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Consistent1 · 02-19-2012, 08:57 PM

If she hasn't sent a text since Friday and is a sex maniac, she could be gone. That's another possibility, that he might get attached....and get burned.

**Predarat** · 02-20-2012, 08:45 AM

If she is just a **** buddy she should not be all that hard to cut loose. That is what they are there for, they serve their purpose, when you are done with them its well...bye time.

R8RFAN · 02-20-2012, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Predarat

If she is just a **** buddy she should not be all that hard to cut loose. That is what they are there for, they serve their purpose, when you are done with them its well...bye time.

She has an agenda though

**Predarat** · 02-20-2012, 08:56 AM

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She has an agenda though

Its that ****ing apple.

**Lzen** · 02-20-2012, 09:19 AM

My initial instincts, like everyone else here, is to just move on and forget about her. But just to look at the other side for a minute, perhaps he should consider telling her what he thinks of her kids' behavior. Tell her that it needs to change or he's gone. Be honest. Let her know that he needs to be allowed to discipline them. I don't know, maybe he has already done this to no avail.

And I admit that I don't know how these things work as I have never been divorced. However, I was one of those kids from a divorce. I can tell you that I was not always pleasant to my mom's boyfriends. Once, we were supposed to go boating with my cousins on a Sunday afternoon. Her boyfriend at the time decided he didn't feel like it. I was so pissed because I was so looking forward to that. I kicked the shit out of his briefcase. It was a nice, expensive one. It was toast.

I also got into a few confrontations (later on) with my step dad. I'm just saying that divorce is not always easy on the kids and just because they are acting out now does not mean they won't end up being productive members of society. Perhaps the good Lord has put your friend in this position to be a positive role model for these kids.

R8RFAN · 02-20-2012, 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Lzen

My initial instincts, like everyone else here, is to just move on and forget about her. But just to look at the other side for a minute, perhaps he should consider telling her what he thinks of her kids' behavior. Tell her that it needs to change or he's gone. Be honest. Let her know that he needs to be allowed to discipline them. I don't know, maybe he has already done this to no avail.

And I admit that I don't know how these things work as I have never been divorced. However, I was one of those kids from a divorce. I can tell you that I was not always pleasant to my mom's boyfriends. Once, we were supposed to go boating with my cousins on a Sunday afternoon. Her boyfriend at the time decided he didn't feel like it. I was so pissed because I was so looking forward to that. I kicked the shit out of his briefcase. It was a nice, expensive one. It was toast.

I also got into a few confrontations (later on) with my step dad. I'm just saying that divorce is not always easy on the kids and just because they are acting out now does not mean they won't end up being productive members of society. Perhaps the good Lord has put your friend in this position to be a positive role model for these kids.

Dude does not live with her and has known her for only 3 months... it's not his job to discipline her kids, that's her job... I told him a few minutes ago he was a fool for falling for the first pretty face that comes along after coming from a 16 yr marriage that to be honest he isn't even over yet... The girls love the dude, it's not like he is a loser, Has a nice home, nice car, kinda a neat freak, a 25k bass boat in the garage and makes good money (he works with me) He just needs to slow down is what he needs more than anything....

R8RFAN · 02-20-2012, 08:53 AM

PS the dumbass texted her last night, so I get to hear about this shit for another week

R8RFAN · 02-20-2012, 04:30 PM

He is driving me crazy now, She is going out with the girls and this dumbass is feeling sorry for himself... boy is sickening

**Predarat** · 02-20-2012, 04:38 PM

Sometimes you just have to let them **** it up for themselves. Bet she will tell him she met a guy she was interested in while she was out just to minipulate him.

R8RFAN · 02-20-2012, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Predarat

Sometimes you just have to let them **** it up for themselves. Bet she will tell him she met a guy she was interested in while she was out just to minipulate him.

Oh yea, she posted on her facebook that she was going out with the girls and he is like a puppy pissing down his leg now

Monty · 02-20-2012, 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by R8ers

Oh yea, she posted on her facebook that she was going out with the girls and he is like a puppy pissing down his leg now

R8RFAN · 02-20-2012, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Monty

little bastard just texted me he has the school teacher on the phone now.... Good, maybe he will leave me alone for a while

Consistent1 · 02-21-2012, 02:02 AM

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Originally Posted by R8ers

Oh yea, she posted on her facebook that she was going out with the girls and he is like a puppy pissing down his leg now

I said this a couple pages ago.

R8RFAN · 02-20-2012, 06:07 PM

said she wanted to come over and watch a Tarheel game... I told him that was great, they could do it doggy style and neither would miss the game

el borracho · 02-20-2012, 09:21 PM

Obviously, he will want to impregnate her as soon as possible. He might also want to consider quitting his job and going on an extended vacation with her to work on their relationship.

02-19-2012, 08:57 PM	#1
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02-20-2012, 08:45 AM	#2
Predarat Run Chiefs fans, run!! Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Nashville, TN Casino cash: $9963863	If she is just a **** buddy she should not be all that hard to cut loose. That is what they are there for, they serve their purpose, when you are done with them its well...bye time.
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02-20-2012, 09:19 AM	#5
Lzen Banded Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Oz Casino cash: $-699308	My initial instincts, like everyone else here, is to just move on and forget about her. But just to look at the other side for a minute, perhaps he should consider telling her what he thinks of her kids' behavior. Tell her that it needs to change or he's gone. Be honest. Let her know that he needs to be allowed to discipline them. I don't know, maybe he has already done this to no avail. And I admit that I don't know how these things work as I have never been divorced. However, I was one of those kids from a divorce. I can tell you that I was not always pleasant to my mom's boyfriends. Once, we were supposed to go boating with my cousins on a Sunday afternoon. Her boyfriend at the time decided he didn't feel like it. I was so pissed because I was so looking forward to that. I kicked the shit out of his briefcase. It was a nice, expensive one. It was toast. I also got into a few confrontations (later on) with my step dad. I'm just saying that divorce is not always easy on the kids and just because they are acting out now does not mean they won't end up being productive members of society. Perhaps the good Lord has put your friend in this position to be a positive role model for these kids. __________________ Conversation would be vastly improved by the constant use of four simple words: I do not know.
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02-20-2012, 08:53 AM	#7
R8RFAN Molôn Labé Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: North Carolina Casino cash: $8466872	PS the dumbass texted her last night, so I get to hear about this shit for another week
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02-20-2012, 04:30 PM	#8
R8RFAN Molôn Labé Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: North Carolina Casino cash: $8466872	He is driving me crazy now, She is going out with the girls and this dumbass is feeling sorry for himself... boy is sickening
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02-20-2012, 04:38 PM	#9
Predarat Run Chiefs fans, run!! Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Nashville, TN Casino cash: $9963863	Sometimes you just have to let them **** it up for themselves. Bet she will tell him she met a guy she was interested in while she was out just to minipulate him.
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02-20-2012, 06:07 PM	#14
R8RFAN Molôn Labé Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: North Carolina Casino cash: $8466872	said she wanted to come over and watch a Tarheel game... I told him that was great, they could do it doggy style and neither would miss the game
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02-20-2012, 09:21 PM	#15
el borracho In Pat We Trust Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Albuquerque, NM Casino cash: $2479148	Obviously, he will want to impregnate her as soon as possible. He might also want to consider quitting his job and going on an extended vacation with her to work on their relationship.
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