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Blitz · 04:42 PM

I'm going to be avoiding her at all costs now.

Thanks for the tips.

UPDATE: I listened to the advice given and broke off things before it could get really serious. I simply told her although I'm flattered by her interest, because she is married, I would never go down the route. Further I told her, she has to stop sending me messages via my work email that can if looked at more closely create a whole new set of problems at work. At which point, she told me that she's never felt this way and that she didn't realize until it was too late (now) and that she agrees that we don't want to go further with this as it could lead to many problems. After which we continued talking but about other work related items.

In retrospect, I don't know what I was thinking because if I was in the other guys shoes, I would be furious.

Thanks guys, I think I dodged a potential bullet there.

ToxSocks · 04-09-2010, 10:11 AM

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Originally Posted by NewPhin

Because talking about it is going to ensure that she acts rationally in the future? The number of psycho bitches I've met in my life must far exceed yours. You see a fun-loving bimbo that wants guilt free sex. I see a ticking emotional time bomb that's going to eventually make his life miserable. Obviously, we've had different experiences to draw on that color our perceptions.

No, but talking about it can help you gauge where this chick is at emotionally.

Look, if Blitz isn't even going to consider it, then im not going to sit here and argue a case for him.

CoMoChief · 04-09-2010, 10:12 AM

**** that is the Mr comes home, beat his ass if he tries anything.

Chief Henry · 04-09-2010, 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by DeezNutz

Jerk off before work and think with the larger head.

this

Brock · 04-09-2010, 10:14 AM

What kind of idiot needs to be told not to do this? Kill yourself.

MOhillbilly · 04-09-2010, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing

So you agree, he can do this. It's not that ****ing hard. I would go out on a limb and say most single dudes would take this and run.

And how do we know that the Husband is even the violent type? How do we know that IF the husband finds out, he won't just say, "**** you bitch, Im out."

I know if I ever found my girl cheating on me, I'd just throw her and her shit out the door. I musta done somehting wrong or made her lose interest.

girls and wives are two diffrent stories not even in the same ball park. And the shit will hit the fan if the deception plays out, then all the little plans you had in the world will unravel.
You think youre just in it for a good time, next thing you know shes spillin the beans to the other whores at work.
And not every swingin dick single/married dude can handle it. to even imply such a thing shows a narrow concept of mans thinking.
Even a saint will blast you when women are concerned.

ToxSocks · 04-09-2010, 10:17 AM

Basically...I think we're looking at it from two different perspectives. We have young guys, and older dudes.

Blitz, you're a young guy. You only live once buddy. And then you're no longer a ****ing machine.

Some of these guys telling you not to are dudes that did it before. Think about that for a second. They've all done it, so why can't you?

Would you rather be 40 years old wishing you had ****ed this hot MILF, or would you rather be 40 years old and sitting around remembering how you ****ed this hot MILF?

You may never get this opportunity again. Take it and run. At least once. It doesn't have to be on going. If you dont, you may regret it later.

Better to regret something you did do, then to regret something you didn't do.

MOhillbilly · 04-09-2010, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by CoMoChief

**** that is the Mr comes home, beat his ass if he tries anything.

Thatd be pretty funny if it were someone who drug your ass out to the shop and put you to the skill saw/angle grinder.

Brock · 04-09-2010, 10:18 AM

My hope is the guys who think this is okay catch a mean case of herpes from the hot MILF.

seclark · 04-09-2010, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing

I think you'd have to use your intuition on this. He can gauge her charector better than any of us can.

my intuition tells me to run away from this whore, and fast.
you seem to need to get laid pretty bad. hope things work out.
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ToxSocks · 04-09-2010, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by MOhillbilly

Thatd be pretty funny if it were someone who drug your ass out to the shop and put you to the skill saw/angle grinder.

You guys are so damn extreme is rediculous.

**** it, Im not fighting this battle anymore.

MOhillbilly · 04-09-2010, 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing

Basically...I think we're looking at it from two different perspectives. We have young guys, and older dudes.

Blitz, you're a young guy. You only live once buddy. And then you're no longer a ****ing machine.

Some of these guys telling you not to are dudes that did it before. Think about that for a second. They've all done it, so why can't you?

Would you rather be 40 years old wishing you had ****ed this hot MILF, or would you rather be 40 years old and sitting around remembering how you ****ed this hot MILF?

You may never get this opportunity again. Take it and run. At least once. It doesn't have to be on going. If you dont, you may regret it later.

Better to regret something you did do, then to regret something you didn't do.

i never did speed, coke,or heroine and i dont regret that.
lol.
play with fire all you want.

ToxSocks · 04-09-2010, 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by seclark

my intuition tells me to run away from this whore, and fast.
you seem to need to get laid pretty bad. hope things work out.
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I get laid plenty. I'm just taking it from a young, single guys perspective. He has nothing to lose. MAYBE he gets into a fight whoopdee-****ing-doo

MOhillbilly · 04-09-2010, 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing

You guys are so damn extreme is rediculous.

**** it, Im not fighting this battle anymore.

lol. pussy.

patteeu · 04-09-2010, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing

The odds are pretty damn good that this home is already broken. you don't know what her relationship is. You dont know if her husband is a dick wad that treats her like shit or doesn't pay any attention to her. If someone goes out and cheats, they usually have a good reason.

There is no need to act like we know they have some sort of "Leave it to Beaver" scenario here. How do we know this husband isn't some drunk asshole who spends countless nights at the bar and doesn't come home till 4 am? Or that he doesn't have a plethora of excuses as to why he's 3 hours late from work everynight.

And I doubt this is her first time doing something like this. If she's coming on that strong then she's probably pulled this card before. This is what SHE wants. Dont think for her.

You don't know either. You're just rationalizing in order to justify your lack of conscience. No matter what shape the home is in now, this isn't likely to do anything but make it worse. I know, based on what you've said here, that your childhood was pretty f'ed up, but that's no reason to have no conscience about having a hand in visiting a shitty childhood on other kids or on other families.

MOhillbilly · 04-09-2010, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing

I get laid plenty. I'm just taking it from a young, single guys perspective. He has nothing to lose. MAYBE he gets into a fight whoopdee-****ing-doo

you sound like a young guy.

04-08-2010, 05:44 PM
Blitz Starter Join Date: Oct 2004 Casino cash: $10004900	Married coworker hitting on me...Should I bang her? I'm going to be avoiding her at all costs now. Thanks for the tips. UPDATE: I listened to the advice given and broke off things before it could get really serious. I simply told her although I'm flattered by her interest, because she is married, I would never go down the route. Further I told her, she has to stop sending me messages via my work email that can if looked at more closely create a whole new set of problems at work. At which point, she told me that she's never felt this way and that she didn't realize until it was too late (now) and that she agrees that we don't want to go further with this as it could lead to many problems. After which we continued talking but about other work related items. In retrospect, I don't know what I was thinking because if I was in the other guys shoes, I would be furious. Thanks guys, I think I dodged a potential bullet there. Last edited by Blitz; 04-09-2010 at 04:42 PM.. Reason: Advice received
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ToxSocks Needs more middle fingers Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: San Diego Casino cash: $2023063	Basically...I think we're looking at it from two different perspectives. We have young guys, and older dudes. Blitz, you're a young guy. You only live once buddy. And then you're no longer a **ing machine. Some of these guys telling you not to are dudes that did it before. Think about that for a second. They've all done it, so why can't you? Would you rather be 40 years old wishing you had ed this hot MILF, or would you rather be 40 years old and sitting around remembering how you **ed this hot MILF? You may never get this opportunity again. Take it and run. At least once. It doesn't have to be on going. If you dont, you may regret it later. Better to regret something you did do, then to regret something you didn't do. __________________ Life is like a dick. Sometimes it gets hard for no reason, but it can't stay hard forever.
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