Confronting a cheater

['Hamas' Jenkins]

Originally Posted by Phobia

The jerk cheating with your wife is stealing your dignity and disrespecting you. He's wrecking your home. It's one thing if we're talking about a young married couple w/out children but it's COMPLETELY another when a dude humps your wife and destroys a family. That's an inexcusable crime for me and yes, in my mind, it's criminal. There's absolutely no excuse for any man to participate in that. Anybody who does it or condones it is a complete piece of garbage and I won't associate with them. That goes for the man who does the same thing to his family.

The man cheating with your wife didn't make vows to you, or your kids. Your wife did.

The wife didn't slip and fall on the guy's dick, she made a conscious decision to do that.

I've yet to understand why people outside of a marriage are responsible for it. It's the responsibility of the people inside the marriage to maintain it, not people outside.