Confronting a cheater

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Originally Posted by Phobia

I agree under one circumstance. If the guy was deceived by her, ie: he thought she was single. If he knew she was married then he has it coming too.

Why? I mean, yeah, he's a scumbag and I'd never do it or condone it, but at the same time what does one guy really owe the other in a situation like this? It's not like the two of them exchanged any vows. That would be the wife, and it's ultimately on her head, at least in my book.

I realize this reads like a defense of of the cheating guy, but it's really not. He's pretty much a soul-less douche. The point I'm trying to make is that there's not nearly enough emphasis on the responsibility of the woman. Shit, dudes think kicking the other guy's ass will fix this, then take their wives back like they're Odysseus conquering Troy, and then wonder why when it happens again. And again. And again. Because it's somehow hard for them to come to grips with the fact that they married a whore. It's the other guy's fault, after all.