband is cheating.

What bothers me about this is her age. Clearly, someone 16 years his junior is not emotionally equipped to handle being involved with a married man. Especially if he's making promises he did not intend to keep. Not every 20 year old would go off the deep end and do something like this but most of them would not be able to handle the complexity that adultery entails. A girl of 20, especially one who had been culturally sheltered, would not understand that she is not 'the one' but only one of many.

So while I'm not about to give a guy a pass for cheating, I could understand it if he chose someone who was closer to his age and maybe had been married or had been around the block a bit. She would be better able to spot a talker and playah. Likewise, the chances of someone being so emotionally unstable or ill-equipped would be less. I think we will find out that he's cheated many times in his past and only when he got to one too young or too culturally different did the situation get out of control.

sedated · 07-05-2009, 04:59 PM

So where is this murder on the scale? One one side is a drunk driver getting in an car accident and dying, on the other is a girl getting raped and someone justifying it with, "she shouldn't have been wearing those slutty clothes."

sedated · 07-05-2009, 05:02 PM

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What bothers me about this is her age....I could understand it if he chose someone who was closer to his age and maybe had been married or had been around the block a bit.

yes, because rich celebrities who are going to cheat, cheat with older married chicks - ya know, the same type of woman they have waiting for them at home

Mecca · 07-05-2009, 05:02 PM

Who gives a shit about her age, she was over 18 right, it doesn't matter.

**luv** · 07-05-2009, 05:05 PM

So, it's okay for a man to cheat on his wife if he's a retired pro athlete and the mistress is near his age?

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