OK,My friend asked me for advise......

[ROYC75]

Originally Posted by trndobrd

Maybe if they offered to babysit one or two nights a week so she can go out and have some fun, with the understanding that she will be at home, sans dope and beer the other nights.

The story goes, the grandparents have offered several times, Mary is sneaky and doesn't want her parents to know what is going on. They actually found out from one of Mary's female friends about her lifestyle.

I feel they have every right to walk in on here and make multiple visits until she comes to her senses. So far the mother/daddy - daughter talks didn't have any effects. So the suprise visit came up..... Now Mary wants to feel violated ?

What about the kids ?

If William finds out ? Now she welcomes his ex ? Smells like a setup to me.

[trndobrd]

Originally Posted by ROYC75

The story goes, the grandparents have offered several times, Mary is sneaky and doesn't want her parents to know what is going on. They actually found out from one of Mary's female friends about her lifestyle.

I feel they have every right to walk in on here and make multiple visits until she comes to her senses. So far the mother/daddy - daughter talks didn't have any effects. So the suprise visit came up..... Now Mary wants to feel violated ?

What about the kids ?

If William finds out ? Now she welcomes his ex ? Smells like a setup to me.

It's their house? They pay the rent? If so, then by all means they should feel free to walk in any time they like. If not, the words we are looking for are 'criminal trespass'. Hope she doesn't call the police the next time the grandparents show up for an 'inspection', Grandma and Grandpa might get to spend the night in jail.

Maybe Mary is upset that her parents believe the friend rather than the daughter and seem to be bent of thinking the worst ("more beer than food, sleeping around, etc.). Maybe she doesn't think very highly of her parents. Maybe the friend is jealous and wanting to cause trouble. Who knows?

[milkman]

OK Roy, the answer to your question, or your friends question is in the answer to this question.

What would Rich Scanlon do?

[ROYC75]

Originally Posted by milkman

OK Roy, the answer to your question, or your friends question is in the answer to this question.

What would Rich Scanlon do?

Clean house ?

[ROYC75]

Originally Posted by trndobrd

It's their house? They pay the rent? If so, then by all means they should feel free to walk in any time they like. If not, the words we are looking for are 'criminal trespass'. Hope she doesn't call the police the next time the grandparents show up for an 'inspection', Grandma and Grandpa might get to spend the night in jail.

Maybe Mary is upset that her parents believe the friend rather than the daughter and seem to be bent of thinking the worst ("more beer than food, sleeping around, etc.). Maybe she doesn't think very highly of her parents. Maybe the friend is jealous and wanting to cause trouble. Who knows?

According to Scott & Rita, Mary and one of the men present admitted to the beer,the sex and the pot. They admitted to many nights of sleep overs. These men only live less than 100 feet away from mary's house.

The 2 girls talk about them stay over, wait till there daddy finds theis crap out.

IMHO,If Mary wants to act like an inmature adult with an alternate lifestyle, let the grandparent have the kids. They have offered several times to keep them.

You seem to act like Mary is, can't see the forest for the trees, it's about Mary, instead of the kids.

I applaude them stepping in........

[Mosbonian]

Originally Posted by trndobrd

It's their house? They pay the rent? If so, then by all means they should feel free to walk in any time they like. If not, the words we are looking for are 'criminal trespass'. Hope she doesn't call the police the next time the grandparents show up for an 'inspection', Grandma and Grandpa might get to spend the night in jail.

If she had her Mom and Dad arrested for Criminal Trespass, then I would be concerned about her mental state.....I've been awfully mad at my parents throughout my life for things that they did to me which made "Criminal Trespass" seem like Jaywalking, and I would never once dream of having my parents arrested.

Originally Posted by trndobrd

Maybe Mary is upset that her parents believe the friend rather than the daughter and seem to be bent of thinking the worst ("more beer than food, sleeping around, etc.). Maybe she doesn't think very highly of her parents. Maybe the friend is jealous and wanting to cause trouble. Who knows?

If she is upset, why not act like a mature adult and address the issue with her parents...

Or maybe Mary DOES have something to hide and is smoking pot with the kids around....leaving her kids with strangers who shouldn't be trusted.....or maybe the friend is a well-meaning individual who has first hand knowledge of something and doesn't want 2 innocent victims...

mmaddog
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