Confronting a cheater

[Katipan]

Originally Posted by Saccogoo

Spot on with what? She wasn't getting the attention that she perceived she needed from her husband so she has an adulterous affair in order to fill that emotional void in her current relationship while still actively maintaining that said relationship? That's wisdom? That's what I should listen to? Am I missing something here?

I don't believe Jilly is saying what I did was the brightest thing in the world, I believe she's agreeing with my mindset.

It not being all that different from other female mindsets.

At the end of the day, I made one guy very happy, and I found the courage to leave the unhappy guy. There were other options available but I was too scared. I have since rectified that.

I'm cool with that. I have to be.

[Saccopoo]

Originally Posted by Katipan

I don't believe Jilly is saying what I did was the brightest thing in the world, I believe she's agreeing with my mindset.

It not being all that different from other female mindsets.

At the end of the day, I made one guy very happy, and I found the courage to leave the unhappy guy. There were other options available but I was too scared. I have since rectified that.

I'm cool with that. I have to be.

I'm sorry if I started sounding like an ass. I'm wont to do that from time to time. Perhaps I tend to put my own feelings stemming from my past relationship(s) into conversation and have them inadvertently affect my objectivity regarding the subject at hand.

The past is the past, and the only thing we can do is hopefully learn from it and move on and be a better person in the future (if that's your/our/we/he/she's goal).