Life Married coworker hitting on me...Should I bang her? - Page 17

Blitz · 04:42 PM

I'm going to be avoiding her at all costs now.

Thanks for the tips.

UPDATE: I listened to the advice given and broke off things before it could get really serious. I simply told her although I'm flattered by her interest, because she is married, I would never go down the route. Further I told her, she has to stop sending me messages via my work email that can if looked at more closely create a whole new set of problems at work. At which point, she told me that she's never felt this way and that she didn't realize until it was too late (now) and that she agrees that we don't want to go further with this as it could lead to many problems. After which we continued talking but about other work related items.

In retrospect, I don't know what I was thinking because if I was in the other guys shoes, I would be furious.

Thanks guys, I think I dodged a potential bullet there.

MOhillbilly · 04-09-2010, 01:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BIG_DADDY

Not many things worse than breaking up a family.

And i give my perspective from a person who has taught himself to be a better person,a man if you will.
when all he really wants to do is be ****in bad. Just pure ****in evil gangster shit.

have a good day, im out.

salame · 04-09-2010, 01:13 PM

FAX · 04-09-2010, 01:15 PM

If the story is the main thing, I would think that scoring with a 19-year-old, blond, nubile virgin would make a better exploit than banging a used up mom-slut. But maybe that's just me.

FAX

Pants · 04-09-2010, 01:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FAX

If the story is the main thing, I would think that scoring with a 19-year-old, blond, nubile virgin would make a better exploit than banging a used up mom-slut. But maybe that's just me.

FAX

19 year old virgins are, truly, one in ten million, Mr. FAX.

**ShortRoundChief** · 04-09-2010, 01:32 PM

damn and I just missed this thread!!!`

HoneyBadger · 04-09-2010, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by GoChiefs

I'm no expert, I'm just trying to relate my experiences.

Do you really want the juicy details of my encounter with swingers?

Yes, details please
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Stewie · 04-09-2010, 02:51 PM

Pffft! I've seen affairs ad nauseum. No one ever gets killed. It usually ends in divorce.

Johnny Vegas · 04-09-2010, 03:51 PM

what would Tupac do?

teedubya · 04-09-2010, 04:02 PM

I never understand why the guy who is married to a whore who cheats on him... ends up killing the dude she cheated with. The woman was the whore.

It's not like she had to be persuaded to jump in bed with the dude, and chances are it's not the first dude she's humped behind his back.

If my wife cheated on me, I'd kick her ass out of my house and try like hell to keep my kids. Then, I would go find another woman who wasn't such a whore.

FAX · 04-09-2010, 04:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ari Chi3fs

I never understand why the guy who is married to a whore who cheats on him... ends up killing the dude she cheated with. The woman was the whore.

It's not like she had to be persuaded to jump in bed with the dude, and chances are it's not the first dude she's humped behind his back.

If my wife cheated on me, I'd kick her ass out of my house and try like hell to keep my kids. Then, I would go find another woman who wasn't such a whore.

I'm with you, Mr. Ari Chi3fs. Although, I'd probably like to see them both dead. You know, in order to appease the shame through revenge and hate and anger and all.

My mother had a whole lot of Cherokee blood. Her mother was some kind of weird shaman type of person and could cure illnesses by hanging frogs from trees or marking the person with charcoal and stuff like that. Anyhow, my mother inherited the amazing ability to put curses on people. And, whoa baby, when she put a curse on somebody, they had problems. I think maybe she might have passed that skill on to me although I never use the power because I'm basically a nice guy and generally morally opposed to the idea of putting curses on people. However, if this happened to me, I might think differently and put some nasty-ass curses on the woman and the dude guy and their families and their friends and everybody they came in contact with and a couple of complete strangers too just for the hell of it. I'm sure it would make me feel a whole lot better about things.

FAX

RedThat · 04-09-2010, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Brock

How about wishing you didn't do something you did?

I disagree. TOTALLY.

That's not a good idea because then what?

Really..honestly. Lets take the road to sanity here and be a little easy on ourselves. Do you really want to lead a life full of regret? What is that going to do for you? That does nothing but cause pain, mentally.

Fact is, we all make mistakes, were human and it's in our nature to do so, but that shouldn't necessarily mean one has to lead a life full guilt and regret? The correct thing to do imo is to forgive yourself and place that mistake behind you rather than pounding yourself with guilt.

Just saying being regretful is not a good step to take for those who want to keep themselves healthy mentally.

Blitz · 04-09-2010, 04:42 PM

There was too much potenial headache and I followed your advice, breaking it off before it got real serious.

Check the initial post for more details.

**The Franchise** · 04-09-2010, 04:42 PM

Sweet....now wait until she gets a divorce.....and then plow the shit out of her.

teedubya · 04-09-2010, 04:46 PM

Is this the first time that someone has followed CP's relationship advice? heh

**Bugeater** · 04-09-2010, 04:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ari Chi3fs

I never understand why the guy who is married to a whore who cheats on him... ends up killing the dude she cheated with. The woman was the whore.

It's not like she had to be persuaded to jump in bed with the dude, and chances are it's not the first dude she's humped behind his back.

If my wife cheated on me, I'd kick her ass out of my house and try like hell to keep my kids. Then, I would go find another woman who wasn't such a whore.

I hear ya, can't really blame the guy for...umm...being a guy.

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Blitz Starter Join Date: Oct 2004 Casino cash: $10004900	Married coworker hitting on me...Should I bang her? I'm going to be avoiding her at all costs now. Thanks for the tips. UPDATE: I listened to the advice given and broke off things before it could get really serious. I simply told her although I'm flattered by her interest, because she is married, I would never go down the route. Further I told her, she has to stop sending me messages via my work email that can if looked at more closely create a whole new set of problems at work. At which point, she told me that she's never felt this way and that she didn't realize until it was too late (now) and that she agrees that we don't want to go further with this as it could lead to many problems. After which we continued talking but about other work related items. In retrospect, I don't know what I was thinking because if I was in the other guys shoes, I would be furious. Thanks guys, I think I dodged a potential bullet there. Last edited by Blitz; 04-09-2010 at 04:42 PM.. Reason: Advice received
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teedubya Most Valuable Poster Join Date: Oct 2003 Casino cash: $8993042	I never understand why the guy who is married to a whore who cheats on him... ends up killing the dude she cheated with. The woman was the whore. It's not like she had to be persuaded to jump in bed with the dude, and chances are it's not the first dude she's humped behind his back. If my wife cheated on me, I'd kick her ass out of my house and try like hell to keep my kids. Then, I would go find another woman who wasn't such a whore.
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04-09-2010, 04:42 PM	#252
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