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tooge · 08-29-2013, 08:01 AM

Ok guys, had a conversation with my wife this morning that got my blood boiling. I think I need some blood pressure meds right now. Anyhow, so last Friday night, my 9 yo daughter was invited to a sleep over with some friends from her dance studio. They are all about the same age. The mother hosting the event is fairly involved in the dance studio functions. During the sleepover, the mover had a couple of girl friends over and they had some drinks and did jello shots. I know this because the dumbass posted it on facebook. Here's the bad part. They offered a jello shot to the girls. My daughter says MOST of them, including her didn't want one, but I'm just finding out about this incident this morning, and I'm ****ing livid. I went on her facebook, but decided I didn't want to piss my wife off and make my life hell, so I didn't try to "friend" her or message her in any way. My wife insists that she is going to talk to the dance studio about it, but is asking for me to not get involved. This is the type of behavior that turns little girls into pole dancing sluts. Here is her facebook:

https://www.facebook.com/events/2102.../#!/jade.krull

What should I do.

**Buck** · 08-29-2013, 08:02 AM

You should raise hell.

Edit: I'm serious. Who the **** offer alcohol to other people's kids?

Rasputin · 08-29-2013, 08:04 AM

Either call the cops and make a report or just go kill someone? Your choice.

Marcellus · 08-29-2013, 08:04 AM

Let the wife handle it. I would be pissed too but let her deal with it if at all possible.

Its a mom to mom kind of issue.

el borracho · 08-29-2013, 08:06 AM

1. Collect any evidence you can of the event (screen shots, testimony, etc.)
2. Call the police

Rasputin · 08-29-2013, 08:07 AM

I'd do a FBI sting. Get them busted.

KCUnited · 08-29-2013, 08:07 AM

Just reinforce with your daughter that she made the right decision and let your wife handle the lady business.

If dance mom has a husband, he's fair game for a headlock.

BlackHelicopters · 08-29-2013, 08:08 AM

Unacceptable. Offering alcohol to nine year olds? Who the hell does that? Call the police.

Simply Red · 08-29-2013, 08:09 AM

I'd definitely address it - but I'd go outside of FB to do so.

**Saul Good** · 08-29-2013, 08:09 AM

Talk to the woman rationally, first. It's possible that they made some regular jello for the girls and were just playing around. I remember my aunt serving us champagne when we were that age and watching us get "drunk" off of sparkling grape juice.

KC_Lee · 08-29-2013, 08:11 AM

Let your do the talking but be there when the conversation occurs. This is your child and you get a say in how this is resolved.

But, and most importantly, praise your daughter for doing the right thing as KCUnited said. Sounds like you are raising a good kid there tooge. Her choice should be praised by you and her mom.

tooge · 08-29-2013, 08:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Saul Good

Talk to the woman rationally, first. It's possible that they made some regular jello for the girls and were just playing around. I remember my aunt serving us champagne when we were that age and watching us get "drunk" off of sparkling grape juice.

I guess that is entirely possible, but we do as we see, and I don't think it is apropriate to do that in front of little girls. For right now, I'm letting mom handle it, but I'm pretty pissed off and don't think women handle things the way they need to be handled all the time.

tooge · 08-29-2013, 08:13 AM

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Originally Posted by KC_Lee

Let your do the talking but be there when the conversation occurs. This is your child and you get a say in how this is resolved.

But, and most importantly, praise your daughter for doing the right thing as KCUnited said. Sounds like you are raising a good kid there tooge. Her choice should be praised by you and her mom.

thank you. That is the plan. I am going to sit down with her tonight and have a chat about it and how the other mother made a mistake (and should be choked out) and that she did the right thing.

KC_Lee · 08-29-2013, 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by tooge

I guess that is entirely possible, but we do as we see, and I don't think it is apropriate to do that in front of little girls. For right now, I'm letting mom handle it, but I'm pretty pissed off and don't think women handle things the way they need to be handled all the time.

Free advice, conversation should have these bullet points;

- What you did was wrong
- Don't ever do it again
- If you do and I find out I'm calling the cops.

**Dartgod** · 08-29-2013, 08:15 AM

This place is slipping.

Get the mother in a private location and PIIHB.

That or antifreeze.

08-29-2013, 08:01 AM
tooge MVP Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Liberty, MO Casino cash: $624112	Chiefsplanet advice Ok guys, had a conversation with my wife this morning that got my blood boiling. I think I need some blood pressure meds right now. Anyhow, so last Friday night, my 9 yo daughter was invited to a sleep over with some friends from her dance studio. They are all about the same age. The mother hosting the event is fairly involved in the dance studio functions. During the sleepover, the mover had a couple of girl friends over and they had some drinks and did jello shots. I know this because the dumbass posted it on facebook. Here's the bad part. They offered a jello shot to the girls. My daughter says MOST of them, including her didn't want one, but I'm just finding out about this incident this morning, and I'm ****ing livid. I went on her facebook, but decided I didn't want to piss my wife off and make my life hell, so I didn't try to "friend" her or message her in any way. My wife insists that she is going to talk to the dance studio about it, but is asking for me to not get involved. This is the type of behavior that turns little girls into pole dancing sluts. Here is her facebook: https://www.facebook.com/events/2102.../#!/jade.krull What should I do.
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08-29-2013, 08:02 AM	#2
Buck Take a Chill Pill Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: South Carolina Casino cash: $5990295	You should raise hell. Edit: I'm serious. Who the **** offer alcohol to other people's kids?
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08-29-2013, 08:04 AM	#3
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08-29-2013, 08:04 AM	#4
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08-29-2013, 08:06 AM	#5
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08-29-2013, 08:07 AM	#6
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08-29-2013, 08:07 AM	#7
KCUnited Cheat Death Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Land of Drincoln Casino cash: $-1621756	Just reinforce with your daughter that she made the right decision and let your wife handle the lady business. If dance mom has a husband, he's fair game for a headlock.
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08-29-2013, 08:08 AM	#8
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08-29-2013, 08:09 AM	#9
Simply Red You Sweetie! Join Date: Sep 2005 Casino cash: $2021206219 VARSITY	I'd definitely address it - but I'd go outside of FB to do so.
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08-29-2013, 08:09 AM	#10
Saul Good Quit your bullshit Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Bored of winning Casino cash: $10052799	Talk to the woman rationally, first. It's possible that they made some regular jello for the girls and were just playing around. I remember my aunt serving us champagne when we were that age and watching us get "drunk" off of sparkling grape juice. __________________ Today is not a good day to be a pussy.
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08-29-2013, 08:11 AM	#11
KC_Lee You're CARICATURES, ALL of you Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas City, MO Casino cash: $-1909040	Let your do the talking but be there when the conversation occurs. This is your child and you get a say in how this is resolved. But, and most importantly, praise your daughter for doing the right thing as KCUnited said. Sounds like you are raising a good kid there tooge. Her choice should be praised by you and her mom. __________________ “There is no absolute knowledge. And those who claim it, whether they are scientists or dogmatists, open the door to tragedy.” - Jacob Bronowski, The Ascent of Man
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08-29-2013, 08:15 AM	#15
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