Misc Does the "no contact" rule work?

oldman · 02-08-2012, 01:35 PM

Lots of good advice here, especially the ones that tell you to leave it alone. I'll repeat one thing that was said. It's best you find out now instead of after there was a ring and kids involved.
I will tell you that romance with an ex rarely works. There's too many hurt feelings and unanswered questions to bury. Since she's been lying to you over the last few months, would you ever be able to trust her again? If you do do the horizontal bop again, how do you know she isn't cheating on another guy?
Let her go and be glad you have your freedom. There's a good woman out there just waiting for you. Forget the liar and move on.

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02-08-2012, 01:35 PM	#10
oldman Curmudgeon Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: North by Northwest Casino cash: $5836784	Lots of good advice here, especially the ones that tell you to leave it alone. I'll repeat one thing that was said. It's best you find out now instead of after there was a ring and kids involved. I will tell you that romance with an ex rarely works. There's too many hurt feelings and unanswered questions to bury. Since she's been lying to you over the last few months, would you ever be able to trust her again? If you do do the horizontal bop again, how do you know she isn't cheating on another guy? Let her go and be glad you have your freedom. There's a good woman out there just waiting for you. Forget the liar and move on.
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