OT-Broken Heart?!

[DaneMcCloud]

Originally Posted by jaa1025

Because she wanted to date other people and I wanted more. I knew she loved me before she even said the words by the way she acted, the things she said...she was really into me. Once she said that...she pulled away. Then on one of her dates, she kissed the guy. He happened to be her next door neighbor.

I ended it within 2 minutes of hearing that. I didn't want to know why or if it happened more than once. If he initiated it or if she did...I just had to end it. In doing that, I hoped that she would stop me. I hoped that she would want me back, but things would have to change.

If she wasn't ready for not dating other people...then I couldn't do it. Now...I'd take back what we had and work on getting her mind on me...the prize. Well...that was earlier...Now, after reading replies and talking to a few friends...she needs to come back on my terms because this will happen again and I'll get hurt again.

You know Dude, I'm not a father like some of these guys and I'm probably more direct (hence the "harshness" of my replies).

But the bottom line is this girl is not right for you. She wants to date other people. If that's not what you want, then you need to deal and move. There's absolutely no reason for you to "share" her in any way, if that's not what you want. It's obviously not what you want, or you wouldn't have ended it with her which IMO, was the correct thing to do in this case.

Both of you are in different places and there's no way that you can "convince" her otherwise. She has to figure it out on her own.

Move on, Dude.