Women are taking over America! It's awful!

[Hammock Parties]

This is the truth! This country (and most of western society) is set up for a woman. Women now use sex as a way of control; she doesn't feel like it, she's too busy, she has to take care of the kids, etc. You know what? Too bad. If a husband doesnt feel like taking the garbage out, or going to see some play, or just talking for hours about nothing because he's too busy, has to take care of the bills, or work overtime, guess what he is? A jerk and she cries and everyone feels sorry for her.

A buddy of mine just got laid off from his job and it had nothing to do with his performance, either. The dude also works 3 or 4 nights a week delivering pizza. He is married with 4 kids. Guess where his wife works? She doesn't. The day he got laid off, guess what she does? Leaves to go stay with her sister for a few days.

She says he doesn't listen to her, and thinks he doesn't love her. Say what? If you knew the dude you'd think it was ridiculous, too. Dude would do anything for his wife. She's constantly calling and texting him at work to do stuff for her while she is at he moms or at home. The dude can never do anything right, but yet she leaves to go stay somewhere else at probably one of the most emotional times of his life. It's asinine! I'm not kidding when I say this: he has better character than just about any other human i've ever met! Ever! He's a great dad, and everytime there's a fight, all he does is look at himself and what she says he did wrong, it's never her. Just frustrates me. Like, no one could be a better husband. I mean, it would be damn near impossible. Seriously.

The sad part is, you know what it takes for a woman to appreciate a guy like that? years of being walked on. Then, when'if they do get smart and find a nice guy, that never lasts long because they will get tired of it and go find another jerk that makes them feel "young and alive."

There's a million stories like this I could tell you from married guys I know, and it's just stupid. Women have this warped perception that marriage revolves around the wife and if the man does something wrong, she has to remember it for 10 years and cut him off from every need he has (sex, time with his buddies, time to just veg and NOT talk), and it's okay.

These are the stories that get me fired up and tell myself I don't ever want to be divorced, so I better not get married in the first place!

Women are taking over America!

[BIG_DADDY]

One more thing, it's very important to be with a woman who has figured this part of relationships out. I can't tell you how many times I have met women who are attracted to real men only to want to change them and attempt to strip them of that role. This is a losing battle because if she can't she gets frustrated and one of them leaves the other and if she is successful she loses attraction for him. You will always recognize these women because they have countless attempts at relationships in their life.

[BIG_DADDY]

Originally Posted by Pants

roll? LOL

You're a dumbass.

It's actually very basic psychology so I wouldn't expect a PCer like yourself to understand.

[Donger]

The desire (or need) to "win" in a relationship, particularly marriage, is folly. If you win, they lose.

[Pants]

Originally Posted by BIG_DADDY

It's actually very basic psychology so I wouldn't expect a PCer like yourself to understand.

It's actually spelled "role", but I don't expect an ignorant bigot like you to understand.

"Roll" is what you do with dice.

P.S. I don't even completely disagree with you on this particular issue, women are designed to be attracted to alpha males, everyone knows this. It has nothing to do with maintaining a long relationship though.

[BIG_DADDY]

Originally Posted by Pants

It's actually spelled "role", but I don't expect an ignorant bigot like you to understand.

"Roll" is what you do with dice.

P.S. I don't even completely disagree with you on this particular issue, women are designed to be attracted to alpha males, everyone knows this. It has nothing to do with maintaining a long relationship though.

Really, you're going to call me names because I blasted out a post and mispelled a word even though it was right the 2nd time I posted the same word? Wow. Someone must be having a really bad day. I hope it gets better for you bro, I really do.

It has everything to do with a long tem relationships. That's the spark, the attraction factor. How many guys have you heard say something to the effect of " I am doing what she asked, why does she keep bitching at me? " Because you didn't come as advertise. You gave her the lead roll and went beta on her. How in the **** is she supposed to trust you to take care of her and a family in a brutal world when you can't even figure this out?

[BIG_DADDY]

Pants,

Now a negative rep calling me a phag. What's that all about? You have some real self-esteem issues dude. I hope you have a better day tomorrow.

[Pants]

Originally Posted by BIG_DADDY

Really, you're going to call me names because I blasted out a post and mispelled a word even though it was right the 2nd time I posted the same word? Wow. Someone must be having a really bad day. I hope it gets better for you bro, I really do.

It has everything to do with a long tem relationships. That's the spark, the attraction factor. How many guys have you heard say something to the effect of " I am doing what she asked, why does she keep bitching at me? " Because you didn't come as advertise. You gave her the lead roll and went beta on her. How in the **** is she supposed to trust you to take care of her and a family in a brutal world when you can't even figure this out?

It's not a misspell. You kept misusing the word and you still are. And it's nothing personal, I just hate bigots like you and Kotter to name a few. Your brain capacity is very limited.

[Pants]

Originally Posted by BIG_DADDY

Pants,

Now a negative rep calling me a phag. What's that all about? You have some real self-esteem issues dude. I hope you have a better day tomorrow.

I understand it's very hard for you to comprehend even the simplest of events, it's OK. That negrep came way before I even read your post in this thread, it has nothing to do with "now". Thanks for your concerns about my self-esteem, Dr. Phil.

[BIG_DADDY]

Originally Posted by Pants

It's not a misspell. You kept misusing the word and you still are. And it's nothing personal, I just hate bigots like you and Kotter to name a few. Your brain capacity is very limited.

I can see you have plenty of hate to go around. It's a pretty good reflection on yourself. The problem with politically correct thought is it's the aborted child of idealism and in order to buy into it you have to blindly follow the line ignoring all facts. I can understand why trying to support such positions would become frusterating and why you might have to resort to name calling, neg repping and questioning people's IQ. Once again a good look in the mirror might help you here. You still haven't told me what your real issue is with my POV. All I have received is a lot of venom.

[Pants]

Originally Posted by BIG_DADDY

I can see you have plenty of hate to go around. It's a pretty good reflection on yourself. The problem with politically correct thought is it's the aborted child of idealism and in order to buy into it you have to blindly follow the line ignoring all facts. I can understand why trying to support such positions would become frusterating and why you might have to resort to name calling and questioning people's IQ. Once again a good look in the mirror might help you here.

Not really. I dislike you because you belittle people who don't fit your personal criteria of "normalcy."

[BIG_DADDY]

Originally Posted by Pants

Not really. I dislike you because you belittle people who don't fit your personal criteria of "normalcy."

OK, still off subject. How did I belittle you?

[Donger]

What are you two boys fighting about, anyway?

[Pants]

Originally Posted by BIG_DADDY

OK, still off subject. How did I belittle you?

You didn't. I'm pretty sure I fit your criteria for normality.

[Bump]

If the woman gains weight after marriage, that's supposed to be ok.
If the woman has an IQ of less than 100, who cares?
If the woman has never had a job, but she has the "toughest job in the world" of sitting at home raising kids....give me a break....that's supposed to be fine.

All the woman has to do is fuck. The guy's have all of the burden's, the blame and the responsibilities. If the guy runs on some bad luck financially, then the marriage will be over.

[BIG_DADDY]

Originally Posted by Donger

What are you two boys fighting about, anyway?

Dude, I have no idea what this guys problem is with me. I am talking about the laws of attraction and the guy starts in calling me names all the while agreeing with me. Then came the negative repping referring to me as a phag. Still through all of this he can't give me a straight answer. I don't know, he obviously has some serious self-esteem issues. I am going to send him some positive rep to help him make it through the day.