Life Married coworker hitting on me...Should I bang her? - Page 16

Blitz · 04:42 PM

I'm going to be avoiding her at all costs now.

Thanks for the tips.

UPDATE: I listened to the advice given and broke off things before it could get really serious. I simply told her although I'm flattered by her interest, because she is married, I would never go down the route. Further I told her, she has to stop sending me messages via my work email that can if looked at more closely create a whole new set of problems at work. At which point, she told me that she's never felt this way and that she didn't realize until it was too late (now) and that she agrees that we don't want to go further with this as it could lead to many problems. After which we continued talking but about other work related items.

In retrospect, I don't know what I was thinking because if I was in the other guys shoes, I would be furious.

Thanks guys, I think I dodged a potential bullet there.

Brock · 04-09-2010, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing

When i said Prude, i was referring to Brock's inability to share any sex stories with his buds, as if he were too good for it.

Sex stories are one thing, bragging about your selfish homewrecking exploits are another.

ToxSocks · 04-09-2010, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by suds79

Detoxing you're fighting a losing battle here.

I like to share fun stories with my college buddies to. But there's a difference between sharing fun stories and talking up times as compared to where you did something that is flat out morally wrong. I mean character has to come into play at some point right?

And if you can't see the wrong in adultery then I guess we're wasting our time trying to explain it to you.

"Hey guys remember the scared look on that person's face when we did this to him?"

"Oh man that was good."

"Dude I one banged this married chick. She was freaky. I think they had kids and later got a divorce but not my problem. Was probably going to happen anyways. At least I got mine.

"That's awesome."

Shrug. I believe life is about taking care of you and yours first. Have fun, get it all out of your system. If you have nothing to lose really and fun to have, go for it. Blitz doesn't have a girl. He's not the one doing the cheating. He shouldn't worry about it.

Call me immoral, whatever. We all do stupid shit in our lives. If my friends told me they did that, I wouldn't hold it against them. Young males. Odds are pretty good that once he's done with her, he'll know nothing about what happens with the rest of her life.

The fact is, this is her choice. She is pursuing him. Not the other way around.

I still feel that life is about having fun and taking risks and living to tell about it tomorrow. When im old and settled in, I wanna know that I lived my life to its fullest. I'll do dumb things and i'll do the right thing as well. But when it's all said and done, I wouldn't wanna wish I did something that I didn't. I don't wanna be some grumpy old man pissed off about today's youth because they're out there doing things that i thought of doing but never did.

But you're right. Im fighting a losing battle. No one here is going to agree with me and that's ok.

Titty Meat · 04-09-2010, 12:19 PM

All joking aside would you want some other dude ****ing your mom besides your dad?

Then to brag about getting pussy? You must be from a frat that date rapes chicks.

seclark · 04-09-2010, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing

Shrug. I believe life is about taking care of you and yours first. Have fun, get it all out of your system. If you have nothing to lose really and fun to have, go for it. Blitz doesn't have a girl. He's not the one doing the cheating. He shouldn't worry about it.

Call me immoral, whatever. We all do stupid shit in our lives. If my friends told me they did that, I wouldn't hold it against them. Young males. Odds are pretty good that once he's done with her, he'll know nothing about what happens with the rest of her life.

The fact is, this is her choice. She is pursuing him. Not the other way around.

I still feel that life is about having fun and taking risks and living to tell about it tomorrow. When im old and settled in, I wanna know that I lived my life to its fullest. I'll do dumb things and i'll do the right thing as well. But when it's all said and done, I wouldn't wanna wish I did something that I didn't. I don't wanna be some grumpy old man pissed off about today's youth because they're out there doing things that i thought of doing but never did.

But you're right. Im fighting a losing battle. No one here is going to agree with me and that's ok.

no...it's both of their choices.
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ToxSocks · 04-09-2010, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by billay

All joking aside would you want some other dude ****ing your mom besides your dad?

Then to brag about getting pussy? You must be from a frat that date rapes chicks.

I dont have a mom. Don't have to worry about it.

A frat that date rapes chicks? wow. You're really reaching there.

And this is the Moms choice. If she's a whore, **** it, she's a whore. Nothing is going to change that.

Honestly, the dude would probably be better off if he did catch his wife cheating.

Titty Meat · 04-09-2010, 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing

I dont have a mom. Don't have to worry about it.

A frat that date rapes chicks? wow. You're really reaching there.

And this is the Moms choice. If she's a whore, **** it, she's a whore. Nothing is going to change that.

Honestly, the dude would probably be better off if he did catch his wife cheating.

suds79 · 04-09-2010, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing

Shrug. I believe life is about taking care of you and yours first.

And I guess that's the main difference. From a christian perspective I don't think you can live your life serving you and you alone. I don't know where you stand on that but that's your decision.

The thing is with the whole married chick thing. Okay lets say I buy into your philosophy of "have fun" "make yourself happy and get it out of your system." Fine. Have a blast. Do whatever..... Just don't it with girls who are married.

What's so hard about that?

RJ · 04-09-2010, 12:32 PM

I think Detoxing is playing you guys. There is no way a grown man could actually believe the things he is posting.

Brock · 04-09-2010, 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing

But when it's all said and done, I wouldn't wanna wish I did something that I didn't.

How about wishing you didn't do something you did?

Demonpenz · 04-09-2010, 12:32 PM

When I read this thread I knew the one person that would give the best answer... Googlegoogle

seclark · 04-09-2010, 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Brock

How about wishing you didn't do something you did?

oh brock...you're such a prude.
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BIG_DADDY · 04-09-2010, 12:56 PM

Detox,

Quit biting into everyone's shit and just get the part about not doing that with a married co-worker. Just move on dude.

MOhillbilly · 04-09-2010, 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing

Shrug. I believe life is about taking care of you and yours first. Have fun, get it all out of your system. If you have nothing to lose really and fun to have, go for it. Blitz doesn't have a girl. He's not the one doing the cheating. He shouldn't worry about it.

Call me immoral, whatever. We all do stupid shit in our lives. If my friends told me they did that, I wouldn't hold it against them. Young males. Odds are pretty good that once he's done with her, he'll know nothing about what happens with the rest of her life.

The fact is, this is her choice. She is pursuing him. Not the other way around.

I still feel that life is about having fun and taking risks and living to tell about it tomorrow. When im old and settled in, I wanna know that I lived my life to its fullest. I'll do dumb things and i'll do the right thing as well. But when it's all said and done, I wouldn't wanna wish I did something that I didn't. I don't wanna be some grumpy old man pissed off about today's youth because they're out there doing things that i thought of doing but never did.

But you're right. Im fighting a losing battle. No one here is going to agree with me and that's ok.

I dont know about you but when im old i dont wanna have to sit back and think about all the people i ****ed over through my actions directly or indirectly.

BIG_DADDY · 04-09-2010, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by MOhillbilly

I dont know about you but when im old i dont wanna have to sit back and think about all the people i ****ed over through my actions directly or indirectly.

Not many things worse than breaking up a family.

RaiderH8r · 04-09-2010, 01:10 PM

Setting aside, for a moment, the moral implications of such an action let's remember this: if a fella gets busted dicking down a married broad by her husband his immediate reaction may be to kill you and that his killing of you is entirely defensable in a court of law. I've made it somewhat of a lifelong guideline to keep myself out of situations where my untimely death could be deemed an agreeable action by a jury in the US of A.

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Blitz Starter Join Date: Oct 2004 Casino cash: $10004900	Married coworker hitting on me...Should I bang her? I'm going to be avoiding her at all costs now. Thanks for the tips. UPDATE: I listened to the advice given and broke off things before it could get really serious. I simply told her although I'm flattered by her interest, because she is married, I would never go down the route. Further I told her, she has to stop sending me messages via my work email that can if looked at more closely create a whole new set of problems at work. At which point, she told me that she's never felt this way and that she didn't realize until it was too late (now) and that she agrees that we don't want to go further with this as it could lead to many problems. After which we continued talking but about other work related items. In retrospect, I don't know what I was thinking because if I was in the other guys shoes, I would be furious. Thanks guys, I think I dodged a potential bullet there. Last edited by Blitz; 04-09-2010 at 04:42 PM.. Reason: Advice received
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