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Old 04-21-2014, 10:56 AM  
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Anyone ever have issues with social anxiety before?

I've noticed myself being uncomfortable with large crowds of people as far back as 3rd or 4th grade. Recently though, I'm noticing it around people all together. Yesterday we had a medium size group for Easter dinner, mostly family, and I didn't really talk to anyone. Sometimes I have difficulty going to class because I'm afraid I'll be judged, or God forbid the professor puts us into a small group to do an activity.

Any thoughts or opinions are welcome.
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Old 04-22-2014, 11:55 AM   #121
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I'm not in awful shape though. I'm about 5'9 and weigh 176 pounds. Eating healthier might make me feel better physcially though.
How is your sleep? You typically get 8 hours a night? Snore?
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Old 04-22-2014, 11:55 AM   #122
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The odd thing for me is that I'm actually more comfortable in front of a large group of people, as opposed to being around 4-5 friends or peers. Even family members at this point.
I'd definitely recommend staying off the weed. It may seem to help, but I suspect it's actually making your problem much worse.
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Old 04-22-2014, 12:10 PM   #123
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I'm well known here for being overly quiet. I can't give a speech to save my life, even if I'm friends with everyone in the room. I run a bowling league and every year have to do the award presentation and it kills me. I say um, like it is going out of style when I try. It is funny, because I know everyone is on my side in those situations, but I can't fight my way through it.
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Old 04-22-2014, 12:17 PM   #124
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I'm well known here for being overly quiet. I can't give a speech to save my life, even if I'm friends with everyone in the room. I run a bowling league and every year have to do the award presentation and it kills me. I say um, like it is going out of style when I try. It is funny, because I know everyone is on my side in those situations, but I can't fight my way through it.
I hate public speaking regardless of the event.
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Old 04-22-2014, 12:20 PM   #125
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The odd thing for me is that I'm actually more comfortable in front of a large group of people, as opposed to being around 4-5 friends or peers. Even family members at this point.
I'm the same way. I'd rather give a presentation to a group of 300 strangers than a small group that contains people I know. I figure that's because if the presentation goes poorly I would feel more guilty doing a Carrie and burning the room down if it contains people I know.
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Old 04-22-2014, 12:21 PM   #126
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I hate public speaking regardless of the event.
The fact that I was able to even contribute to the conversation with you and the small group at the last CP gathering was impressive for me, lol.
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Old 04-22-2014, 01:27 PM   #127
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I'd definitely recommend staying off the weed. It may seem to help, but I suspect it's actually making your problem much worse.
Similar to how people handicap them selves to alcohol in social situations. People in general need to learn to deal with a problem head on and not use crutches.
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Old 04-22-2014, 08:16 PM   #130
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How is your sleep? You typically get 8 hours a night? Snore?
Ever since I was put on trazadone I sleep like a baby. Good 8 hours of sleep, (depending on work and school schedule). My roomate says I very rarely snore.

I'm assuming you're going down the sleep apnea route here?
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Similar to how people handicap them selves to alcohol in social situations. People in general need to learn to deal with a problem head on and not use crutches.
Agreed. I'm great at running away from my problems though.

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Old 04-22-2014, 08:25 PM   #132
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I'm assuming you're going down the sleep apnea route here?
Yep. Poor sleep does bad things to da brain. Good to hear.
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Old 04-22-2014, 10:58 PM   #133
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Anyone ever have issues with social anxiety before?

I've noticed myself being uncomfortable with large crowds of people as far back as 3rd or 4th grade. Recently though, I'm noticing it around people all together. Yesterday we had a medium size group for Easter dinner, mostly family, and I didn't really talk to anyone. Sometimes I have difficulty going to class because I'm afraid I'll be judged, or God forbid the professor puts us into a small group to do an activity.

Any thoughts or opinions are welcome.
Yep. I've felt this way for awhile now, in fact I talked to my wife about it awhile back when I left our sons 21st birthday party early cause of the big crowd in the bar that night. I think she just kinda blew me off as not wanting to be sociable.

Sunday at both my mom's and her sister's house for Easter I just sat outside by myself at mom's. There were some people with me at the other place but one was my son so that helped and the other was my nephew and we talked football the whole time. Otherwise I didn't talk to anybody else all day at either place.

I just hate being around crowds and making small talk. I would rather just stay home in my own surroundings in my Chiefs Man Cave and chill.
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Good point. We tend to assume that extroversion is a good thing and introversion isn't. Who really cares? It's about what makes us happy (with the acknowledgement that some extroversion traits like networking inevitably lead to more career opportunities).

My wife and I have some similar interests and some different ones. As we enter our third decade of marriage, we've figured out that we don't have to do everything together. She's much more social than I am, so sometimes she goes to theater events or parties without me. I like travel more than she does, so sometimes I'll wander off on a trip without her. We have enough common interests that we still do things together, but we've decided that we can do things separately and be just fine. It keeps one partner from dragging the other to a non-enjoyable thing, and feeling guilty doing so.
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