Confronting a cheater

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Originally Posted by Jilly

I think Katipan is full of wisdom, personally and I'd listen to her if I were you on this thread because she's spot on, imo.

But, in defense of this woman, it takes a lot of GUTS to leave the guy you're married to, you know? It's not like you can just up and walk out. It took me a good 4 years before I finally left my ex. And it isn't that I didn't know it was the right thing to do, it was all the embarassment I had to face in doing it. I'm not defending her, I'm just saying...walking away from your situation is a ****ing hard thing to do.

From what I understand she DID NOT LEAVE or walk away. They lived together.

It was the OP who believed that a woman was living with a man she'd broken up with and not sleeping with him anymore. Yet, he was helping her with the bills.

Sorry, the woman is not the bad person in this situation. She was doing what she was ALLOWED to do.