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Old 03-03-2013, 12:50 PM  
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Old 06-10-2013, 01:50 PM   #1231
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It's hard to believe you can be so gaga over her one week and then let a few bumps in the road like this derail the situation completely. One thing you need to realize about relationships is that they aren't always smooth sailing. A couple of the skills you need to develop before you can have a successful long term relationship are (a) being able to forgive the occasional unpleasant realities of your partner and (b) being able to defuse a problem between the two of you without laying all the blame on the partner.

Of course, the partner has the same hill to climb so no matter how good you get at it, if she's not trying to do the same it can still fail. I don't know whether this gal is someone you can be happy with or not, but most likely, both of you have some responsibility for how this weekend went. And I'm not talking about the fact that you forgot your shirt. I'm mostly talking about how the two of you interacted when these hurdles confronted you. Defensiveness and blame begets more defensiveness and blame and a mild bump in the road can turn into a significant fight pretty easily.

Whether you work on your reconciliation skills with this girl or not, you're going to have to do it at some point. It's when you can both work at fixing relationship snafus that you can really say you have a meaningful relationship. Until then, you're really just along for the ride.
That sounds like way too much work.....
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Old 06-10-2013, 01:50 PM   #1232
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Something in particular happen, or was it just outside forces? Sorry to hear it.
Not any one particular event or disagreement or anything. It'd been passively on life support for the past 2-3 weeks. Just not 'right' for each other and I'd been traveling a good portion of the last month so that put a strain on things too.
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Old 06-10-2013, 01:53 PM   #1233
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It's hard to believe you can be so gaga over her one week and then let a few bumps in the road like this derail the situation completely. One thing you need to realize about relationships is that they aren't always smooth sailing. A couple of the skills you need to develop before you can have a successful long term relationship are (a) being able to forgive the occasional unpleasant realities of your partner and (b) being able to defuse a problem between the two of you without laying all the blame on the partner.

Of course, the partner has the same hill to climb so no matter how good you get at it, if she's not trying to do the same it can still fail. I don't know whether this gal is someone you can be happy with or not, but most likely, both of you have some responsibility for how this weekend went. And I'm not talking about the fact that you forgot your shirt. I'm mostly talking about how the two of you interacted when these hurdles confronted you. Defensiveness and blame begets more defensiveness and blame and a mild bump in the road can turn into a significant fight pretty easily.

Whether you work on your reconciliation skills with this girl or not, you're going to have to do it at some point. It's when you can both work at fixing relationship snafus that you can really say you have a meaningful relationship. Until then, you're really just along for the ride.
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Old 06-10-2013, 01:59 PM   #1234
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What site? And is that a paid feature?
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Old 06-10-2013, 02:04 PM   #1235
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It's hard to believe you can be so gaga over her one week and then let a few bumps in the road like this derail the situation completely. One thing you need to realize about relationships is that they aren't always smooth sailing. A couple of the skills you need to develop before you can have a successful long term relationship are (a) being able to forgive the occasional unpleasant realities of your partner and (b) being able to defuse a problem between the two of you without laying all the blame on the partner.

Of course, the partner has the same hill to climb so no matter how good you get at it, if she's not trying to do the same it can still fail. I don't know whether this gal is someone you can be happy with or not, but most likely, both of you have some responsibility for how this weekend went. And I'm not talking about the fact that you forgot your shirt. I'm mostly talking about how the two of you interacted when these hurdles confronted you. Defensiveness and blame begets more defensiveness and blame and a mild bump in the road can turn into a significant fight pretty easily.

Whether you work on your reconciliation skills with this girl or not, you're going to have to do it at some point. It's when you can both work at fixing relationship snafus that you can really say you have a meaningful relationship. Until then, you're really just along for the ride.
This. The shirt might be another issue. The breakfast is her not wanting a scene. These instances are part of relationships.
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Old 06-10-2013, 02:06 PM   #1237
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Hell, I went on a trip last week and forgot to bring ANY underwear.
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Old 06-10-2013, 02:28 PM   #1239
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My wife. She forgets tons of shit. I keep telling her that she needs to get her brain checked out.
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Old 06-10-2013, 02:43 PM   #1241
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You & me both, Buck. My relationship 'officially' ended yesterday.
This is two or three failed relationships for you in the last year or so, isn't it?

Do you simply attract crazy?
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Old 06-10-2013, 02:46 PM   #1242
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This is two or three failed relationships for you in the last year or so, isn't it?

Do you simply attract crazy?
Maybe he attracts women who aren't looking for someone who think's he's the most awesome thing in any room he enters. Just a wild guess.
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Actually I'm guessing he attracts very hot women, because he's a well-off good looking guy. And hot equals crazy. Especially down there.
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Old 06-10-2013, 03:34 PM   #1244
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This is two or three failed relationships for you in the last year or so, isn't it?

Do you simply attract crazy?
No. The girls I've been in relationships with are pretty amazing - the relationships just haven't worked out for varying reasons. The last one that got to this level of seriousness was 3 years ago.

The others weren't more than casual dating & the one that ended a year ago this time was because the girl moved away.
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Maybe he attracts women who aren't looking for someone who think's he's the most awesome thing in any room he enters. Just a wild guess.
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