Confronting a cheater

[Mecca]

Originally Posted by keg in kc

That's a good point, too.

I thought at first it was the typical "I've been wronged, I'm gonna kick his ass" testosterone-fueled reaction, but what I think I'm seeing here now is a 'women as victim' mentality, that the wives somehow aren't responsible for their own actions. Bad guys are tricking good girls into doing bad things that they don't really want to do.

Whereas I think women who cheat on their husbands know exactly what they're doing, and if it wasn't one guy it would be another. I don't think they're victims, and I don't think it's accidents. People don't just trip and fall into bed together.

Or if they do, I'm going to wrong parties.

They aren't victims although most of the situations are different, some women are like some men and just frankly can't be faithful, with others there are other factors.

I'll speak from my personal experience since Stevie brought it up ever so nicely. The married woman I was familiar with, had a husband who cared more about his job than his wife. He was barely around or paid her much attention, I think she just simply wanted someone to pay attention to her like she mattered. She was married but felt extremely lonely.