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Window Licking Whiner · 11-09-2011, 01:00 PM

Hey guys, I'm trying to get some public exposure about my case in the media, and while I dont live in Missouri or Kansas, I do frequent here so I thought I'd share my story as well. Feel free to share if you are so inclined, any publicity I can get would be appreciated.

Take a look here:
http://www.fathersandfamilies.org/?p=20918

And here's my lawyers blog:
http://marcatanner.wordpress.com/201...fixable-hmmmm/

http://marcatanner.wordpress.com/201...tah-part-deux/

In our last hearing, she admitted that I'm the biological father, that she was telling me she wanted a divorce, that she did leave her husband, and that she was not having sex with her husband when the baby was concieved. Even after the judge chastised her for doing all that, they still said I have no right to ask for a DNA test.

Now think of it like this: If the husband had knocked up a single woman, could he also hide behind "the stability of the marriage", as isnt having a single woman asking for a DNA test interfereing in the marriage? Answer NO...they'd hit you up with CS and a DNA test so fast that your head would spin. This law only exists to protect women, and as such violates the equal protection clause of the constitution.

Anyways thought I would share my story.

**DeezNutz** · 11-09-2011, 02:44 PM

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Good luck, dude. I wish you, and, most importantly, the child well.

jspchief · 11-09-2011, 02:44 PM

Don't worry, you'll get your DNA test. Right after the husband leaves her and decides he doesn't want to pay child support on you kid.

Anyway, kudos for trying to do the right thing.

Sent from my ADR6350

Skyy God · 11-09-2011, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Pawnmower

Hmm...

The moral to this story: Don't impregnate a married women with the expectation you'll get parental rights.

The end.

**Ming the Merciless** · 11-09-2011, 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Pittsie

Case is over. Apparently the OP is just venting.

I dont know, perhaps he changed his mind?

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So those of you who read the comments to these posts know that the client I referred to in my previous post about a paternity law case changed his mind about settling. (Through some settlement negotiations Mom agreed to, and FINALLY posted a picture of the baby on her family blog. This child looks so much like his Dad that if he is NOT my client’s, I will run naked through the street.

Brock · 11-09-2011, 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by jspchief

Don't worry, you'll get your DNA test. Right after the husband leaves her and decides he doesn't want to pay child support on you kid.

"I've changed my mind AGAIN! I'm coming HOME!!!!"

**Ming the Merciless** · 11-09-2011, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Pittsie

The moral to this story: Don't impregnate a married women with the expectation you'll get parental rights.

The end.

Wow thanks for the enlightenment...maybe we should call you Captain Hindsight and you can come around and tell people not to make the mistakes they already made..

This could be your theme song:

**The Franchise** · 11-09-2011, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Pittsie

The moral to this story: Don't impregnate a married women with the expectation you'll get parental rights.

The end.

You're so ****ed in the head.....it's funny.

**Dave Lane** · 11-09-2011, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Pestilence

Yeah....you're a piece of shit.....just like I thought.

Please don't have kids.....ever.

Yep that's it. Or maybe smart enough to keep things wrapped up so I don't spend my life savings to chase after a crazy married broad that "says" she's having my baby. That's totally a smart play. Leave it to you and fail to totally want to do this.

It probably happened to both of you so I understand your defending it. Congrats to you both.

**Ming the Merciless** · 11-09-2011, 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Dave Lane

Yep that's it. Or maybe smart enough to keep things wrapped up so I don't spend my life savings to chase after a crazy married broad that "says" she's having my baby. That's totally a smart play. Leave it to you and fail to totally want to do this.

Your reading comprehension is awful. There's a big difference between wanting this to happen and defending someone who has had the misfortune / made the mistake of having this happen to them.

If you can't sort out the difference and put yourself in his shoes for a little bit, it probably means you lack basic human empathy which is a social skill.

**Dave Lane** · 11-09-2011, 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Pawnmower

Your reading comprehension is awful. There's a big difference between wanting this to happen and defending someone who has had the misfortune / made the mistake of having this happen to them.

If you can't sort out the difference and put yourself in his shoes for a little bit, it probably means you lack basic human empathy which is a social skill.

I totally understand. If this happened to me no way would I want to be involved with the woman. Or take on an totally unstable family situation.

To each his own. Given this scenario I'd consider myself lucky.

**The Franchise** · 11-09-2011, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Dave Lane

I totally understand. If this happened to me no way would I want to be involved with the woman. Or take on an totally unstable family situation.

To each his own. Given this scenario I'd consider myself lucky.

Yeah....you'd abandon your son. What a stand up guy you are.

**Ming the Merciless** · 11-09-2011, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Dave Lane

I totally understand. If this happened to me no way would I want to be involved with the woman. Or take on an totally unstable family situation.

I can see your point somewhat, especially regarding the woman...but I would always feel like a douche for not trying to make sure my son was taken care of....I suppose if I KNEW 100% that the child would be better off without me, then I would agree with your stance...but if I thought that I could help or make a significant impact, then I would want to.

Skyy God · 11-09-2011, 03:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Pestilence

You're so ****ed in the head.....it's funny.

Let's say, hypothetically, he's successful and men in UT are granted the right to request a DNA test. You can see how it might be bad public policy in situations where the adulterer isn't the father. The family just got put through the ringer for no good reason.

Skyy God · 11-09-2011, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Pestilence

Yeah....you'd abandon your son. What a stand up guy you are.

It's a tough scenario either way.

I'll amend my moral: Don't f**k a married woman.

**The Franchise** · 11-09-2011, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Pittsie

Let's say, hypothetically, he's successful and men in UT are granted the right to request a DNA test. You can see how it might be bad public policy in situations where the adulterer isn't the father. The family just got put through the ringer for no good reason.

So he should suffer because the woman is a whore?

11-09-2011, 01:00 PM
Window Licking Whiner Banned Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Virginia Casino cash: $10017935	My fathers' rights case Hey guys, I'm trying to get some public exposure about my case in the media, and while I dont live in Missouri or Kansas, I do frequent here so I thought I'd share my story as well. Feel free to share if you are so inclined, any publicity I can get would be appreciated. Take a look here: http://www.fathersandfamilies.org/?p=20918 And here's my lawyers blog: http://marcatanner.wordpress.com/201...fixable-hmmmm/ http://marcatanner.wordpress.com/201...tah-part-deux/ In our last hearing, she admitted that I'm the biological father, that she was telling me she wanted a divorce, that she did leave her husband, and that she was not having sex with her husband when the baby was concieved. Even after the judge chastised her for doing all that, they still said I have no right to ask for a DNA test. Now think of it like this: If the husband had knocked up a single woman, could he also hide behind "the stability of the marriage", as isnt having a single woman asking for a DNA test interfereing in the marriage? Answer NO...they'd hit you up with CS and a DNA test so fast that your head would spin. This law only exists to protect women, and as such violates the equal protection clause of the constitution. Anyways thought I would share my story.
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jspchief BAMF Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Your Face Casino cash: $9998710	Don't worry, you'll get your DNA test. Right after the husband leaves her and decides he doesn't want to pay child support on you kid. Anyway, kudos for trying to do the right thing. Sent from my ADR6350 __________________ Courage is not the absence of fear but rather the judgment that something is more important than fear. The brave may not live forever but the cautious do not live at all.
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