Chiefs Best Way for Revenge! - Page 5

God of Thunder · 02-21-2012, 07:35 AM

Some may think this is childish.......and well, it is.

Anyway, my EX girlfriend, who is 24, is now dating a 38 year old. This is the dude she left me for. Anywho, she contacts me yesterday and wants to have DINNER as "friends" tonight so she can see me and just talk. She doesn't want it to be a date, but just friends.

Anyway, I suggest going to the Mavericks game after dinner and she doesn't want to go watch boring hockey.

Well......since she shit on me 100 times, is a liar, and a cheat, there ain't NO WAY IN HELL I will see this girl for dinner (I mean....honestly). So, I am going to go to the hockey game with my friend.

But.....what's the best course for revenge here?

Do I....

A. Lead her on for dinner all day, and then 20 minutes before hand, tell her plans have changed?

B. Not answer any calls/texts?

C. ???????

**Predarat** · 02-21-2012, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by God of Thunder

I felt that was too big of an asshole thing to do.

Nothing is that way, women are vicious creatures that pretend to be sweet and innocent.

Dayze · 02-21-2012, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian

Be an adult and move on.

this.
99 times out of a hundred, take the high road.
if you truly wish to be friends going, and it's reciprocated by her, then have dinner.

Howeve,r since those revenge scenarios is in your head, then you don't need to have in your life whatsoever.

stonedstooge · 02-21-2012, 09:37 AM

Probably wants to get together and get your input for names for the baby. Think your ****ed man

**Iowanian** · 02-21-2012, 09:44 AM

I've told several girlfriends as we ended our relationship that we should remain friends. It usually takes a while to make it easy for both parties to speak without someone feeling odd and I can't think that I've ever actually done any friend things with any ex gfs.

Stop wasting your time being bitter, thinking about revenge. Be a man, take the high road and let the little bird fly. Delete her number from your phone and ignore texts, and be polite and distant when you have chance meetings.

Just move on. Life is too short and you're wasting days. The best revenge you can have is just to go live a happy life and hope she does too.

el borracho · 02-21-2012, 09:52 AM

Quit spending your time and energy on this girl and start putting your time and energy into finding the next ex-girlfriend.

**Nzoner** · 02-21-2012, 10:05 AM

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and makes 11 dollars an hour.

Goldigging wh0re

Radar Chief · 02-21-2012, 10:07 AM

**Rain Man** · 02-21-2012, 10:12 AM

Dartgod pretty much nailed it in Post #56.

**Dartgod** · 02-21-2012, 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Rain Man

Dartgod pretty much nailed it in Post #56.

This.

**Predarat** · 02-21-2012, 10:15 AM

Lonewolf Ed · 02-21-2012, 10:18 AM

Just speak to her in Femalese. Say, "I'm realllllly busy..." and never meet up with her.

**Rain Man** · 02-21-2012, 10:23 AM

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Why? I'd rather her think all day she was going to get to see me tonight.....let's look at this.

Okay, let's look at it. And remember, I'm a grizzled veteran of love and loss.

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A. She's going to get dressed up.....she knows I am NOT happy about what she did, so what better way for her to stick it to me, then to try and look all hot, when your EX wants you back....she's thinking i'll say "man, she looks good, wish I could take her home"

She's thinking it, and she's right. You know it and I know it. Meeting with her will just let you blunder right into her trap. You won't be able to resist. Don't meet with her.

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B. Even though this is just 'friends' for her.......I don't see how she can not have some sort of expectation or hope that it goes well when we were together almost 2 years. She may claim it's just friends, but I think deep down she's hoping to find/see something special.

No, she's not. She just wants the ego boost of you begging. She's a woman. Women are different than normal people like you and me. She just wants to know that you're devastated. Your best revenge is to have her think that you moped for a day or two and now you're discovering a whole new world of fun out there and you're now thanking her for releasing you into it.

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C. After her repeated lies, over and over.....it's time she gets a little taste of her own medicine. If she gets excited and texts me during the day suggesting places, it'll build up her 'excitement' of seeing me, and then it comes crashing down at the end of the day.

She's not excited to see you. Trust me on this. She's not excited to see you. She wants an ego boost and knows you'll give it to her. Don't give it to her. This is not my opinion. This is cold, hard, scientific fact.

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D. 1 of 2 things will happen. If I blow her off to go to the game, she'll either 1. Get mad and not speak to me again (oh how sad) or 2. She'll think "damn, I really wanted to see him" and then she'll try harder.

You want #1, right? You want #2, right? So you'll go with my plan, right? (And by the way, if she goes with #2, you're winning and stick with the plan in the future, too.)

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E. IF she decides to try harder, then I will start to get what I want someday, and thats her trying to get me back, and the sad realization that she ****ed me over one too many times and now, she can't have me back.....which is the ultimate revenge.

This will work better if you politely blow her off. Trust me on this. The best revenge is for her to realize that you're over her and that it's a real tossup about whether you'd rather go out with her or watch TV. And that it's a no-brainer to not waste perfectly good basketball tickets just to go buy her dinner.

My plan cannot fail. Your plan will fail. This is not opinion, This is cold, hard, scientific fact.

God of Thunder · 02-21-2012, 10:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Rain Man

Okay, let's look at it. And remember, I'm a grizzled veteran of love and loss.

She's thinking it, and she's right. You know it and I know it. Meeting with her will just let you blunder right into her trap. You won't be able to resist. Don't meet with her.

No, she's not. She just wants the ego boost of you begging. She's a woman. Women are different than normal people like you and me. She just wants to know that you're devastated. Your best revenge is to have her think that you moped for a day or two and now you're discovering a whole new world of fun out there and you're now thanking her for releasing you into it.

She's not excited to see you. Trust me on this. She's not excited to see you. She wants an ego boost and knows you'll give it to her. Don't give it to her. This is not my opinion. This is cold, hard, scientific fact.

You want #1, right? You want #2, right? So you'll go with my plan, right? (And by the way, if she goes with #2, you're winning and stick with the plan in the future, too.)

This will work better if you politely blow her off. Trust me on this. The best revenge is for her to realize that you're over her and that it's a real tossup about whether you'd rather go out with her or watch TV. And that it's a no-brainer to not waste perfectly good basketball tickets just to go buy her dinner.

My plan cannot fail. Your plan will fail. This is not opinion, This is cold, hard, scientific fact.

It's hockey tickets......and I am NOT meeting her. I want her to think I am, and then an hour before hand, explain to her that I do NOT want to see her, but I want to go to the hockey game.

WV · 02-21-2012, 10:32 AM

PIIHB

**Predarat** · 02-21-2012, 10:35 AM

Why would you want to go to a Mavericks game anyways? They are a bunch of cheap shottin, dirty playin' thugs.

02-21-2012, 07:35 AM
God of Thunder Trained to reign as the one. Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Los Angeles, CA Casino cash: $8849344	Best Way for Revenge! Some may think this is childish.......and well, it is. Anyway, my EX girlfriend, who is 24, is now dating a 38 year old. This is the dude she left me for. Anywho, she contacts me yesterday and wants to have DINNER as "friends" tonight so she can see me and just talk. She doesn't want it to be a date, but just friends. Anyway, I suggest going to the Mavericks game after dinner and she doesn't want to go watch boring hockey. Well......since she shit on me 100 times, is a liar, and a cheat, there ain't NO WAY IN HELL I will see this girl for dinner (I mean....honestly). So, I am going to go to the hockey game with my friend. But.....what's the best course for revenge here? Do I.... A. Lead her on for dinner all day, and then 20 minutes before hand, tell her plans have changed? B. Not answer any calls/texts? C. ???????
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02-21-2012, 09:37 AM	#63
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02-21-2012, 09:44 AM	#64
Iowanian Supporter Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Utopia Casino cash: $1668454	I've told several girlfriends as we ended our relationship that we should remain friends. It usually takes a while to make it easy for both parties to speak without someone feeling odd and I can't think that I've ever actually done any friend things with any ex gfs. Stop wasting your time being bitter, thinking about revenge. Be a man, take the high road and let the little bird fly. Delete her number from your phone and ignore texts, and be polite and distant when you have chance meetings. Just move on. Life is too short and you're wasting days. The best revenge you can have is just to go live a happy life and hope she does too.
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02-21-2012, 09:52 AM	#65
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