Life Flabbergasted and pissed - Page 5

RedThat · 08-01-2010, 04:07 PM

Totally felt this way yesterday and Im a little bit better today. Im just wondering if I have good reason to feel this way and ask for the opinions of the readers of this thread. I'll explain.

I was at a wedding last night, and happened to be part of a bridal party. The person who got married I had been friends with for years, dating back since high school. I've done him favors left, right, and center throughout the time knowing him but he just happens to be one of those people that depends on you to do stuff for him, but when it comes to you, he would do very little. Last night topped it off and fully convinced me that I shall never do anything for this guy again.

He orders a limo to pick us up at his house. The limo took us to the church, to the park to take pictures for the wedding, and finally to the banquet hall. I was kind enough to bring some booze and play batender in the limo by serving drinks for everyone. Oh and to mention I gave him a good chunk of change to support him and his wife for both the hall and honeymoon.

So last night at around 1am in the morning were at the banquet hall and I asked him out of the blue, I said, "How am I going to get home?" The reason I asked him this question was because I recall that the limo driver told me he wasn't coming back. Now, my friend never mentioned this to me before the wedding. When I asked him that very question you know what his response was? "IT'S NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY!"

When he said that, I wanted to grab him and choke him to death. What he said, definately made me feel very angry and like sh*t. I was going to tell him off then and there, but felt it wasn't a good idea since it was his special day, and I didn't want any animosity to arise or did not want to put other peoples nights down as a result. With that being said, I managed to keep my cool.

But I told him straight, that he should of got a bus to escort us back home to his house because thats where all of our cars were when the limo came to pick us up. But, what really ticked me off even more was that his eff'n wife ordered a bus because she had family that came over from greece. The bus took them back to her house where they stayed over night to sleep. but then Im like, "What about the F***'N bridal party?! Why aren't we getting this very same type of treatment? Just totally surprised and upset at the way this a**hole had treated me. Later on in the night, he kept insisting that I should hitch rides with other people like other distant friends or members of his family that happened to come along and were about to leave. Is this right? To go around doing something like that? Im thinking in my head, are you stupid? do you think I am going to go around asking people for rides, and doing that especially when you are a part of the groom? You know how silly and stupid that looks.

*So I just got up, and left. I didn't even say goodbye, never turned back, I just called a cab and fucked off! Im never EVER doing a favor for this guy again. So, finally let me ask you planteers, do you think Im right? Do I have reason to feel this way or should I just relax and not take it too hard?

**DaneMcCloud** · 08-01-2010, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by RedThat

F*** off dude...i do not have much experience as you or as others in parties..and just because you do what gives you the right to insult me?

Insult you?

You're acting like a whiny bitch. How can you be 32 years old and not know wedding etiquette?

JFC, I was in weddings when I was 12 years old but you don't know this shit at age 32?

Never go full reerun.

kstater · 08-01-2010, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by RedThat

what gives you the right to insult me?

You seriously didn't expect this thread to go that way?

n00b.

RedThat · 08-01-2010, 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Brainiac

Get the sand out of your vagina. It was his fucking wedding night for Christ's sakes.

If you ever whine about this to him, he would be justified in immediately dropping you from his friend list.

So what?

Should that be an excuse on how you treat a friend? Good. you know something, I'd be thrilled if he dropped me as a friend, one less f***ing douchebag to deal with.

**DaneMcCloud** · 08-01-2010, 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by RedThat

I'd be thrilled if he dropped me as a friend, one less f***ing douchebag to deal with.

I'd bet he feels the same way

RedThat · 08-01-2010, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud

Insult you?

You're acting like a whiny bitch. How can you be 32 years old and not know wedding etiquette?

JFC, I was in weddings when I was 12 years old but you don't know this shit at age 32?

Never go full reerun.

Well, at least I had the decency to ask if I have a good reason to complain.

I just do not know wedding etiquette as much as you. But of course your Dane McCloud and you just happen to know everything that exists.

JFC, should I really be arguing with Dane McCloud?

kstater · 08-01-2010, 05:44 PM

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Originally Posted by RedThat

Well, at least I had the decency to ask if I have a good reason to complain.

I just do not know wedding etiquette as much as you. But of course yourDane McCloud and you just happen to know everything that exists.

JFC, should I really be arguing with Dane McCloud?

You're, not your.

Saccopoo · 08-01-2010, 05:44 PM

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Originally Posted by RedThat

JFC, should I really be arguing with Dane McCloud?

No. There are few people who can. You are not one.

RedThat · 08-01-2010, 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by kstater

You're, not your.

thanks

Hog's Gone Fishin · 08-01-2010, 05:48 PM

Get me this guys address and I'll put him on my weekly mailing list. Any idea what breed he likes more between Yorkshire and Duroc ? All my Hampshire sperm bags are spoken for .

RedThat · 08-01-2010, 05:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Saccopoo

No. There are few people who can. You are not one.

Dane is God so I won't bother.

**pr_capone** · 08-01-2010, 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by RedThat

Dane is God so I won't bother.

You asked for our opinion, we gave it. You come off as a whiny little bitch who lets himself get used, then cries about it.

Posters here tend to not respond well to people like you. You really have two options here.

1. Keep slugging it out with the posters here. I'll tell you from past experience that most of the time you will lose that battle, especially when the consensus is against you.

2. Learn to be a man & not put yourself in a situation where your "friends" use you. Fend for yourself and always have a way out.

/thread

LaChapelle · 08-01-2010, 06:00 PM

Revenge is a dish best served cold
don't cut him loose just yet
get your money's worth

kstater · 08-01-2010, 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted by pr_capone

1. Keep slugging it out with the posters here. I'll tell you from past experience that most of the time you will lose that battle, especially when the consensus is against you.

Most of the time?

**notorious** · 08-01-2010, 06:05 PM

He should have paid for the tuxes. I would have been embarrased to make my friends pay for that after asking them to be a part of a big day in my life.

The ride is not that big of a deal.

RedThat · 08-01-2010, 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by pr_capone

You asked for our opinion, we gave it. You come off as a whiny little bitch who lets himself get used, then cries about it.

Posters here tend to not respond well to people like you. You really have two options here.

1. Keep slugging it out with the posters here. I'll tell you from past experience that most of the time you will lose that battle, especially when the consensus is against you.

2. Learn to be a man & not put yourself in a situation where your "friends" use you. Fend for yourself and always have a way out.

/thread

Thanks for your opinion.

When you say consensus, I perceive that as wolves. I understand you're giving me a warning sign to not feed myself to the wolves around here. Appreciate that.

If you say you got it, lets end the thread then. You said what you had to say and did what you had to do. You gave your opinion, even though I don't agree with it 100%.

I guess best thing is not to say anything. But I do expect some of the wolves to say stuff to try to stir me up so the thread could be extended. The hard part will be resisting temptation. Tempted to say something back, but will try my hardest not to. If the wolves could shut the f*** up it would make my life, your life and everyone elses a lot easier.

/thread

08-01-2010, 04:07 PM
RedThat Banned Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Earth Casino cash: $10004900	Flabbergasted and pissed Totally felt this way yesterday and Im a little bit better today. Im just wondering if I have good reason to feel this way and ask for the opinions of the readers of this thread. I'll explain. I was at a wedding last night, and happened to be part of a bridal party. The person who got married I had been friends with for years, dating back since high school. I've done him favors left, right, and center throughout the time knowing him but he just happens to be one of those people that depends on you to do stuff for him, but when it comes to you, he would do very little. Last night topped it off and fully convinced me that I shall never do anything for this guy again. He orders a limo to pick us up at his house. The limo took us to the church, to the park to take pictures for the wedding, and finally to the banquet hall. I was kind enough to bring some booze and play batender in the limo by serving drinks for everyone. Oh and to mention I gave him a good chunk of change to support him and his wife for both the hall and honeymoon. So last night at around 1am in the morning were at the banquet hall and I asked him out of the blue, I said, "How am I going to get home?" The reason I asked him this question was because I recall that the limo driver told me he wasn't coming back. Now, my friend never mentioned this to me before the wedding. When I asked him that very question you know what his response was? "IT'S NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY!" When he said that, I wanted to grab him and choke him to death. What he said, definately made me feel very angry and like sht. I was going to tell him off then and there, but felt it wasn't a good idea since it was his special day, and I didn't want any animosity to arise or did not want to put other peoples nights down as a result. With that being said, I managed to keep my cool. But I told him straight, that he should of got a bus to escort us back home to his house because thats where all of our cars were when the limo came to pick us up. But, what really ticked me off even more was that his eff'n wife ordered a bus because she had family that came over from greece. The bus took them back to her house where they stayed over night to sleep. but then Im like, "What about the F'N bridal party?! Why aren't we getting this very same type of treatment? Just totally surprised and upset at the way this ahole had treated me. Later on in the night, he kept insisting that I should hitch rides with other people like other distant friends or members of his family that happened to come along and were about to leave. Is this right? To go around doing something like that? Im thinking in my head, are you stupid? do you think I am going to go around asking people for rides, and doing that especially when you are a part of the groom? You know how silly and stupid that looks. *So I just got up, and left. I didn't even say goodbye, never turned back, I just called a cab and fucked off! Im never EVER doing a favor for this guy again. So, finally let me ask you planteers, do you think Im right? Do I have reason to feel this way or should I just relax and not take it too hard?
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LaChapelle Banned Join Date: Mar 2009 Casino cash: $10004900	Revenge is a dish best served cold don't cut him loose just yet get your money's worth
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08-01-2010, 06:05 PM	#74
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