Flabbergasted and pissed

[The Bad Guy]

Originally Posted by RedThat

I maintained my composure while I was there. I kept it inside, and Im just sharing how I felt about the whole incident. Never told him, hey you're a dick didn't like the way I was treated etc..Never said anything like that..Deep down in my own heart Im mad, I just never express it out to him in person.

Alright. It could have been a lot more organized. Like I said previously, if I was told beforehand that it was my responsibility to find my way back home, no complaints about that. I understand its a wedding and sh*t gets stressful and stuff like that can easily be overlooked. But when you ask a simple question, and someone says to you, "it's not my responsibility." Or, offers me suggestions on what I should do..i.e, like go hitch a ride with someone else. Think about that? Put that together, and the guy sounds like a real dick to me.

Now, if he was apologetic about the incident and said it straight like, "hey you know something, Im really sorry about that. I should of told you beforehand, that it is your own responsibility to find a ride home. Or you know something, let me see if I could do something for you." THATS WHAT A DECENT FRIEND IS ALL ABOUT BUDDY!

But expecting him to do something for you, at that instant, after an insanely stressful day, is bad. Putting a groom in that situation also isn't a decent thing to do. I'm sure you knew others at the wedding and didn't have to put it all on his shoulders at the end of the night when the only thing he wants to do is go upstairs and consumate the marriage.