Life Parenting advice needed: 13 yo female

mcan · 02-14-2011, 09:43 AM

I haven't read the responses, but overall I like the fact that you were straight up with your daughter about a lot of serious issues. But you HAVE to be careful. Some of what you said can seriously **** a girls LONG TERM sex life up. These are her formative years. And shaming her into thinking that sex is dangerous and wrong and all boys are monsters might relieve you from the stress of the short term. Might even "save her" from some potentially bad decisions and consequences. But you also run the risk of stunting her personal develpment and giving her some serious issues, which she might resent you for later, if she gets over them.

02-14-2011, 09:43 AM	#1
mcan Apr 13,1949 – Dec 15, 2011 Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Kansas City, MO Casino cash: $9996085	I haven't read the responses, but overall I like the fact that you were straight up with your daughter about a lot of serious issues. But you HAVE to be careful. Some of what you said can seriously **** a girls LONG TERM sex life up. These are her formative years. And shaming her into thinking that sex is dangerous and wrong and all boys are monsters might relieve you from the stress of the short term. Might even "save her" from some potentially bad decisions and consequences. But you also run the risk of stunting her personal develpment and giving her some serious issues, which she might resent you for later, if she gets over them.
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