Flabbergasted and pissed

[RedThat]

Originally Posted by Saccopoo

No. There are few people who can. You are not one.

Dane is God so I won't bother.

[pr_capone]

Originally Posted by RedThat

Dane is God so I won't bother.

You asked for our opinion, we gave it. You come off as a whiny little bitch who lets himself get used, then cries about it.

Posters here tend to not respond well to people like you. You really have two options here.

1. Keep slugging it out with the posters here. I'll tell you from past experience that most of the time you will lose that battle, especially when the consensus is against you.

2. Learn to be a man & not put yourself in a situation where your "friends" use you. Fend for yourself and always have a way out.

/thread

[kstater]

Originally Posted by pr_capone

1. Keep slugging it out with the posters here. I'll tell you from past experience that most of the time you will lose that battle, especially when the consensus is against you.

Most of the time?

[notorious]

He should have paid for the tuxes. I would have been embarrased to make my friends pay for that after asking them to be a part of a big day in my life.




The ride is not that big of a deal.

[The Bad Guy]

Originally Posted by notorious

He should have paid for the tuxes. I would have been embarrased to make my friends pay for that after asking them to be a part of a big day in my life.




The ride is not that big of a deal.

Wait, what?

Since when is it the groom's responsibility to pay for everyone's tux? Now, as part of being in the wedding party, I gave them a sweet gift, but I never knew of this theory that the groom pays for the GM tux.

[Pablo]

Originally Posted by The Bad Guy

Wait, what?

Since when is it the groom's responsibility to pay for everyone's tux? Now, as part of being in the wedding party, I gave them a sweet gift, but I never knew of this theory that the groom pays for the GM tux.

I've been in a couple of weddings and I paid for my tux both times. I thought that was common. When you're asked to be a groomsman, you're basically being given an honor and being asked a big favor at the same time. So you suck it up and try to make everything go as smooth as possible on their big day.

[The Bad Guy]

Originally Posted by PostRockPablo

I've been in a couple of weddings and I paid for my tux both times. I thought that was common. When you're asked to be a groomsman, you're basically being given an honor and being asked a big favor at the same time. So you suck it up and try to make everything go as smooth as possible on their big day.

That's the way I've been taught as well.

[notorious]

Originally Posted by The Bad Guy

Wait, what?

Since when is it the groom's responsibility to pay for everyone's tux? Now, as part of being in the wedding party, I gave them a sweet gift, but I never knew of this theory that the groom pays for the GM tux.

It must be the thing to do in my circle. Oh well, to each their own.

[DaFace]

Originally Posted by The Bad Guy

Wait, what?

Since when is it the groom's responsibility to pay for everyone's tux? Now, as part of being in the wedding party, I gave them a sweet gift, but I never knew of this theory that the groom pays for the GM tux.

It just depends on the situation. I've been in 6 weddings and didn't pay for the tux (or other outfit) in any of them. That said, it was considered a "that's cool of them to pay for it" thing in each one rather than a "they'd better pay for it" thing.

In my opinion, your friends shouldn't have to pay for you to get married, but that's just me.

[The Bad Guy]

Originally Posted by DaFace

It just depends on the situation. I've been in 6 weddings and didn't pay for the tux (or other outfit) in any of them. That said, it was considered a "that's cool of them to pay for it" thing in each one rather than a "they'd better pay for it" thing.

In my opinion, your friends shouldn't have to pay for you to get married, but that's just me.

It must be where I'm from. I've never heard of this practice before and I've been in tons of wedding parties.

[RedThat]

Originally Posted by pr_capone

You asked for our opinion, we gave it. You come off as a whiny little bitch who lets himself get used, then cries about it.

Posters here tend to not respond well to people like you. You really have two options here.

1. Keep slugging it out with the posters here. I'll tell you from past experience that most of the time you will lose that battle, especially when the consensus is against you.

2. Learn to be a man & not put yourself in a situation where your "friends" use you. Fend for yourself and always have a way out.

/thread

Thanks for your opinion.

When you say consensus, I perceive that as wolves. I understand you're giving me a warning sign to not feed myself to the wolves around here. Appreciate that.

If you say you got it, lets end the thread then. You said what you had to say and did what you had to do. You gave your opinion, even though I don't agree with it 100%.

I guess best thing is not to say anything. But I do expect some of the wolves to say stuff to try to stir me up so the thread could be extended. The hard part will be resisting temptation. Tempted to say something back, but will try my hardest not to. If the wolves could shut the f*** up it would make my life, your life and everyone elses a lot easier.

/thread