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**Buck** · 03-03-2013, 12:50 PM

Luv's old thread is in the HOC for being too big.

Post all your dating questions, comments, concerns, advice, and scrutiny in here!

Valiant · 08-12-2013, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Buck

I've been taking this chick to the bone zone, but I don't really feel a connection with her. It's nice having all the no strings attached stuff though.

She loves you..

**MahiMike** · 08-12-2013, 07:38 PM

Need opinions on dating higher tier women. The kind every guy in the bar wants. For some reason she likes me. Turns out shes way cooler than i imagined. My experience is to play it cool cuz these girls usually have clingy guys. Do u call them often or let them wait?

Valiant · 08-12-2013, 08:05 PM

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Originally Posted by MahiMike

Need opinions on dating higher tier women. The kind every guy in the bar wants. For some reason she likes me. Turns out shes way cooler than i imagined. My experience is to play it cool cuz these girls usually have clingy guys. Do u call them often or let them wait?

I would assume if she likes you and is tired of the douches and clingers just be honest with her..

GordonGekko · 08-12-2013, 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by MahiMike

Need opinions on dating higher tier women. The kind every guy in the bar wants. For some reason she likes me. Turns out shes way cooler than i imagined. My experience is to play it cool cuz these girls usually have clingy guys. Do u call them often or let them wait?

Play the game, dominate when you need to.

Always be dominate, alpha girls need alpha guys.

If girls have clingy guys that they allow to linger, that is going to hurt you one way or the other. I've never understood why women do this, but yeah, hot girls keep D on demand just in case they need it.

Again, this is just my opinion.

keg in kc · 08-12-2013, 08:13 PM

Don't treat it like it's a game. Be yourself. If that doesn't work for her, oh well.

GordonGekko · 08-12-2013, 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by keg in kc

Don't treat it like it's a game. Be yourself. If that doesn't work for her, oh well.

Good advice, too. Not being yourself will just make you miserable in the end.

Discuss Thrower · 08-12-2013, 08:48 PM

Turns out she broke up with the boyfriend. She messaged me for the first time in a month. I'm going to parlay this into a FWB situation.

Hammock Parties · 08-12-2013, 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower

Turns out she broke up with the boyfriend. She messaged me for the first time in a month. I'm going to parlay this into a FWB situation.

So she wants what she wants when she wants it, and **** everyone else.

**** her, man.

Like literally, **** her. And then never talk to her again.

Discuss Thrower · 08-12-2013, 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by gochiefs(exceptQB)

So she wants what she wants when she wants it, and **** everyone else.

**** her, man.

Like literally, **** her. And then never talk to her again.

That's the plan.

Titty Meat · 08-12-2013, 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by gochiefs(exceptQB)

So she wants what she wants when she wants it, and **** everyone else.

**** her, man.

Like literally, **** her. And then never talk to her again.

This is why you're still a virgin

Rudy tossed tigger's salad · 08-12-2013, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower

That's the plan.

Doubt it

Discuss Thrower · 08-12-2013, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Rudy Was Offsides

Doubt it

No. If I want an actual relationship I just have to get set up by my friend's girlfriend with one of her friends.

GordonGekko · 08-12-2013, 09:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower

Turns out she broke up with the boyfriend. She messaged me for the first time in a month. I'm going to parlay this into a FWB situation.

Nice dude, this is your time, your moment, execute.

**Canofbier** · 08-13-2013, 03:09 PM

I was considering the creation of a new thread for this, but ultimately decided that it's not of interest to a lot of the posters on this board as a whole.

There's a blog that's been going on for a few months detailing the experimental 40-day relationship between two successful young friends who happened to become single at about the same time. I just discovered it today via a friend's Facebook post, but it's ongoing and nearing its end.

The rules:

They must see each other every day for 40 days.
They must go on at least three "dates" per week.
They will see a couples therapist once a week.
They must go on one weekend trip together.
They must fill out a daily questionaire and document everything.
They must not see, date, hookup or have sex with anybody else.

Other than the fact that their posts are amusing and well-written, both people are likable and the website is very nice to look at (they're both artists). They've posted their entries through 33 days, and will finish up some time next week.

They offer a lot of honest insight into their lives and experiences, and I found myself doing a lot of self-reflection as I read through their interactions. If you've got a bit of time here and there, I would recommend that you read through it.

**DaKCMan AP** · 08-14-2013, 08:17 AM

So... I went on a few dates after my previous relationship ended. Some were good, some were ok, some were terrible. I'm continuing to date one of the girls. We haven't reached the point of exclusivity yet but we enjoy each other's company, have shared interests, etc.

Anyway.. after the 4th date she discovered (unknown to both of us) that I've known her brother for 10 years. I went to college with him, he's a friend, we share mutual friends. He and I have been to weddings, bachelor parties, football games, parties, etc. together over that time period. I knew he had a sister but had never met or even seen pictures of her. My parents also know his (and her) dad. Small world just got smaller.

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Canofbier ¡RIOS MIO! Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Minneapolis Casino cash: $3806981	I was considering the creation of a new thread for this, but ultimately decided that it's not of interest to a lot of the posters on this board as a whole. There's a blog that's been going on for a few months detailing the experimental 40-day relationship between two successful young friends who happened to become single at about the same time. I just discovered it today via a friend's Facebook post, but it's ongoing and nearing its end. The rules: They must see each other every day for 40 days. They must go on at least three "dates" per week. They will see a couples therapist once a week. They must go on one weekend trip together. They must fill out a daily questionaire and document everything. They must not see, date, hookup or have sex with anybody else. Other than the fact that their posts are amusing and well-written, both people are likable and the website is very nice to look at (they're both artists). They've posted their entries through 33 days, and will finish up some time next week. They offer a lot of honest insight into their lives and experiences, and I found myself doing a lot of self-reflection as I read through their interactions. If you've got a bit of time here and there, I would recommend that you read through it.
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DaKCMan AP Beloved & Awesome CP Celebrity Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Florida Casino cash: $5594952	So... I went on a few dates after my previous relationship ended. Some were good, some were ok, some were terrible. I'm continuing to date one of the girls. We haven't reached the point of exclusivity yet but we enjoy each other's company, have shared interests, etc. Anyway.. after the 4th date she discovered (unknown to both of us) that I've known her brother for 10 years. I went to college with him, he's a friend, we share mutual friends. He and I have been to weddings, bachelor parties, football games, parties, etc. together over that time period. I knew he had a sister but had never met or even seen pictures of her. My parents also know his (and her) dad. Small world just got smaller. __________________
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