OK,My friend asked me for advise......

[Mosbonian]

Originally Posted by trndobrd

It's their house? They pay the rent? If so, then by all means they should feel free to walk in any time they like. If not, the words we are looking for are 'criminal trespass'. Hope she doesn't call the police the next time the grandparents show up for an 'inspection', Grandma and Grandpa might get to spend the night in jail.

If she had her Mom and Dad arrested for Criminal Trespass, then I would be concerned about her mental state.....I've been awfully mad at my parents throughout my life for things that they did to me which made "Criminal Trespass" seem like Jaywalking, and I would never once dream of having my parents arrested.

Originally Posted by trndobrd

Maybe Mary is upset that her parents believe the friend rather than the daughter and seem to be bent of thinking the worst ("more beer than food, sleeping around, etc.). Maybe she doesn't think very highly of her parents. Maybe the friend is jealous and wanting to cause trouble. Who knows?

If she is upset, why not act like a mature adult and address the issue with her parents...

Or maybe Mary DOES have something to hide and is smoking pot with the kids around....leaving her kids with strangers who shouldn't be trusted.....or maybe the friend is a well-meaning individual who has first hand knowledge of something and doesn't want 2 innocent victims...

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