Life New Dating Megathread - Page 9

**Buck** · 03-03-2013, 12:50 PM

Luv's old thread is in the HOC for being too big.

Post all your dating questions, comments, concerns, advice, and scrutiny in here!

Discuss Thrower · 03-05-2013, 02:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NewChief

I've found your problem, but I don't have an easy solution:

This points to some kind of depression or other emotional issues. It's a self-perpetuating thing as well in that you feel like shit, so you don't get laid. You don't get laid, so you feel like shit (and I hate boiling it down to sex, because the same formula likely applies to all sorts of other aspects of your life as well).

The answer is "stop being depressed," but we all know it's not as easy as that. Find some things that you enjoy that you're good at (preferably that involve physical activity, Xbox doesn't count). Engage in those things on a regular basis. Begin to feel better.

But bro I've got a 1.5/1 KD spread

lcarus · 03-05-2013, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower

But bro I've got a 1.5/1 KD spread

And you aren't getting laid?! Wtf is the world coming to? I have a 1.3 KD and I get mad poon as a result. Perhaps you should advertise it more often. Get a t-shirt made or somethin! There's a world of women out there dying to get with digital war heroes such as you and I!

**Buck** · 03-05-2013, 06:59 PM

I can't believe what is happening to me right now. I am going to see this girl tonight, and I have 2 other girls feeding out of the palm of my hand. I'm not sure what to do.

The girl I'm seeing tonight is my #1 choice, but one of the other girls has the best looking body. Problem is she is a coworker, though I don't work in the same department as her.

NewChief · 03-05-2013, 07:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Buck

I can't believe what is happening to me right now. I am going to see this girl tonight, and I have 2 other girls feeding out of the palm of my hand. I'm not sure what to do.

The girl I'm seeing tonight is my #1 choice, but one of the other girls has the best looking body. Problem is she is a coworker, though I don't work in the same department as her.

Stay away from workplace drama. That's my advice. Especially if you work somewhere you intend on staying.

Hammock Parties · 03-05-2013, 07:10 PM

pics or GTFO buck

PunkinDrublic · 03-05-2013, 07:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Buck

I can't believe what is happening to me right now. I am going to see this girl tonight, and I have 2 other girls feeding out of the palm of my hand. I'm not sure what to do.

The girl I'm seeing tonight is my #1 choice, but one of the other girls has the best looking body. Problem is she is a coworker, though I don't work in the same department as her.

Try to get a threesome. Gotta strike while the irons hot.

KurtCobain · 03-05-2013, 07:15 PM

threesomes are overrated

Spott · 03-05-2013, 07:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Argo

threesomes are overrated

Said no man ever.

NewChief · 03-05-2013, 08:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Argo

threesomes are overrated

In a threesome, I'd probably nut within 10 seconds, then the chicks would send me to the gas station for doritos or something.

ghak99 · 03-05-2013, 08:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NewChief

In a threesome, I'd probably nut within 10 seconds, then the chicks would send me to the gas station for doritos or something.

Discuss Thrower · 03-05-2013, 08:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NewChief

In a threesome, I'd probably nut within 10 seconds, then the chicks would send me to the gas station for doritos or something.

This is like an inverted Plotline to many a pornographic movie.

**luv** · 03-18-2013, 07:59 PM

A little blog I wrote today.

My Dilemma

Does anyone else thing there’s a line to be found between “waiting and letting things happen to you” and “if you want something to happen, you have to make it happen”?

I so often hear from people that I need to just be patient and let things happen. I get what they’re saying, but what they don’t know is that I’ve been waiting for so long that it seems that it’s never going to happen.

At the same time, I hear from people that sometimes you just have to go out and make things happen. Whenever I do this, I always end up trying too hard, and then I get frustrated whenever trying too hard leads to the same things not happening.

I honestly believe that, at the very core of things, this is ultimately why I’m still single. I either wait and watch as other people end up with guys that I’m interested in, or I try too hard and end up coming across as clingy.

I’ve realized other past mistakes: wanting to feel needed, thinking I could change or “fix” people, changing who I am in order to be the type of person they want, etc. I really feel that I’ve hopefully fixed those problems. I now need to feel wanted, I’ve learned to accept people based on who they are right now, and I will never be anything but me.

This most recent problem, finding that line, is proving to be rather difficult. Do I play the waiting game? What if I end up waiting on one and overlook someone else in the process? At least if I go for it, I’ll end up knowing for sure. However, going for it typically lands me in the friend zone.

I get too comfortable with people too quickly, and I can never listen whenever I’m telling myself to shut up. I’m too trusting. I let people in on private details of my life too easily (apparently, lol). These are just part of who I am, though. Surely, there’s someone out there who’s able to look past them, or, better yet, accept them. Anyway, I seem to have gone off on a tangent.

Any advice for the relationship challenged?

CHENZ A! · 03-18-2013, 08:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by luv

A little blog I wrote today.

My Dilemma

Does anyone else thing there’s a line to be found between “waiting and letting things happen to you” and “if you want something to happen, you have to make it happen”?

I so often hear from people that I need to just be patient and let things happen. I get what they’re saying, but what they don’t know is that I’ve been waiting for so long that it seems that it’s never going to happen.

At the same time, I hear from people that sometimes you just have to go out and make things happen. Whenever I do this, I always end up trying too hard, and then I get frustrated whenever trying too hard leads to the same things not happening.

I honestly believe that, at the very core of things, this is ultimately why I’m still single. I either wait and watch as other people end up with guys that I’m interested in, or I try too hard and end up coming across as clingy.

I’ve realized other past mistakes: wanting to feel needed, thinking I could change or “fix” people, changing who I am in order to be the type of person they want, etc. I really feel that I’ve hopefully fixed those problems. I now need to feel wanted, I’ve learned to accept people based on who they are right now, and I will never be anything but me.

This most recent problem, finding that line, is proving to be rather difficult. Do I play the waiting game? What if I end up waiting on one and overlook someone else in the process? At least if I go for it, I’ll end up knowing for sure. However, going for it typically lands me in the friend zone.

I get too comfortable with people too quickly, and I can never listen whenever I’m telling myself to shut up. I’m too trusting. I let people in on private details of my life too easily (apparently, lol). These are just part of who I am, though. Surely, there’s someone out there who’s able to look past them, or, better yet, accept them. Anyway, I seem to have gone off on a tangent.

Any advice for the relationship challenged?

You should definitely try the online dating thing. That way, what you both are looking for is out in the open, and you can't end up in the friend zone.

**luv** · 03-18-2013, 08:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CHENZ A!

You should definitely try the online dating thing. That way, what you both are looking for is out in the open, and you can't end up in the friend zone.

I am master at ending up in the friend zone.

spades · 03-18-2013, 08:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Buck

I can't believe what is happening to me right now. I am going to see this girl tonight, and I have 2 other girls feeding out of the palm of my hand. I'm not sure what to do.

The girl I'm seeing tonight is my #1 choice, but one of the other girls has the best looking body. Problem is she is a coworker, though I don't work in the same department as her.

4some

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03-05-2013, 06:59 PM	#123
Buck Take a Chill Pill Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: South Carolina Casino cash: $6030295	I can't believe what is happening to me right now. I am going to see this girl tonight, and I have 2 other girls feeding out of the palm of my hand. I'm not sure what to do. The girl I'm seeing tonight is my #1 choice, but one of the other girls has the best looking body. Problem is she is a coworker, though I don't work in the same department as her.
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03-18-2013, 07:59 PM	#132
luv You think you can get by this? Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Springfield, MO Casino cash: $-1240000	A little blog I wrote today. My Dilemma Does anyone else thing there’s a line to be found between “waiting and letting things happen to you” and “if you want something to happen, you have to make it happen”? I so often hear from people that I need to just be patient and let things happen. I get what they’re saying, but what they don’t know is that I’ve been waiting for so long that it seems that it’s never going to happen. At the same time, I hear from people that sometimes you just have to go out and make things happen. Whenever I do this, I always end up trying too hard, and then I get frustrated whenever trying too hard leads to the same things not happening. I honestly believe that, at the very core of things, this is ultimately why I’m still single. I either wait and watch as other people end up with guys that I’m interested in, or I try too hard and end up coming across as clingy. I’ve realized other past mistakes: wanting to feel needed, thinking I could change or “fix” people, changing who I am in order to be the type of person they want, etc. I really feel that I’ve hopefully fixed those problems. I now need to feel wanted, I’ve learned to accept people based on who they are right now, and I will never be anything but me. This most recent problem, finding that line, is proving to be rather difficult. Do I play the waiting game? What if I end up waiting on one and overlook someone else in the process? At least if I go for it, I’ll end up knowing for sure. However, going for it typically lands me in the friend zone. I get too comfortable with people too quickly, and I can never listen whenever I’m telling myself to shut up. I’m too trusting. I let people in on private details of my life too easily (apparently, lol). These are just part of who I am, though. Surely, there’s someone out there who’s able to look past them, or, better yet, accept them. Anyway, I seem to have gone off on a tangent. Any advice for the relationship challenged?
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